CheeseBoy

Complete agreement. Tried pushing past my boundaries multiple times.

I’ve had two four hand massage experiences, both while traveling, and both were great. In usually avoid them, since they cost so much more. With the first, the masseur said he was training his partner on four hand, and even offered a discount. The second, I booked with one masseur, I was expecting a therapeutic massage, but it was clear early on that it was going to be very sensual. I was turned on, and probably not thinking with the right head, when he offered an upsell to have his partner join for a four hand massage. I’m happy I accepted that offer.

I’m looking to check him out. Anyone been to him? To help with feedback: I prioritize a good therapeutic massage, but also enjoy when it goes into sensual territory. Feel free to PM me.

If all the profile pictures are selfies, I don’t tend to give them as much consideration. Professional photos aren’t necessary, but have a buddy help you take a few shots, or at the very least use a tripod.

I agree the site itself seems very legitimate, but the requirement to prepay is what raised my concern.

My intention with a massage is therapeutic, but I do mind if it gets sensual. So I’m not disappointed if I don’t get aroused. Nonetheless, usually when I’m on my stomach and the masseur is working on my glutes or inner thigh. Or if he allows his bulge to rub against my hand. This is about ten years ago… One time with my usual masseur, who “pushed the envelope,” but who previously never pushed it to a HE. This must have been my tenth or so appointment with him. He always remained clothed, but we were at the comfort level where he stayed in the room while I disrobed and we made small talk. Since I was not expecting any extras, I was usually flaccid. But this particular time I was fully erect. He’s seen that before, but usually after I flipped onto my back. He definitely noticed but didn’t say anything. Massage proceeded as usual, but when he was massaging my glutes and inner thigh, I was hard (like usually), but he seemed to be bumping into my sack a bit more than usual. Nothing overt, but seemed more than accidental. He took me to the edge a few times, but always seemed to back off just in time. He asked me to flip over, and I was clearly aroused. At some point he had taken off his shirt. How’d I not notice that? And he’s never done that before. Well, this was the only time that he didn’t massage my quads or pecs. But I left happy and he was asking if I had any breath mints. This never repeated with him again, although I keep going to him for massage. Continued to be a good massage, but was always strictly therapeutic.

Thank you for confirming my intuition. Just wanted to confirm that I was not being excessively cautious or paranoid.

I contact a provider to schedule a massage. He directed me to use MassageBook, which wants me to prepay. Is this common? I’m hesitant, since I don’t want to get scammed. Advice?

There is a new ad for a provider in Austin. Anyone been to him before? Or recognize him from an ad on a different platform? Any red flags in the ad that I don’t see? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/52129/