BenjaminNicholas

Male days... Yes, as is tradition at most Russian Baths. This is not a gay bathhouse kinda thing. It's cultural. Like K spas, you go for actual therapeutic relaxation.

Perhaps real or perhaps bullshit. That's for him to decide for himself. It is, after all, his money to spend. You're also assuming that he's telling us the absolute truth and not getting lost in the fantasy. To suggest his behavior comes from 'self hate' is pretty snap-judgemental for not knowing the guy personally and just spitballing on a (mostly) anonymous message board.

This board is no place for sexual judgement. If he's happy with putting together the fetish or scene, then he's the one in real control.

Ate here last night and it was pretty decent 👍

This is correct. There's always more to a story.

This might work for a subset of escorts who want to work shorter, hourly frames of time, but if you want to earn career money, I don't know if this is an ideal way to go. You never put your client on the spot with a focus group: It ruins what should have been a fun time spent by bringing it back to business. You can more easily email these kinds of questions later, if necessary. Guys- at least the men I see- aren't hiring me to be reminded that they're paying for my service. They want to relax, vacation, enjoy, cut loose and simply have a friend with them who makes it all flow and feel easy.

I workout. I fly. I do laundry. I pack. I repeat.

I'm gonna put this out there, but have you ever considered that clients treat you worse because you're a provider of color? Can of worms conversation, I know. But... Let's be real. I feel like minorities in this industry get the shit end of the stick a lot of times.

They were, but sadly the American 'stand for anything' aesthetic has taken over the West End. Thankfully, the Brits still don't give entrance applause (or, do so sparingly). I once saw Judi Dench do a play at Stratford and it was dead silent as she made her first entrance. I loved it.

I doubt it's moving with her, as she's not enough of a name in the States to carry the show. Plus, she's sitting tight until they close Sunset so she can move to the Chicago company of Death Becomes Her for it's pre-Broadway tryout (or, so I'm told). I haven't seen this new production of Sunset yet, but will in a couple of weeks. The director is known for this being his shtick. Jamie Lloyd has a calling card in his direction and artistic style. Lots of black & white. White sneakers. Blood. Lots of video. People exiting the theatre into the streets outside. He's done it with his productions of Evita, A Doll's House, Cyrano and Assassins.

Between 25 to 27. If all of his pictures are in black & white, we could bump that down to 18 to 23.

Discounting, no. Keeping your longtime clients at a lower rate as your standard rate increases, more appropriate. That said, clients have to prove they're long-term and how long that period is would only be something the escort can figure out. Like a good blackjack player strategically increasing their bet, an escort needs to know when to take advantage of his best years and increase his rate.

Yep. I did. His forehead had zero deep set wrinkles and at that point, botox would indeed be a preventative to starve off worse. Do you know this guy or are you just spitballing as to him wanting it for vanity vs preventative? Because he never addresses that. And at just 31, you have more than enough time with the correct skin procedures to reverse the damage you did in your 20s. As for some of the replies here, it's easy to sit behind a computer screen and make assumptions, but a lot tougher to take criticism when it's you in the visual hotseat. Or, to use the well-worn cliché, people in glass houses probably shouldn't throw stones.

Honolulu is so bland. If you want real Hawaii, I'd steer clear and pick a more unique island. Kauai, Maui and Lanai are my suggestions. Maui could especially use the tourist dollar and as long as you stay away from Lahaina, the rest of the island is open and needs the business.

No. They don't exist anymore because they don't need to. You have a ton of good hotels in Manhattan.... Pick one of those for a better experience. You go to the bathhouse and then leave. You don't stay there for your whole trip.

This thread is amusing. I'd love to see some of the more critical here post pictures or video of themselves so we can scrutinize it. Botox when younger serves a purpose as a deep-wrinkle preventative. A lot of the comments here have zero understanding of what and how it actually works.

Got mine last week, along with the flu vax. Health is wealth, y'all.

Pass. Save yourself the stress. He's not worth it.

Best answer right here.

I hear if you get a sex sting you're supposed to have someone pee on it.

Putting their picture on the web is a form of the Scarlet Letter. Public shame as a way to discourage others. I'm not saying it's right, but it's been the norm when it comes to things like 'sex crimes.' Note my use of air quotes. Like others here have said, it's also well-timed to usually coincide with a conservative re-election.

The last couple times I went to Decadence, I saw so much open drug usage and guys just wacked out of their mind on meth that I stopped going. It was depressing. It's like that with most of the circuit events, tbh. Guys with incredible bodies who go on three-day benders until it finally catches up with them. ... And it always does. Hard drugs are like a very sharp, ugly boomerang.

You're making this very, very easy today.