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@d.anders I agree 100 % that nobody should loose their life savings caring for their family members. It is morally and ethically wrong. Every citizen in the richest country in the world, deserves quality lifetime healthcare that everyone can afford. Canada and the UK provide universal healthcare for all of their citizens. Unfortunately, at this time we live in an environment where taking care of fundamental human rights is no longer the priority. I am truly sorry for the loss of your parents. And the huge, additional burden of loosing your life savings. That is heartbreaking.

That is a HOT and SEXY guy!

@Doe Be Doe I agree with your assessment of the current crop of providers in Nashville. I was thinking of visiting music city this summer. Might be changing my plans, due to the lack of variety.

My brother and I were raised in a very conservative background. After my brother graduated from college, he literally became a recluse. Unless he experimented in college, he may have died a virgin at 61. I have been with 3 women, including my wife, and 4 male escorts. So I guess that makes me the slut of my family!!

My wife recently retired from her position as an ER nurse after 40 years. We reside in the suburbs of Philly. She got this respiratory bug, and I can’t recall her ever being this sick. She had the worst cough, runny nose and lost her voice for the past few weeks. My brother and sister in law also, struggled for weeks with it. This is one nasty virus!

@BlackSheep You have got some great advice from @maninsoma@Nightowland @purplekow. I wanted to add a personal experience I had in the past. I had a similar situation with my best friend from my old neighborhood. We spent everyday together and were inseparable, well into our twenties. He was the one that said some really hurtful things to me. Frankly, to my embarrassment and dismay, I could never get past the hurt and pain of his mean and harsh remarks. What I failed to realize for a long time, is that I was attracted to him and was romantically in love with him. Could your deep hurt and sadness and rejection, be caused by the fact that you were in love with your friend? If that might be the case, you need to work through those feelings of loss and get on with your life. You may need to see a therapist to help you navigate all those buried feelings. I know therapy helped me understand and heal the unresolved feelings of hurt and loss of a dear friend, who I loved. I hope with the great advice from this forum and my personal experience, that you can heal and move forward with a positive outlook and energy. Life is too short to stay stuck in the past. Wishing you all the best.

I am not into muscle mass myself. But, you have to respect and admire the discipline and hard work it takes to develop and maintain that muscle mass! He looks and sounds like an amazing guy! I hope all of you muscle worshipers get to enjoy this beautiful man!

YIKES! He looks about the age of my great grand children!!! In the 12-15 year old range! I find that alarming!

Prices at my local WAWA (popular convenience stores on east coast), was $3.89 a gallon, in Philly. Down 10 cents from last fill up! That is not bad, after seeing what some of you are paying in other states.

I started watching my wife, and she also felt it was too chaotic. She is away on a girls weekend,I will give it another try. His HOT and yummy body is the perfect reason to give it another try! 😍

Before the session begins, in a friendly and positive manner, let the provider know that if either one of you, cums quickly, you still want to the full hour with them. Tell them what you enjoy after you have both climaxed. Try for a second round, even if you don’t cum. Maybe some kissing, cuddling, pillow talk. Any good provider should have no problem with these requests.

Please take all the great suggestions from the previous comments on this thread! There is some awesome advice on this thread for you! Welcome to the forum, @bigfattie! I understand your reservations, better than most. I have only been hiring for less than a year. I am a virgin with men, not with women, so this has been a whole new experience for me. Having sex with men, has been an interesting and amazing journey. I am a much bigger guy than you. I am 6’ 1” and weigh 285 lbs and I am 64 years old. I truly thought I would find one or two providers, who would give oral, rim, top or bottom me. To my pleasant surprise, every provider I have contacted was very supportive and willing to provide all the services that I was curious about. Even though I prefer being a Side, which for me entails, oral, rimming and other fetishes. The key to a successful and enjoyable encounters with providers is fairly simple. Most importantly, communicate clearly what you want and need. Also, be kind, pleasant and respectful, which you sure seem to be. Of course, being really clean and hygienic, which you are. I also am always on time and give a tip for great service. If you follow these steps, I promise you will a number of great providers to choose from. You will be amazed how much fun and great sex you can experience! My only regret in exploring my gay sexuality is that didn’t start hiring years ago! Get out there and find some great providers, who will give you the tools to explore and enjoy some awesome sex with a variety of guys!

DAMN! He is a gorgeous guy!

@JB_Studio38 you are spot on with your assessment about Dallas and the state of Texas. I have befriended a well established and well reviewed provider from Houston. He travels to Dallas, San Antonio and Austin. Despite being a provider with 8 years experience and over 100 5 star reviews on RM and all positive comments on CoM, he is really struggling to make ends meet. Those cities are just over saturated with providers. Whatever decisions you make about your touring, I wish you much success and all the best!

WOW! He is one hot and yummy guy!

Paid $3.99 for regular unleaded in the suburbs of Philly today! Anything under $4.00 a gallon, seems like a good deal to me!

My late friends, had one of the best long term gay partnerships and marriages, that I am aware of. There was a 25 year age gap between them. @PhileasFogg said it best!!

Well guys, it’s time I confessed what I thought PNP meant, when I first started looking at RM accounts. Never thinking that HARD drug use would be displayed on a well reviewed escort’s profile…..PNP must mean PENETRATION with NO PROTECTION. Until I noticed very quickly that some of these providers also had safe sex only or no bare backing on their profiles. Then when I googled PNP and WOW was I embarrassed and humiliated! Guys….Feel free let me have it!!!Snark and insults are welcome!! I don’t take myself seriously and have a good sense of humor! LOL

@marylander1940 your advice is spot on! Personally, every provider I have been interested in, I have been open and honest about my height, 6’ 1” , my weight, 285 lbs, my age at 64 years old, and that I don’t top or bottom. I have never been rejected by any provider that I was interested in hiring. Being open and honest also sets a positive tone, so you can be relaxed and enjoy your session.

Loosing @BenjaminNicholas and @Simon Suraci on this forum should be a huge wake up call to all of the members on CoM. These providers are the ultimate professionals in every sense of the word. Even as a fairly new member, I found their posts to be extremely valuable and helpful in the hobby we all claim to love. I will greatly miss their presence, humor, intellect and their life experiences. Going forward, I hope this community can be more patient, kind and supportive of the providers and other clients that are active on these forums.

Wishing I was joining this CoM fun filled Palm Springs gathering! Hoping a few of you will share some stories with the members unable to attend! Wishing you all a great time together! Does what happens in Palm Springs, stay in Palm Springs! We hope not! LOL

If you read closely to all the comments from providers and clients on this thread, that should help you make a wise and safe decision, before you hire someone, even with good reviews on CoM. Please DON’T hire any provider that lists PNP on their RM profile. You have been warned by all of the guys on this thread. Who are far more experienced and knowledgeable than I am.

Whatever your preference…..WOW! What a HOT and beautiful man!

You’re so welcome! Hoping you are successful in finding the perfect provider for you! The possibilities are endless in NYC!

I have been looking for someone similar when I visit NYC, for this summer. I keep coming back to Karl_Kelso. Karl_Kelso seems like he would be a good fit for you. He is 38, vers, can host at his apt near Penn Station. Every client on CoM, has had a great experience with him! He might a good fit for you!