big-n-tall

To me, outdated pics are worse than faceless/headless pics. However, there are conditions to that. I mean if the person looks the same, but has something additional like a beard, hairier body, tattoo(s), haircut, or not as cut/defined, to me that's not enough of a change to be bothersome. If I'm meeting the guy for the first time and his pics show an adonis and when we meet he's built more like Gollum... we have a problem. Although I have seen some guys over years that went from hyper-muscled to chubby or beefy. In those cases, I know the guy is still the same fun guy I met and I still enjoy my time. I continue to see them. The faceless/headless thing, as long as I know the guy in the pics is the same guy I'll meet, I'm ok with it. I've met a good number of guys who used faceless shots. A lot of them retired and I still see them (platonically and sexually). If fact three of the guys that never showed their faces in their ads (as far as I know) are some of my best and continuous hires.

Thanks for the clarity, but no need to apologize. I didn't feel like you were attacking me... just making your opinion known.

First, if your opening statement/question is directly in reference to the escort I speak of... you're making assumptions about all his encounters and I only addressed one he spoke of. He has many great reviews from what I've seen. So I guess his encounters aren't too variable in satisfying his clients. I can't speak for every encounter he has... just the one he mentioned when we talked about reviews. Realistically I know an escort and a client's interaction can be vastly different from each encounter... no matter how hard each person in said encounter tries... it may work or may not work. We all can and often respond differently to stimuli, even if we encounter the exact same stimuli. Am I all right with it? Because I can't control someone's interactions with another individual, especially an encounter I have not an ounce of input or influence in... I don't care. Neither individual is a mechanical automaton and things don't always click. I have read high praise for a few escorts on these forums, that my encounters with said performer was meh or just ok. Just as ones I find outstanding don't always get the highest praise. I agree. Discussing, ahead time, what each individual expectations are before a meet up prevents or tampers this phenomenon. But every client doesn't speak up... assumptions are made... etc., etc. Expectations in this type of thing is definitely a 2-way street. If every encounter was a guaranteed home run, there would be no need for reviews. Reviews should be a guideline for any encounter, but I don't expect everything in a review I read to happen exactly the same.

Although I agree the sterilized reviews aren't necessarily as helpful in some regards, they still can dole out a lot of pertinent information to prospective clients (and other escorts). Anything to help someone make an informed decision is great. On a related tangent, I think maybe the sterilized reviews are in some ways better for the escort. One escort I spoke to, about reviews in general, said that although he appreciated the reviews, he felt that sometimes highly detailed reviews gave false impressions of how an encounter will go. YMMV and all. He said one client asked him why the "x... y... and z" of the encounter wasn't similar to what he read in some of his reviews. So crazy as it may sound, keeping the reviews toned down may tamper a client's maybe unrealistic comparison of expectations between review and actual encounter.

This happened a couple days ago. Sorry if it’s already been posted about. https://www.nytimes.com/2019/10/04/arts/television/diahann-carroll-dead.html

Besides camming, what actual porn has he been in? What scenes has he done with other porn actors for what studio? If he's done actual man-to-man porn how many scenes has he done? I'm not asking to be facetious, but out of curiosity. To me and I'm sure others... saying a cam model (one that is not well known) is a pornstar is, pardon the pun... hard to swallow. I understand you really like the guy, but you and a few others popping up and posting everywhere you can about one particular guy comes across as trolling.

Uhm... I don’t think he’s a pornstar.

He’s cute... but an accent does not Apollo make. I’m paraphrasing here.

He's only been on RM since late August. So little over a month. Not everyone racks up reviews instantaneously.

I inquired about him. I asked if he was willing to travel (to my area) for a possibly an overnight or longer. The response was that he escorts part-time (other reasons were given that I will not disclose) and does not travel. That's as much info as I have for you.

I don't think there is an average because people do different things depending on their horniness and how much money they have. If you feel you're seeing too many, then cut back. It's going to be hard to pinpoint a frame of reference comparing your situation to others. I've only hired 4 guys this entire year. One, in particular, I've just seen many many times.

Personally I think I’m cute. I’ve heard everything from some people saying I’m ugly and to others saying I’m very handsome. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. With that said, I’ve hired all types, I don’t always hire for looks alone. So I say fuck it. You find someone attractive to hire, whether they’re plain or devastatingly handsome, have fun. I know it’s not the easiest but don’t worry about your looks or whether you are worthy. A good escort will find a way to make you and the moment feel special and amazing.

https://onlyfans.com/filofficial I have not joined... yet.

He has an onlyfans page. I don't know if he's done porn for any particular studio.

You should see the penis pic they sent with the Adonis email blast. I want to marry him. LOL! Just image this one with him looking directly at the camera and no white shorts.

No experience... but the penis is obviously photoshopped in pic #1. So if you hire him don't expect his member to nearly that big.

Might I suggest https://www.hoteltonight.com/ If I was in his area and neither of us could host... I'd definitely book a hotel asap.

I haven't met him but I've got my eyes on MauryJ. https://rent.men/Mauryj He used to list as a bottom but recently switched to versatile. I think he's more of a bottom though from another profile of his I've seen.

To be fair, he's only been a member of RM since Sept 24. He's probably too new to have any substantial reviews. So you may have to try him out and review him.

Hence my reluctance to try and reschedule.

Because he doesn’t say who I won’t out him publicly. However if you pm me I’ll let you know.

I’m certain he is. However since I haven’t met him in person I can’t say for absolute certainty.

I haven’t met him in person. We were communicating and hit it off very well. We planned a meet up and he was going to fly out to my location. I offered to buy his ticket but he preferred if he paid for it and I’d reimburse him. I think he didn’t want me to know his real name. (something I would need to purchase his ticket.) In any case, the day he was supposed to arrive I contacted him to see if everything was going smoothly. (He was going to catch a morning flight and be in my area in the evening.) Well he over slept, (supposedly) missed the flight and we never met. I’d still like to meet him some day. He seems like he’s a lot of fun. However there is a reluctance on my part dealing with someone who may not be good at keeping schedules... especially since my own schedule can be hectic.

There may have been more but after sesta/fosta acts were passed in Congress... Daddy’s Reviews deleted/hid from view many of the reviews depending on the apparent content of said reviews. So it’s possible he had more than one. In fact, looking at his review, the one posted is review #4.

He is new to the Chaosmen site but not new to porn. He went by Jackson Traynor on the men.com related sites. Earlier in the year, he was represented by planetjockboys.com, but shortly after being on the site he retired from porn and escorting. His image has also reappeared on the PJB site too. So I guess he's back to doing both.