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Met this guy last year in his house in West Hills. He seems nice but his pictures posted is waaaaaay different in person, his body is not that muscular or bulky, he is effeminate compared to his persona on the photos posted. He doesnt have any massage skills as well.

I didn’t go looking for someone married. I believed he was single because that is how he presented himself. Yes, I developed feelings unconsciously. That happens when you consistently spend time with someone who feels safe, supportive, and encouraging. I did not create any drama towards him, i handled it quietly and respectfully. This isn’t about trying to cross boundaries or chase unavailable people. It’s about realizing the situation had no real future and having enough self-respect to walk away. As choosing distance is me protecting myself.

I respect that different people have different boundaries and comfort levels. In my case, he did not disclose that he has a wife and child — I discovered it on my own after 6 months — and that changed everything for me. I also recognize that my feelings were one-sided, and I don’t want to invest energy into something that has no real future. I value honesty, availability, and emotional safety, so stepping away is me being smart and protecting my peace, not something I’ll regret.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28336/ This masseur gave me the worst experience so far. He charged me 200 for erotic massage. He only massaged me for 20 minutes with no pressure at all, feels like he was just putting some oil or lotion on my body, and he asked me to massage him. He allowed mutual touch and release me at the end. Still, i feel shortchanged.

I fell for my masseur. Twice we even worked out together, and he became my motivation to get back in shape. I thought he was single… until I found out he has a wife and child living in the same apartment I used to visit. I was shocked, heartbroken, and overwhelmed. I’ve deleted his number and our chats — no more seeing him, for my own peace. Still, he’s the only masseur who ever did massage the way I needed it.

Yes please

Got it. Thanks! Going to message him.

His ad says he is in Arizona.

any recommendations here in LA?

Bump

Any update on him?

His massage was just right. He does not offer sensual and erotic services.