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I have had a few sensual massages and tend to tip well. Last session was 90 minutes, he was really good! The cost was $280, I tipped $60. I'm very appreciative of a good massage with extras. I am an older guy, in good shape, and really like it when a masseur takes care of me!

Such a novice am I!! Never really thought about approaching a dancer to meet me after their shift. A new perspective to explore. Thanks COM!!!!!

I think it is easy to fall into the moments of being touched, aroused, cuddled, kissed, penetrated, as one would desire from a partner. Wondering how life would be if that was available 24/7. I snap myself into reality that these sessions are there to escape the realities of life and loneliness. Sure, to have these experiences at your disposal would be ideal but for me I realize it is not possible. Regardless of the provider, someone stated on this forum, if it wasn't for the $$$, I wouldn't be in the provider's circle. That keeps me grounded and not falling for someone. Now, I must admit, I do care about people and am very empathetic but realize a provider's life nowhere coincides with mine. 

I'm smitten with Luxe, will have to think differently after hearing he's straight and no men, no sex. Burst my bubble!

I will pay well for a great experience. You can't take it with you and I appreciate the work providers put into their efforts to accommodate me.

I have had a few sensual massages and tend to tip well. Last session was 90 minutes, he was really good! The cost was $280, I tipped $60. I'm very appreciative of a good massage with extras. I am an older guy, in good shape, and really like it when a masseur takes care of me!

I definitely identify with you. Emotional and psychological aspects are just as if not more important to me. These aspects totally turn me on and will share more information with a genuine authentic provider. At first, I reveal minimal information, once feeling safe and connected I will share more. I too am in the 0.00001%! I have always used my real name, even when first contacting a provider, why not?

For me, it depends on the situation. A regular provider would receive more information about me versus a one and done or traveling provider. I wouldn't provide my address as I always do outcall but do provide my real first name or nickname in all interactions. Always pay cash as well so my full name is not exposed. 

He previously posted quite a bit on Tick Tok. Seems like a nice guy.

He certainly is yummy! That cock would hurt so good!

Okay, this shows that there are two sides to every situation. At the time of my writing, I was frustrated and looking for advice, as I am new to this. Travis has received overwhelmingly great reviews and I am hopeful my remarks have not tarnished his reputation or steered anyone away from him. My insecurities and lack of experience with hiring may have sent the wrong message and I apologize for anything I may have caused. I truly respect the work of providers and would never intentionally set out to be negative toward anyone. Travis has reached out to me, a very nice and respectful gesture. 

Okay, this shows that there are two sides to every situation. At the time of my writing, I was frustrated and looking for advice, as I am new to this. Travis has received overwhelmingly great reviews and I am hopeful my remarks have not tarnished his reputation or steered anyone away from him. My insecurities and lack of experience with hiring may have sent the wrong message and I apologize for anything I may have caused. I truly respect the work of providers and would never intentionally set out to be negative toward anyone. Travis has reached out to me, a very nice and respectful gesture. 

Okay, this shows that there are two sides to every situation. At the time of my writing, I was frustrated and looking for advice, as I am new to this. Travis has received overwhelmingly great reviews and I am hopeful my remarks have not tarnished his reputation or steered anyone away from him. My insecurities and lack of experience with hiring may have sent the wrong message and I apologize for anything I may have caused. I truly respect the work of providers and would never intentionally set out to be negative toward anyone. Travis has reached out to me, a very nice and respectful gesture. 

He certainly is yummy! That cock would hurt so good!

I finally hired a provider! Top guy, great reviews. Beautiful body and topped me well. He was very complimentary of my body. We agreed on 2 hours. On our way up to my room he was all over me in the elevator. Once undressed he got more aggressive and frisky. It was an overall good experience, however, he and I finished about an hour into it. We showered, which was hot and he was gone. Only charged for 1 hour when it was about 1 hour 15 minutes. He said he couldn’t hold back. Conversation was great, but would have appreciated admiring him for the full 2 hours but he was ready to leave. Anyone else have a similar experience? Oh, he limited the areas of his body he did not appreciate having touched, not the D though, that was presented and well taken care of.

About 10 years ago, I scheduled a massage with a traveling masseur. Good looking, well built, advertisement and reviews were positive. Upon greeting me at his hotel I sensed by his look at me and demeanor, he was not pleased. I went through with the massage. While massaging me, I touched his leg (he advertised MT), he snarled! He completed the massage which was mediocre and I left. That situation left  me with a sour note and not pursuing another massage until recently. It could be my mind set has changed and now know I would simply leave if I encountered the same. He did not get a tip!!. 

I've had many disappointing experiences, but few that were so disappointing that I still remember them years later.  Surely one of the worst:  I hired a guy whose rate was high for a simple erotic massage, and his ad was so sexually suggestive that I (stupidly) assumed I would be getting more than an erotic massage.  Instead I got a poor therapeutic massage from a guy who kept his tank top and shorts on who talked incessantly during the massage.  There was nothing erotic about it.  I don't know if this was all part of his con artist act, but as I was dressing he spoke to me as if I could have possibly been satisfied and would want to book him again.  This occurred when I was inexperienced/naive enough to not speak up at all about the discrepancy between what his ad stated and what I experienced, so I just paid his fee and left.

I only hire masseurs who host. A guy with training, good looks and nice mentions here neglected to inform me that the apt where he lived and did his work was brand new.  
To him. 
He had just finished moving in. Fresh paint smell! 🥴Almost nothing aside from the kitchen was unpacked. He spent an inordinate amount of my time looking for everything but the table. Oil, sheets, towels, soap for the shower - none of it at hand. The massage was meh and I did not tip. He offered a freebie repeat, but, yeah...no.

Mine took place in NYC. I had first come across his RM profile when he lived overseas. I put him on my “One Day Wish List.” He moved to NY and I met him when I was there for a weekend. It was incredibly underwhelming. 
 
First, it was in a communal space where guys rent rooms for massages. He was running behind schedule with his previous appointment, so he ran out in bikini briefs and had me sit in a massage room. While sitting there, others guys kept coming in, looking at me waiting and then walking out. Not discreet and very uncomfortable. 
 
When I finally got on the table, the massage was so underwhelming I should have stopped and left. I guess I was waiting for it to get better. He kept using one hand to massage while texting with his other. By the time we got to the end, I just wanted it to be over. 
 
He messaged me after asking if I wanted to book another session. I never responded. He’s someone who gets good reviews on here, but alas mine was the opposite of most others experiences. 

I've had a few....and I all will say is...I have learned that if my instincts are telling me something....now I listen and respond accordingly.  I no longer "give them the benefit of the doubt" when my gut tells me otherwise

About 10 years ago, I scheduled a massage with a traveling masseur. Good looking, well built, advertisement and reviews were positive. Upon greeting me at his hotel I sensed by his look at me and demeanor, he was not pleased. I went through with the massage. While massaging me, I touched his leg (he advertised MT), he snarled! He completed the massage which was mediocre and I left. That situation left  me with a sour note and not pursuing another massage until recently. It could be my mind set has changed and now know I would simply leave if I encountered the same. He did not get a tip!!. 

I recently scheduled a 90 minute massage with ScottyThot. He was responsive and communicated well. The session was great and it turned out to be more than a massage. The massage itself was okay, the extras were exceptional. Those eyes, voice , smile, and oral skills sent me over the edge!

I started the year off right with a great masseur, can't wait for the next session. I have booked someone from RM mid-month. Hoping to get the masseur later this month. Happy New Year!!!

This thoughtful response is fantastic.  I think this escort may have just won me over as a future client. 

This was actually a pretty complicated question for me when I was setting up my profile, and it took a bit of trial and error to land where I ended up identifying: versatile/bottom.  
The truth of the matter is that I'm genuinely a case-by-case versatile guy.   I love both.  I do both as much as I can.   Left to my own devices, sexual position is determined by situation and chemistry, which means I usually end up topping.  But losing either from my life would be a genuine loss. 
The real complicating factor for me is that this isn't my full time job.  A very full week for me is four bookings.  So for me, I feel like it makes sense to be a bit more intentional in connecting with guys whose needs best align with my skill sets, more so perhaps than guys who are seeing clients daily.  And one of my favorite things - I might even say a skill of mine - is the versatile flip session.  Come to find out, there's a real population who thrives on that.  Similarly there's a population who leans one way or the other and wants to explore the other side too.  I still love a strict top and and a strict bottom always!  But it would be a big personal loss - not to mention a waste of some skills - for me to miss out on those vers flip guys.
Well, come to find out, the hiring population is so heavily slanted towards bottoms... (is this shocking news?) ... that listing as versatile is still the functional equivalent of listing as a top.  Meanwhile guys who are actually versatile or tops don't seem to find you without the word "bottom" in your profile.
Long story short,  I've settled into a somewhat inaccurate identifier as a way to navigate the reality of the landscape as it is.  And even with that, I'm still definitely topping more than I'm bottoming.  
Suffice to say, consider when you're looking at providers that their chosen position identifier might involve more nuance than you think.  Anything with the word "versatile" in it requires a conversation.  The broad demographic assumptions above are mostly true, but be careful applying those assumptions to individual providers!