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You are not only odd duck in this pond. James B. I agree with you. Freshly showered, a light cologne and a bit of mild deodorant is essential for me and my date or provider. Then as things heat up and you work up a sweat, it’s pleasant. My first hookup didn’t shower or wear deodorant and it was not a pleasant experience, or one I would want to repeat.

I make this clear before hiring any provider or hooking up. I will NOT tolerate ANY kind of smoking before, during or right after a session. As a former cigarette and pot smoker, I find the stale smell of tobacco or pot to be nauseating. Especially on your providers breath! Even though I prefer a freshly showered approach, before a session. I can tolerate some natural body odor, over the disgusting and revolting smell of smoke! BTW I quit smoking 30 years ago! Best decision of my life!

https://rent.men/WalkinWishlist I think Ben Nicholas is awesome and sexy! If he is not available, when you visit San Antonio, let me suggest an alternative. WalkinWishlist has 102 5 star ratings on RM, and more importantly has been given all positive feedback on CoM. He is in San Antonio regularly, based in Houston. He is fairly tall (5’ 10”), a TOP, muscular, handsome and well hung. He definitely knows how to take control and keep things interesting! Lastly, he is a really sweet and friendly guy! Check out his pics and videos on RM.

Any other recent updates on WalkinWishlist?

Great advice and I would follow everything you have stated. I personally have had certain bank cards, flag, deny and reverse my charges for large, unusual out of state bank charges. I will NEVER use a bank credit card again, to book a provider!

Thank You, williamv for responding. He has a lot of 5 star ratings. I did a reach out to him, and he got back to me in a timely manner and was really personable and sweet. I will make sure I book him, when he comes back to NYC. Thanks again!

Has anyone had a recent meeting with him. He is in SF right now. Was in Miami in the last months, as well. He ticks all of my boxes. He is a beautiful man!

My experience is very limited. I’ve only been hiring for a short time! But I am selective when it comes to the age of my provider. Being 64, my provider needs to over 30. Love the guys over 40, 50 and 60, as well! Because of my age, I feel like I am robbing the cradle, if I hire a twenty something! 🤣

Hey Guys! As always, I appreciate and respect the honest and accurate advice on providers in this forum. In the case of DaddyBoyToy I am going to try to schedule him, for early summer, when I visit Atlanta. Two reasons, first he is a gorgeous, hot bottom! Which I crave, need and want, at times. Secondly, his story and interview really resonates with me. I have great empathy for the struggles that he has gone through. Hoping for the best! I will let you know how it goes. Appreciate all of you!

Thanks for the great feedback on Gentleman_Justin. I am going to NYC in the near future, and he has been on my radar for a bit. Definitely wiil be booking him when I’m in town. DAMN he is HOT!!

I’ve noticed that trend myself, where they put a water bottle or a can of soda next to their dick. It seems to work well and gives the client an easy, accurate measurement of his dick. Btw: There is a provider in Texas, that I am friendly with, who on his RM account states, I’ve never measured it, but it’s big! Unlike some other providers who don’t measure up…..He doesn’t need to use the tried and true angles or random objects to prove that everything is bigger in Texas! That definitely applies to that provider’s dick! 🍆

Apparently, you are more attractive than you let on! Also, you may giving off some strong pheromones yourself, and are not even aware of it! If you discover your secret super powers…..please let the guys in this community know. I assure you, there are many of us who would welcome these types of BOLD encounters at the gym! 🤣

I am in agreement on that theory as well. In Philly, trans black females are targeted by violence at a much greater rate than the rest of the LGTBQ+ community. In the suburbs of our city, the trans bathroom issues in schools have caused some heated debates at local school board meetings. My personal opinion is the trans backlash plays a major role in the negatively expressed towards the gay community.

Your observations are spot on about clients and customers in every industry! Although, I believe the escort providers, have more than their fair share of flakes. My favorite RM provider no longer accepts clients under 35 years old, due to the constant ghosting, game paying and general disrespect!!!

He certainly isn’t shy!! Looks like he is actively seeking new clients. Somehow that doesn’t inspire confidence in me to hire him. Although, his body is HOT! We will see which head wins this battle! lol

I am really sad to hear of your bad experience with your provider in New England. Don’t let that negative experience make you bitter and negative, about future experiences. As several on this thread have said, don’t pay up front, ever! Even if you find a provider with good reviews on RM and RM…….definitely make sure you check their reputation with The Company of Men forum. I am fairly new to hiring, and the REAL and ACCURATE reviews from this community, have never let me down. After a short break, if you follow the advice on this thread, you will have a great time with some awesome provders! Good luck!

Anyone had a recent encounter with MACHOSTUDD. He is now in NYC. He messaged me on RM in early December. Now regretting my decision not to connect with him, when he was in Philly. Feel free to DM if you want. Thanks.

Thanks GovernorD, for the thorough and detailed assessment of your experience with Bryan Grove. He is definitely my type and age, and I am an older Chubb, so I shouldn’t mind the extra weight. Although, providers should be posting recent and accurate photos of themselves. The fact that he seemed distracted, is a real turn off for me. There are many other provders to choose from, who are eager and enthusiastic for their clients business.

Thank you Elite_XL for sharing some great and healthy ways to deal with emotions that many clients might encounter when hiring a provider. One additional action, I take when I feel like my emotions toward a provider, are becoming unhealthy, is to start looking for an additional provider. It definitely helps to take that energy and focus on a positive action, and helps break the cycle of obsessive thoughts and emotions towards your only provider. It has worked well for me.

Thanks guys, for all the helpful information on Danielni. I was seriously thinking of taking the plunge with him, now that he is in Philly. I have decided to pass, do to the negative comments about his outdated and deceptive pics. I really trust and rely on the accurate and reliable reviews on this forum.

I would pay an exorbitant amount of money to spend one night with Colby Keller! He is YUMMY! I think I made that abundantly clear in another thread! lol

He is in Philly now. Anyone have a recent session with him? He has a gorgeous, tight, toned body! Definitely my type.

Well…..At 64, a chub and ED issues, my chances are SLIM to be a provider! lol But it is a fantasy of mine!!! Never say never!!

Thanks for posting this topic, jbro. I am equipped with a fun sized piece. So, I would also be very interested in any stories related to this topic! My fear is that I will be the last post on this thread! lol