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I personally don't care about rates as a client. I am more focused on the interaction. Not that I am made of money but my thought process is the connection versus $$$. If one has to haggle about price or is too concerned about it, perhaps other forms of connection should be pursued. I respect and appreciate providers that are willing to provide me with what I need. Just my perspective.

Have my first BFE booked next week. It has consumed me with thoughts of whether I can perform, will he like me, is he even attracted to me. I am nervous about it and have considered cancelling and giving up my deposit. After reading comments throughout this site I have a lot of resolve and will continue with the meeting and am in a much better psychological space knowing I am hiring for an experience, out of reality, to satisfy my needs. My money for an experience, not a partner or emotional attachment.

Another part about hiring providers. I am interested in knowing how to keep emotions out. I find I get an emotional attachment to providers and am wondering do providers and clients experience the same or will this subside as I continue on this journey. Asking as a newbie. I want to continue this journey. Really appreciate open, honest feedback.

I don't mind a beard, stubble or clean shaven. For me, it's about physical attributes and sensuality.

I started the year off right with a great masseur, can't wait for the next session. I have booked someone from RM mid-month. Hoping to get the masseur later this month. Happy New Year!!!

I start with MF and then look to see if the masseur is on RM. It gives me a good sense of what I can ask for in a massage if the masseur is on RM as well. More details are provided on RM which helps. I get excited to see both and of course the reviews help!

Thanks! The masseur is leaving the end of the month for a while and I want to book him prior to leaving.

I had an exceptional experience with a masseur and have booked another provider who is going to be visiting. My question is how far in advance of a desired appointment should you request it from a local masseur or provider. The exceptional masseur was last week and looking for 3 weeks from now. Is that weird or a turnoff for masseurs or providers? I understand visiting providers and getting scheduled in advance, how about local?

TravisChambers, I am so sorry to hear that a client would do that. I can't imagine what you went through and don't understand people who are so abusive.

Really great feedback! I also like to see providers accepting all ages and body types. I'm a bit older, 58, in good shape and treat everyone with respect and kindness. Comments here are helping with the psychological aspect.

Thank you for providing this Vegas. I am curious.

I am curious to know how providers are able to "perform" with individuals they are not attracted to. Is it a sense of simply providing a service to those who desire their services? Considered their job to make money alone? Some people hate their typical jobs, is it the same for providers? Are providers repulsed by some of their clients but yet follow through for the $$$? I understand clients need to vet providers, do providers refuse some clients, if yes, under what circumstances. I really want to understand as I embark with hiring providers. Any suggestions on how I should mentally approach hiring?

I have had a few sensual massages and tend to tip well. Last session was 90 minutes, he was really good! The cost was $280, I tipped $60. I'm very appreciative of a good massage with extras. I am an older guy, in good shape, and really like it when a masseur takes care of me!

Thanks, I may bite the bullet. Older threads seem positive. His website is interesting.

I hired TallTJ a second time a few weeks ago. Very nice guy, great to look at with a nice massage. Personable and very friendly.

Anyone have recent experience hiring Chicagotopper Dave? Thread on here is from 2013. He'll be in my hometown soon and looking for any feedback. www.chicagotopper.com