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So "
EdwardViscount" just PMed me to ask about Ryan and accused me of being someone who was "mouthing off" but never actually met him. For the record, we met. What a lame PM. I've written about him in other threads too. I don't come on these forums to make shit up and don't appreciate being accused of such. What's worse is "EdwardViscount" started out asking me what my experience was with Ryan, as though he was just plain curious.
 
Honestly, there are at least SIX threads on this guy and multiple reviews across multiple websites. What Ryan is like is not a secret. Some people love him, other people don't, and for me he was "meh." Don't PM people and accuse them of lying because people don't give your fake boyfriends glowing reviews!

Also the hottest guys get soooo many messages. This I know from one of my bad experiences with a particular aberzombie. He was emailed hourly. By other BABIES not just daddies Of course they're going to ignore most people like you.

No, I think they are more likely catfish.

No, I think they are more likely catfish.

I hired Ryan once, years ago. He looks like his pictures, but I never hired him again and would not. He is good for some folks obviously. But not for me. I'm not sure why it's a crime to not want to hire someone again.
 
And by the way, I'd recommend him to SOME people who want exactly what he offers.

I find it strange that people on this board attack other members for sharing their negative experiences. As though you are only suppose to share nothing but praise. Well shut this board down now. Everyone is great, hire them all.

If you really want 1st hand info just go home and call your hardline from your cell.

I won't trust anyone who uses any kind of fake pics.

Jeff Grant does not speak French either.

How do you do that? I'm about ready to apply for a Croatian Visa....

I started getting 30-40 a day. Now a more manageable dozen or so . And if I changed my settings to block overseas senders that would drop to 2-3 local guys.

Not quite, but maybe in a bigger urban area. If I didn't get an e-mail from someone I messaged... it was probably someone who either didn't read my profile, or was just messaging everyone.

Yes, you can't contact anyone without it, really. And you won't find all the guys you want right away. Believe me.

What fantasies? Millions of people have lots of sex and yer don't have "AIDS and death."

Yes, you can't contact anyone without it, really. And you won't find all the guys you want right away. Believe me.

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Yes of course...we met at a local cafe for a bit to get acquainted. He is sweet, earnest and not interested in pay for play or being "kept". Just likes older men. BOY DOES HE!!! Wow!
 
He will be treated to nice dinners and gifts from me because I choose to do that. I in turn will be treated to some of the best sex ever! OMG!!!
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Meet in a hotel
Suite for the first time? No please meet in the lobby or something for your own
Safety!

Meet in a hotel
Suite for the first time? No please meet in the lobby or something for your own
Safety!

Meet in a hotel
Suite for the first time? No please meet in the lobby or something for your own
Safety!

Meet in a hotel
Suite for the first time? No please meet in the lobby or something for your own
Safety!

One interesting observation about my SA experiences thus far: I've encountered all kinds of guys - naive, suspicious, inexperienced, unrealistic, modest, boastful, tentative, etc., but I've only come across one game-player. A guy in Houston who was very interested in me very early. He was highly interested in meeting me ASAP and nailing down a date and time. I looked around and it turns out he had a string of BackPage ads he had run in several cities in the Western US.
I mentioned it in passing - it was by no means a disqualifier for me - but his tone changed and he became even more persistent except he began including dollar figures and things he would do. Thanks but no thanks.
 
I see a fair number of RM guys on SA and it doesn't change much from my perspective except that 1) it makes the financial discussion much easier, and 2) I become wary of the relationship being a generic escort assembly-line experience.

I'm not sure you read what I wrote or understand the nature of the arrangement. He was there to "audition" for what is, essentially, a part. He failed the audition and was clueless that he had done so. Even though we talked about it incessantly for 4 days. If someone wants something UPFRONT, then they should state that. Otherwise, they need to go with the agreement that was made.
 
I think it's the "sugar babies" trying to get something for nothing, or something for as little as possible. That shit won't fly with me. You either do what we agreed upon or you get NOTHING. Period. End of discussion. I don't play games.

As the person who started this thread more than a year ago, I decided to take a look at what's been posted. Tons. And lots of it good. As for me? Well, one of the reasons I've not been on here for a long time is that I met someone from Seeking Arrangements. And we've been in a "relationship" since late summer of 2016. I had quite a few good experiences and quite a few bad ones (including some really clueless guys). Then in last summer of last year, I came upon a 25 year old guy on the site. He's 4.5 hours from Manhattan. He's 25, putting himself through college at a very good school, teaches gymnastics, and has his own training business/gym. He's very self-sufficient, has been on his own since he was 19. Comes from a solid middle class family who live upstate. He called himself an "alpha with a heart." Loves older men, can't relate to young people his age. And he does physique competitions. We texted for a couple days, I thought it had promise so we agreed to meet halfway at a hotel. Because of his limited schedule he said he'd have to leave in the middle of the night to get back for a client appointment at 6 am ....
 
So we met. It was non-stop talking for 3 hours as we instantly got along. He was very masculine, very alpha. At one point, he said "get over here" and he got on top of me and we stated making out and fooling around. We went to dinner and then settled in to watch a movie in bed. He was obviously very tired (he seems to be going 24/7) and at one point he fell asleep. I let him sleep. I thought it was clear that we had made a connection and that I would be interested in an arrangement with this guy. I was sound asleep and then around 3:30 I felt movement. I figured he got up to leave. I was half asleep when -- not saying a word -- as he was leaving he leaned over me and kissed me on the forehead. I thought this is a keeper.
 
We spent several weeks back and forth texting -- he unsure if he had the time to do this but wanting to -- but I felt there was something good here. So we eventually settled on a week to go to my lake house. We discussed money and we were all set. By the end of the first day, it was clear something was going on. I wanted to say something, he sensed it and said go ahead. I told him it was crazy but I really liked him and it would be a real fantasy to date. He said "why do you think it's a fantasy ...."
 
It's 7 months later, and we're still together. We realized that week we had a real connection and decided we should be together. No money has ever exchanged hands. I've tried helping him out from time to time but I usually have to be some money in his jacket pocket or something. He really doesn't want it but I know he could use it. He's very drived, goal oriented, ambitious ... we haven't had a cross word or argument. Our only real conflict is that because he's so busy we don't get to see each other as much as we'd like.
 
I wake up each day thinking this is too good to be true but then I get a text in the morning saying "good morning sweetie, have a great day, love you ..." and I realize that it is really happening. He's basically a younger, way hotter, more masculine version of me ....
 
So I'd have to call Seeking Arrangements a success for me. I didn't find what I was seeking there (something uncomplicated) but I think I've found something much better. I have no idea how long this will last but I'm very happy for right now.

42? I limit them to like FOUR before saying we meet in person or we're done. Too many online fakers.

Helpful in the sense that many out-of-my-area guys tend to be more $$ oriented, as opposed to "connection" minded. The "locals" I'm working with want that connection, I weed out the ones that don't. It is a bit like Craigslist.
 
That said, it makes me laugh how some of these young guys don't want to travel 20 miles to meet me? I drive 30k+ mikes a year for work. Oh well, I'm learning quickly how much über costs me from various areas to my area, lol.