Guys, you have to be patient like fishermen if you do not have a fat bank account. Being not wealthy has written me out of most of the contacts I have received. Out of my full first month of membership I got one good find, my Texas boy. Right now I am in the second week of my second month, and I am talking to three guys. I am possibly meeting one tonight.
Something that is saving me a lot of time is I am direct and straight forward with the kind of arrangement I am looking for, making clear it involves none or very little cash. I am been able to focus and work better the few ones who pass that initial filter. I will keep posting my successes and frustrations.