marylander1940

How many providers did you contact, and why it didn't work? Timing, distance, price? If you reached out to them by instant messaging is very easy for them to get back to you a few days later just by scrolling down their previous messages. If you did it by text some texting apps remind you of a former conversation and suggest you reach out again using artificial intelligence. It works similar to predictive text. For instance I just got a message on my texting app telling me it's time to continue certain conversation I had a week ago and suggesting what to say. Spooky, isn't? I have a feeling you are trying to create a self-fulfilling profecy of times being tough so clients can get a cheaper rate. Summers are usually tougher in big cities because people with money travel abroad.

Is not a big deal... many or most married gay men have open relationships. I guess there are also escorts who are married to another escort.

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It's always a polite thing to say: "I am about to do mouthwash, would you like to join me?" Unfortunately garlic remains for a long time mouthwash just can't beat it.

I want my men to be clean!

Amazing ass, dick, body, face, eyes, etc!

Communication is the main issue; providers can't read minds. Most folks think what they like is mainstream and that might not be the case. Specific requests based on fetishes should be made in a respectful way. At the same time beware of clients who come up with a list of dos' and don't because they might be hard to please or just difficult.

True but sometimes even clients misrepresent themselves or don't share any information at all. Besides in this age of Google voice and texting apps a person could have multiple identities. As much as I prefer to make arrangements directly with the provider I understand that sometimes engaging in endless texting takes so much of their day that some just don't have time to do it

Do you ask while texting if he's the escort or the handler? Many handlers simply don't tell you they're a 3rd person and not the escort.

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Gorgeous

Considering how long it takes to make plans by text and the fact that many potential clients get upset if an escort doesn't reply to them right away, I wouldn't be surprised if more guys allow someone to text for them while they work. We can call him a secretary or handler instead of a pimp...

if he's at his home he should be casual, a tight t-shirt would be appreciated

A nice t-shirt, a bit tight but not too obvious. Also, nowadays most hotels require a key card to use the elevators, therefore a more conservative attire might be considered if you're meeting him in the lobby or even in front of the elevators. Just don't dress like you're going to a rave party! No muscle shirts or too obvious clothing! Common sense which I'm sure you have!

Great point but the OP wants this as a side thing meaning potential clients should know he's not available 24/7. Unfortunately most clients don't read ads. Considering his description @ManBearPig won't have a problem getting horny and taking clients to fulfill his "nasty fetishes", etc.