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About 10 years ago, I scheduled a massage with a traveling masseur. Good looking, well built, advertisement and reviews were positive. Upon greeting me at his hotel I sensed by his look at me and demeanor, he was not pleased. I went through with the massage. While massaging me, I touched his leg (he advertised MT), he snarled! He completed the massage which was mediocre and I left. That situation left me with a sour note and not pursuing another massage until recently. It could be my mind set has changed and now know I would simply leave if I encountered the same. He did not get a tip!!.

Where can I find the videos? Hie claims he does not date, so that might be the lie.

I recently scheduled a 90 minute massage with ScottyThot. He was responsive and communicated well. The session was great and it turned out to be more than a massage. The massage itself was okay, the extras were exceptional. Those eyes, voice , smile, and oral skills sent me over the edge!

His pics could be updated but still looks great. I'd say he's more muscular now with grayer hair.

Update on Chicagotopper. An exceptional experience! I was looking for passion, sensuality, and a good f***! Dave exceeded my expectations. The man has unreal stamina combined with stunning looks and a genuine sweet disposition. Dave knows how to accommodate and provide a memorable time. Definitely a repeat for me.

Does this type of description mean the provider is truly versatile and showing their preference? I know it's all about communication but when searching should a client expect versatile meaning they could experience topping or bottoming? For me, it's about the initial search of what the provider will provide. It's clear when the provider lists top/bottom/versatile, when combined, it's less clear to me. Just trying to learn here and understand communication of desires is needed, simply ask, and express what you're looking for. Simply looking for constructive comments or experiences. Really appreciate this forum for insights.

As I learn more about hiring providers and experiencing the thrill, I am curious to know if providers typically follow-up with their clients after a session. Should clients follow-up with the provider? Of course if one wants to book another session, a client would contact the provider. But should a client in general? It seems good business practice to follow up with clients to entice them back. As a client, would it be perceived as stalking? Appreciate any thoughts and/or experiences.

I'm looking forward to Riley's return to Chicago. I may have to re-mortgage my home!

By all means it was a pleasurable experience. Thanks for all the comments.

It was a pleasurable experience and he was very kind. Complimented me on my cleanliness and treated me very well. He did state he couldn't hold back and had to finish. One comment was he said my name is a young person's name that could be used as a porn star. Perhaps he was imagining someone different than what he met. In any case, it was a nice experience and would hire him again when/if I have the chance. It would be interesting to see if he accepts me again. At the end of our session, I said "how much do I owe you/" His response was "just pay me for an hour." I did, and gave a nice tip. This experience has stimulated me to engage in more. I'm guessing this here is a unique situation. For me, it doesn't make business sense.

I finally hired a provider! Top guy, great reviews. Beautiful body and topped me well. He was very complimentary of my body. We agreed on 2 hours. On our way up to my room he was all over me in the elevator. Once undressed he got more aggressive and frisky. It was an overall good experience, however, he and I finished about an hour into it. We showered, which was hot and he was gone. Only charged for 1 hour when it was about 1 hour 15 minutes. He said he couldn’t hold back. Conversation was great, but would have appreciated admiring him for the full 2 hours but he was ready to leave. Anyone else have a similar experience? Oh, he limited the areas of his body he did not appreciate having touched, not the D though, that was presented and well taken care of.

I looked at his X account. Seems like a terrible kid.

Many years ago in Windsor Canada, I was enjoying the evening with all the hot nude dancers. As the evening progressed, one of the dancers, approached me and asked if I would like private time with him. Of course I said yes. Well after his shift, he took me to his apartment where we had animal sex. No charge!! A fond memory for sure. What I didn't realize is he wore a heavy rubber band on stage to keep hard. That wasn't needed at his apartment!

Texting, he asked "Do you have an idea when you're looking to get together?" My response "2 weeks or so." Zippo response. Was my response odd? Was that too far in advance?

I am surprised with Travis as well since he's highly recommended. Truly thought he may have become my regular here in Chicago based on his profile and member comments on this site. Disappointed to say the least. Fortunate to live in a city with many options, I'll keep searching. I don't have the desire to pursue a provider that discards me. My contact with him was via phone which I think is more personal and shows intent. I'm not going to try to guess his reasoning. Just sharing my experience as asked. I really like this forum and grateful for everyone's input.

ArcAdams cancelled 4 hours before our session, plans changed, he could not host. Travis Chambers went radio silent when I attempted to schedule two weeks out.

This masseur is coming to my hometown and wondering if anyone has has an experience with him. Seems interesting and reasonably priced.

Mn, I cannot find anything about this guy.

This is a very interesting topic. For me, I would love to have a younger stud bang the hell out of me. However, I find comfort from someone older who knows the ropes and can better relate to me psychologically.

I think it is easy to fall into the moments of being touched, aroused, cuddled, kissed, penetrated, as one would desire from a partner. Wondering how life would be if that was available 24/7. I snap myself into reality that these sessions are there to escape the realities of life and loneliness. Sure, to have these experiences at your disposal would be ideal but for me I realize it is not possible. Regardless of the provider, someone stated on this forum, if it wasn't for the $$$, I wouldn't be in the provider's circle. That keeps me grounded and not falling for someone. Now, I must admit, I do care about people and am very empathetic but realize a provider's life nowhere coincides with mine.

For me, it depends on the situation. A regular provider would receive more information about me versus a one and done or traveling provider. I wouldn't provide my address as I always do outcall but do provide my real first name or nickname in all interactions. Always pay cash as well so my full name is not exposed.

I applaud you being concerned about your clients and believe you did the right thing. Interestingly, I was going to post my experiences this past week. Three separate occasions, one I scheduled a provider well in advance for me to come to him. Confirmed the day before and on the day of the appointment, he cancelled 4 hours before the appointment stating he could not host. The second, several texts with a provider, all was going well, he asked when do you want to scheduled, I responded in two weeks, he stopped responding. The third, a masseur, I texted with a generic question asking how much time he needed prior to booking, he never responded. All three of these providers were highly rated/recommended. From the client's perspective it is frustrating and my mind went to what is wrong with me? I won't bad mouth a provider that cancels and would appreciate your approach to reschedule. My experience, this week, scheduling or trying to has led me to rethink my desire to seek another provider. Again, your concern and protection of others is commendable.

He certainly is yummy! That cock would hurt so good!

Anyone with experience with: JackMidwest

I DM'd him with a very basic, non sexual request for advice. no response, however, he has responded when complimented. I'm sure he receives many DMs and unable to respond to all. Just found it interesting.