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He’s been around awhile. He’s changed his name a few times over the years and changed his name at list twice since he resurfaced on RM. He was a dancer for Adonis Lounge. When he first started to advertise I recall he was only muscle worship, then he switched to top, and now he lists as versatile.

i don’t know if it’s common practice. However, I think it really depends on the connection or relationship you have with the provider. If you have a rapport with the guy and have seen him multiple times then I think it’s ok. If it’s someone you just met it may weird them out a little (unless it was a monetary gift lol!) Have I given gifts randomly to long standing providers? Yes. It hasn’t always been because of the holidays. I’ve given paintings and drawings I made to providers I’ve become friends with just because I know it will make them happy. There is a small number of providers that I’ve become incredibly close with. So much so that our relationship/friendship goes well beyond a client/escort one. That small group gets a birthday or Christmas (sometimes both) gift each year. They in turn give me a gift (usually a Christmas gift) each year. One guy who was studying to go into the medical field hadn’t given me anything. He kept promising me as soon as he was out of school and had more disposable funds to expect gifts. He kept his word. There have been a few times some of these guys have teared up because the gift was so specific to something they loved dearly. When that happens my heart just melts.

I haven’t met him. His ad lists kissing and the ad copy seems to stress that he is a top.

I don’t know if any of them are raking in the moolah with their fan sites, but I don’t think any of them have stopped escorting because of what they are earning from those sites. At least not the ones I listed links to. The ones with their ads frozen are both overseas. Their ads are probably frozen because of the pandemic. If they were no longer escorting they could let their ad expire or take it down completely. Having it frozen seems to imply they plan to return to it when they feel it’s safe. Also, just because their ads are frozen, it doesn’t mean they aren’t seeing clients, especially long-standing ones. The ones that are expired... Rusty and Woody, seem to escort off and on. So they may or may not return. As far as I can tell, Rusty doesn’t have a fan site. If Woody was making so much money with onlyfans, why would he need to escort. The fact that he acts like escorting is beneath him in his ad copy and yet he’s advertising tells me that he does indeed need the extra money. The rest have onlyfans pages but are still actively escorting.

@JoeMendoza a lot of the guys you posted at one time escorted. The one that I’m still bothered I didn’t pursue when he did was Roman Todd. With that said a few you have listed are escorting currently. It’s not out of the realm of possibility you can meet them> Ty Roderick Josh Moore (his ad is frozen and he’s overseas) Woody Fox (although he comes across as an asshole in his ad copy and stuff I read from and about him online — ad expired) Rusty Stevens (ad expired) Rafael Alencar Logan Moore (ad frozen) Max Adonis I definitely will hire Max some day. I’ve always thought he was sexy handsome and enjoyed sex a lot. Lol! After watching how happy go lucky and cute he is on his YouTube channel... I want him even more. He seems so kind and sweet, but clearly is a freak in the sheets.

Although I don't deliberately seek out straight escorts. I have hired a few. Not because they identified as straight but because of their intos. If they were willing to kiss and were willing to bottom I'd hire. I rarely hire someone for strictly muscle worship or topping me anymore, but there are a few straight identifying guys I would hire for sure (even if kissing and them bottoming were off the table). Porn actor Eddie Dean (who clearly likes to be worshiped, his ass rimmed, and played with if you watch his porn) is one such guy. He advertised on Rentmen recently. The ad is frozen. I'm kicking myself for not reaching out to make some type of connection. I'm hoping he unfreezes it. https://rent.men/EddiePhysique https://di.phncdn.com/videos/202007/29/337298111/original/(m=eaAaGwObaaaa)(mh=TA9ntnN-JOoABbSk)11.jpg

Definitely a fetish... it being weird or not is relative. It maybe weird to some and not to others.

I had to applaud you for your Dragon Ball Z reference.

For those interested porn actor Dylan Knight has reactivated his rentmen account. https://rent.men/Dylan_Knight Although he doesn't have current pics in his ad (except pic #3 maybe), judging by his twitter account, he still pretty much looks the same.

Thanks for to all for the advice and comforting thoughts. I'm trying to keep level headed about it to try not to be in a constant state of crying. I've lost a number of family friends this and last year from various health reasons. So this coming out of left field isn't helping me to cope very well. He's in his late 30s. I'm not sure where he is currently. He was staying with relatives (whom I don't know). I don't know if he's even back home now, staying with relatives, or somewhere else entirely. He didn't expressly state a plan or anything else besides saying he has been in a bad place the last few weeks and doesn't want to put me and others through the turmoil. I too hope it's just his frustrations with what's going on with the world and his injury. Either way, I don't take his statement(s) about not wanting to wake up, lightly. I texted him again, saying I can't just sit by and do nothing. I reiterated my support and love of him. I told him I wasn't upset he he felt the need to isolate himself, but I'd be saddened if he harmed himself. I supplied a prevention hotline number.

A friend of mine recently got injured and has been on the mend. My friend lives on the other side of the country. So I can't visit but I have been in semi regular contact to check in via phone/text. I don't want to go into great detail, but my friend seemed to be sinking into depression. I do/did my best to make him see things will improve. It'll just take time to heal. Well I texted my friend today to check in. Today he asked me to stop contacting him and to not take it personally. That he goes to bed and hopes not to wake up the next morning. I told him I'd respect his wishes but that he needed to go talk to a professional immediately. I told him I loved him. I'm rather distraught. I really don't know what I can do. I love this guy, he's been a a good friend for a decade. I've been talking with friends and family and I'm not getting anywhere really. I'm on the verge of tears right now, just hoping it's a phase he's in and will snap out of it before he does something he can't reverse. I don't know why I'm posting this here. I just am really upset.

The earlier reports of people getting reinfected was met with some skepticism. It was suggested people where still suffering symptoms from the initial infection after it seemed they had gotten over it. With that said, there was a few recent cases of people being reinfected with a different strain of Covid than they got initially infected with. I haven't read anything about how quickly someone can be reinfected with the same strain, if at all. Each person has to accept their own level of comfort with anything that can be a risk.

I have no knowledge of the provider. Unless he has advertised before under a different name, he has only been on RM for just under a month. I’m not surprised there is little to no info on him. He appears to be too new for any substantive input... for now anyway.

Jesse Williams is perfection. I first noticed him in the horror movie "Cabin in the Woods." I was so excited to possibly see him in flesh (and nude) in the Broadway revival of "Take Me Out" this past Summer. DAMNED COVID!!!!!!!!! ?

Never have I ever pissed on someone. ? I have had some people ask and a lesser amount want to pee on me, but I just can’t bring myself to do either... for now anyway. ?

I don’t think he escorted openly. Some clients have the money to get some guys who normally don’t escort (at least not openly) to meet up. Sadly I’m not one of them. Lol!!!

Seth started off doing gay porn and switched successfully over to straight porn. If he escorts for guys he doesn’t do it openly.

Muscle Matt and Carlo both had ads on Rentboy. However, I think they used it to get people to film with.

I think it’s the case of a hot guy using someone else’s pics. If the reviews on that site are to be believed, then it might be a risk worth taking. I’ve seen the ad before and although he isn’t in my area, I have been tempted to reach out.

Valentin Petrov recently filmed a scene for Naked Sword. It isn’t beyond the realm of possibility that he might start escorting again.

- I usually have intense orgasms topping (I mostly top), bottoming, or going solo? So, I can’t say if it’s any different or better. I will say I have had tops really get turned on that I orgasm while they top me. However, it’s not because of them solely. I have to jerk off to cum while bottoming. For me, it just doesn’t happen from bottoming without manual stimulation. - Some people just aren’t wired to cum from bottoming. Just like some people get really turned on from nip play and can actually cum from that and others hate their nipples played with. So it could be physical and there is nothing much he can do about that as far as I know. It could also be a mental thing. That he wants to orgasm while being fucked so very much that it’s always a thought in his head. Which, ultimately makes it an impediment to it happening. Also I hope your friend isn’t using porn as an example/guide as to how things will or should happen in a live session. A lot of times the scenes are edited to seem as though the bottom is cumming from anal stimulation solely. Hell, some of the tops can’t cum from strictly topping. Lol!! - The best thing I can suggest is to try not to think about it. Let go and enjoy the session. At the very least he can jerk off while bottoming and that may help the situation. I don’t know if your friend already does or not. - To reiterate not everyone is wired the same. We get turned on by different things. Just because one particular person can cum from strictly bottoming doesn’t mean everyone will be able to. He should enjoy the moment and stop stressing over something that may or may not be achievable for him. I hope that helps.

I believe he still sees long standing regulars but I can’t say he’s seeing new people. Although during the pandemic he may have pulled back further. I will probably see him this week as he’s in my area, but it will be purely platonically.

I like when a guy moans, groans, growls, whimpers, or talks dirty. So I think it's hot. I do hate it though when the guy seems to force the sounds or fakes the verbal pleasure. I myself am pretty quiet until I'm about to orgasm and when I do... I can get rather loud. Before then I get rather focused and I have been told I get this "quietly aggressive" passion. I'm rarely verbal. I have had guys want me to talk dirty to them and I always feel awkward. The exception being when I have bottomed for a few providers. I think the guy i enjoyed being verbal with the most was Michael Vincenzo. It would turn him on to no end to talk dirty and I could discernibly control when he orgasmed by how dirty I talked to him and when. It helped a lot he could orgasm multiple times.

We have some similar interests. I have met Tryp, Mike, and Brian. I met Tryp in San Diego when he was still under contract with Sean Cody and used another name and hid his face. He used to escort out of DC for a number of years before heading back to the west coast. Yup Jeremy Bilding escorted and did do so even after he switched to strictly filming straight porn. If he still escorts for guys, he doesn’t do so publicly. I never met him. Of the ones you listed whom I know escorted Roman Todd is my biggest regret missing out on. He used to escort through planetjockboys. I don’t know why I never made an effort to set up a meet up.