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BenjaminNicholas

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  1. You make fine points, many of which I agree with. My interest in this was piqued when the OP said such words shouldn't be used or fetishized, which is exactly why I said what's right for him as a sex-worker is fine but should be expressed to a client ahead of time. We escorts are in the business of providing a non-judgemental and somewhat fantastical experience for the guys we see. I think bringing a ton of PCism into this would ruin a lot of the allure. Most importantly: As you alluded to, intent is everything.
  2. I believe there's an echo in this room There is no standard rate for escort appointments: This is something you need to discuss directly with the guys you're considering and only them, as it's their prerogative and your ultimate choice. What I can suggest is that, for top-tier guys, a nice hotel or exotic location isn't usually something factored into a rate.
  3. Continuing the conversation... Where does this sanitizing of sex stop? We have guys here on the board who have the name slave in their moniker. There are members here who have shown a like for the world of findom and being called faggot when serving their alpha. These. Are. Fantasies: This is a big part of why sex workers exist in the first place and like I said earlier in this thread, it's up to every individual escort to choose what's right for them. As the kids now say: You do you, but let me do me.
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  5. Aguecheek was definitely the bottom of that show. Malvolio, however, was all top. He had the whole tall socks fetish going long before Fort Troff got in on it.
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  7. I'm picturing a country club-like membership process of getting accepted into this group. 'Sir, we'll need you to disclose what MODEL of penis pump you're using, as well as three character references who have seen you naked and can vouch for your masturabatory demeanor.'
  8. When you're on your hands and knees, everyone magically becomes the right height
  9. To me, no one is the new Aretha. She, like most legendary artists, is a one-of. Lizzo does her own thing and it's great. She's incredibly talented.
  10. I'm not telling you to accept anything for yourself: I'm just asking you to deal with the reality of the situation. You set your own limits, you communicate those limits to your clients and that's perfectly fine ? However, you've had sexual trauma in the past and you're still putting yourself out there as a sex worker. You have a specific trigger that a lot of guys don't have. The rape fantasy is a very real one. It's a part of taboo human sexuality, like bondage, breath-control, fisting, pissplay, etc. I'm just trying to get you to see the forest for the trees.
  11. I gotta admit that every time I hear people talking about this show, for a split-second I think they're going apeshit over bottled water.
  12. I'm more interested in this suitable lake anywhere near Dallas. It's wasteland up there in terms of clean water to boat on.
  13. You're in a sex-based business: Get used to guys plainly sharing their innermost fantasies. Asking guys to soften those sexual edges is like asking Mel Brooks to go gentle on the satire. Also realize that a lot of what people say vs what they actually do is nothing more than pre-fuck bravado.
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  16. I can't hear someone repeatedly say 'Pittsburgh' and not add this...
  17. Robot is smart and cunning. One of my favorite shows. It doesn't pander to the audience.
  18. You're watching the US version, which aged into what is now considered a comedy series. The original UK version, to me, is much better. Truly groundbreaking in many ways. QAF had Sharon Gless on its side, which helped immensely, even when her character became a caricature in later seasons.
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  20. I always ask for a saliva swab. I've got a fleet account with 23 And Me.
  21. Peloton and Variis (Equinox) both have a ton of great bodyweight sets. Thanks to lacking very heavy weight in my current workouts and focusing solely on light weight/max reps, I'm actually in better shape now than when lockdown started. Everything is shredded down, but my weight has remained nearly the same.
  22. If you keep speaking to me in Portuguese, not only will it come up, but will also definitely require a hard-pull
  23. Correct. It's known in the industry as a soft-pull. (I'll wait for the snickering to die down) Credit scoring is confusing and secretive because it makes the Big Three a lot of money. A shit ton, actually. In turn, they lobby politicians for a mostly hands off approach unless it's flagrant things like the 2017 Equifax breach. Even then, they ended up skirting major sanctions and paid out $425 million to a fund that will mostly be drained by class-action attorney's fees.
  24. GOD DEFEND NEW ZEALAND! But seriously, you're a happy, positive influence. In the words of Curtis Mayfield:
  25. This. They have zero clue on making great first impressions, being fluent in a wide variety of conversational topics, closing in a clutch situation and simply faking it well in the event they're in over their heads. They either don't care or it reads on them like a large-print book. It's depressing and a big reason why I don't normally have many 20s guys in my circle of friends.
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