goosh69

Extraterrestrial. With red contacts. Hard pass.

Omg this topic has been discussed endlessly and yes it happens!

What does that mean - sponsor? You gave him money no strings? Curious.

OMG the second one is so clearly written by a non native speaker and someone who has never set foot in Chicago. “Upstate Chicago “?!?!?

You claimed to know why escorts committed suicide, it’s most certainly not YOUR experiences that told you such.

What the original poster warned of. I am SURE it was not HIS fault and that he is NOT an “erection killer.” Nice way to blame him though.

Mathew Davis...”Latin...”

Yes , everyone is aware Rush has a drug problem. But so do thousands of straight men, escorts or not. WTF does being GAY have to do with anything? You have a deep sense of self loathing about your own gay-ness.

The third he’s thinking of is probably Eric Rhodes. I met all three over the years - never for sex, but socially. And they were all pleasant. I’ve ALSO met PLENTY of awful straight guys, escorts and non-escorts alike. I’m 100% being GAY did not make those three porn stars bad people (they were NOT IMO) or commit suicide anymore than the various straight porn stars who’ve recently committed suicide was because they were straight.

Let’s look at another way. 98% of people over 30 look back at pictures of themselves from say age 14-30 or ten years or more earlier than their current age and wonder how they ever could have worn those clothes or had that haircut.

Nope. People sometimes (really oftentimes) look back on what they did when they were younger and “those old folks had a point” or simply change their tastes. I HATED classic rock (or really what was then currently on the radio) growing up. I like a lot of now. But if I liked a tattoo, and now don’t, OOOPS! It’s forever. Oh well.

Except that people can cut their hair, turn off the music, or use another mode of transportation. Tattoos are forever.

He was in his 20s then but a tanorexic so who knows now. He’s hot with no clothes. He claimed to be actively bi so I assume more top.

Yep. He’s pretty good, but he did an in-call our second time and dressed like he was a backup dancer in a TLC or N*Sync video from the 1990s. Maybe you’d don’t mind his conspicuously Eurovision look.

Me three.

I’m older now, but started hiring escorts as early as age 24, and on several occasions I had escorts freak out and think I was a cop because I was young, in great shape, and big. Sending a picture- or even showing up in person - actually worked against me. Even now guys think I look like a cop. Less so hot, I suppose.

Supply and demand for being hot should be covered entirely by the price per hour charged. I’ve generally had much better looking guys the more I pay. And if the JOHN needs to look good to the escort, the escort should charge LESS. You see I tend to like the really hot guys who charge way more than average. No fucking way am paying them 50-100% more than normal but also sending a pic like it’s Tinder. And ALSO the discrimination thing written above. Interestingly, 0.00% of straight escorts have ever asked or cared about what I look like.

That’s why I say “from then on I want to know”!!!! After that I said never again will I be burned by escorts on this topic. Also he had a pimp who lied and said he would. So now I ask again and in person. And judging from his fans on the various threads about him, the answer would have been exactly what he himself told me “it depends “ and “maybe next time” and “I have to get to know you better” or what I already typed and what you quoted but have made me repeat.

But the issue with Ryan and others on the kissing etc topic is if it “depends” you don’t find out until it’s too late, generally. He looks like his pics. But the no kissing was one of two reasons I never tried again. I want to know beforehand from then on if it’s a firm yes or no. I’ll even pay extra. But none of this “let’s see” or “I need to know you better “ or “maybe next time.” We aren’t dating and I’m not trying to. So I think if muscle is what you want, yes, he’s it. BFE it’s a coin toss.

The police thing might be a valid point. Even escorts wanting to make sure the John is not a fake or scam. But the idea that this should be like tinder or grinder is what vexes me.

Ah yes. The ONLY reason is because of self-esteem. NOT. A definitely never-hire escort, folks.

It’s YOU who are the wrong forum! The Deli is for discussion of ESCORTS, not your sexual fantasy.

I don’t JUST fo straight guys but I can assure you NO straight escorts in LV or anywhere else has ever asked for a picture or description or anything else. And I HAVE done the hundred dollar bills thing and it’s worked.

Agree with you two. If we are paying, they should not care. Some other poster here says he sends a pic of $100 bill and says “this is the picture you’re looking for” or similar.