José Soplanucas

Yeah, the word now is (porn) creators. But my hires were from before the independent porn boom. Back then we were still talking about "stars".

Sean Xavier, Jay Alexander, Trap, Beaux Banks, Rio, Italo Andrade, I may forget some. Some of the experiences are in my blog.

In the past I hired several porn "stars", and most of them lived up to their screen performances. Not all of them,

LOL. Not only escorts. You just told mostly every undocumented immigrant's story.

They are sex workers. I doubt they will have any issues with "client rejection". Just tell you want to hire one of them, you do not need any explanations. Do not address the reasons why you are not interested in the other one, you do not have to.

My use of Grindr when I am at home is limited, and the ads usually do not bother me. But when I am traveling I do use it more intensely. I pay the premium, full version for 30 to 90 days and it works great. I am Sniffles virgin, but IDK what you are talking about if you are referring to Grindr.

My apologies. I should have chosen my words more carefully.

Well, yes. The few PNPs experiences I've been part of were not with junkies. They knew what they were doing. I know that many here are skeptical, but my experience tells me that there are many users of chem sex who do not go down the route of addiction, descontrol, and death.

Interesting! I guess the PNPs I was part of were not serious. We did not have any injectables, everything was via oral.

I am not saying that young guys do not use Viagra. They do. Let's keep the thread on topic. The discussion was whether or not Viagra was a PNP drug. My point is that even when the use of Viagra per se does not turn an experience into PNP, it is a drug that PNP players always include in their menu. The same could be said about weed. In the few PNP events I have been part of (I am not an assiduous PNP player) there was weed and Viagra available for the participants. There was no alcohol. But indeed what makes a sex party a PNP event is not the presence of Viagra or weed, but the chem sex drugs that have been listed in the thread.

Put on your Karen Wig and demand a financial retribution for your loss!

Respectfully, perhaps you need to widen your universe for this conversation. Viagra may be always in the plans of the older generations. Definitely, youngins do not usually use Viagra if they are not PNPing.

Not exactly. If I expect a sex session I would not necessarily include Viagra in my plans. If I am organizing a PNP gathering, Viagra is for sure in the supplies list.

Not per se, but in all the PNP experiences I had we did have viagra always available. I would say it is part of the PNP culture, no doubts about it.

I only went there during their last years, based on those experiences this is not realistic at all. It was a strip tease club, not a sex club. I hope I am wrong. Also, the dancers were very sexy but not all of them looked like these porn stars.

We need a new emoji for the reactions.

Sniffles? Please, educate me. I mean, I just googled it. Can you give me some field experiences?

This issue is so similar to the thread about escorts blocking clients! If an escort does not respond your attempts to contacting him, it is beyond your control. Just move on.

Too many people make the mistake of falling in love with places they visit more or less often for a few days or weeks as tourists. This is why I strongly recommend to get to know a place better than that before making the decision to move in.

One of the things I have learned is that there are not places better than others. There are places that are better than others for each one of us. Someone's heaven can be someone else's hell.

We are on the same stage of our lives, mio amico!

Beyond my previous posts here, which were addressing the overwhelming majority of the situations, I think there are also exceptional circumstances and accidents. Even in those cases, I think the best course of action is to just move on without waisting time on second thoughts. If you assessed what you did, and you did nothing wrong or nothing at all, whatever caused the block is beyond your control.

Yep, please keep your anti gay tendencies out of this, @pubic_assistance. I think @wanderlust307's list could be longer, but that is the best answer. If anything is spilling here, is the overall loosing in online interactions that affects overall culture, nothing related to the gay uni verse.

Did you read @wanderlust307's post right before yours?