José Soplanucas

I am in Corrientes, close to the boundary between Argentina and Paraguay. Last week we had a couple of days at 28C, the lowest temperature has been 6C very early in the morning. Right now it is 5PM and it is 16C. We are supposed to be in the core of the local winter.

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Heat is hitting high records all over the planet. I am glad I am in the Southern Hemisphere right now.

That site is SA's sister. I did try it but I made my choice for SA. Keep us posted of your adventures, please!

We have a match!

The point of respect is out of question. 100% agree on @Drained Empty 's post. But I do have a problem with "we cannot choose our preferences". It is true, we cannot but I think we need to explain the concept a little bit more because often it is used as an excuse to avoid taking a look at our own prejudices. Our preferences are not totally under our control, but they change (at least mine have and I am not special) according to other variables in our personalities and ideas. For instance, I grew up when I was a young teen believing that I was only attracted to men, and the single possibility of a woman heading on me would make me run on panic. That was before I embraced my homosexuality. Once I freed my desire for men, I found out I do feel attraction for some women. Another example: when I was younger and the work on my homophobia and self hatred was just starting, I would feel attraction only for very twinkish, White, clean and cut, and feminine guys. Hell that has changed. And the changing of my sexual preferences is still going on, and I expect to be open to new discoverings and to surprise myself. I am 100% top. I have experimented with bottoming in my 20s and never liked it. I do not even fantasize with bottoming, but I do think, considering that physiologically the rim and the prostate are full of erogenous centers, that there is no reason other than a psychological barrier for my handicapped pleasure. I cannot choose to become a bottom, but I can work on it and perhaps one day I will be ready to let my ass go. So my point is that I agree, we cannot choose our sexual preferences, but we can choose to live up to an attitude of self reflexion and personal growing to expand our chances of happiness and pleasure. Our sexualities are not a given, but an always going on social/psychological construction.

Well, he is not a Middle Eastern billionaire, but let me fantasize a little bit. Would it not be fun if Kim Jong-Un and and Dennis Rodman were actually lovers? DR used to be ugly hot! http://media.giphy.com/media/2k8EwXEwhoQGQ/giphy.gif

I wish I have that knowledge! My experience with trade in America is extremely limited, almost non existent. I did it a lot many years ago, when I was living in Argentina. You should share your notes on DC streets, if you have any. I agree with you, the obsession with sexual identity can be upsetting in here. Unfortunately it is ruining the trading experience in Argentina also. I fondly remember the days when you could fuck a straight man without him getting into an identity crisis, and without everyone lecturing about how he was not straight. Good luck in your search, my friend. I do not think we have many years left of trade in our cultures.

My friend, I do know what real trade is. As I said before, you will find nothing in these forums.

You got the wrong guys. Those are DL brothers and DC is full of them. But if you look for them, there are actual street thugs in Adam.

What do you mean by "a secret"? A DL brother? I do not think you are going to find many of those in these forums. I would rather try adam4adam.

Yep, that is exactly was I was understanding. Jaden is an amazing lover, but he is NOT a street thug.

I can indeed recommend Jaden, but I am not sure he is what the OP is looking for. https://ilikepinga.com/2018/05/27/jaden-galore/

It takes time and work, but it worths it.

I would be suspicious of that ad. For instance, this picture: 9984a32cea28dbda554cec3c150e1cc0.jpg It does not match the other ones. It is a third tier porn star I have been following for at least 7 years now, Tyrese. When you click on the link for his rentmen ad, it says that is under admin reviewing. Verify carefully if you are planning on hiring him.

Of course. https://dcblackpride.org https://ilikepinga.com/2018/05/18/dc-black-pride-2018/ There are probably similar events in other cities, probably at least Atlanta, GA.

Good!

You should read this book.

I am glad you are understanding my twisted sense of humor. I know that "fishing" has a negative connotation in other contexts, but in this particular one I think it is perfectly legitimate. In other threads other forum members criticized, for instance, Alam Wernick for advertising visits to multiple cities with a confusing schedule. I think it is a perfectly legitimate way to research the market and survey for interest. Of course, you will always have somebody disapproving and bitching about it. C'est la vie, ma chérie.

I was not criticizing you, but pointing to an usual strategy amongst traveling providers, perfectly legitimate in my opinion.

Well, next time I go to NYC, I have two guys in my TDL. He and Mike Maverick.

Yeah, someone needs therapy here.

It is called fishing. http://drowningworms.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/1364926607_catching_bass_with_hand.gif

Isn't the key word "preference"? I prefer men, which does not mean now and then I do not find a woman attractive. I prefer short men, but I do find attractive many tall guys. I prefer Black men, but I do find attractive men of other ethnicity quite frequently. I prefer athletic, swimmer's built men; however I do find other body shapes attractive all the time, and the list can go on and on and on. My attraction for someone is not based on one single variable, mine is rather a holistic approach (I am using the first person to stress that this is just my personal experience, but I do think that most people function in a similar way). My attraction depends on how a number of variables interact with each other. I may like an older guy (age is my strongest discriminatory variable) with certain face, body shape, skin contexture, manners, etc. When I say I prefer men, it does not mean I like all men. I do prefer Black and Latino men, but I do not find attractive most Black and Latino men. I can never point out to one single thing that makes the difference. IMHO, the problem raises when you exclude a whole class of people for one single detail. If you exclude all Whites, or all Blacks, or any other ethnicity just because of it, I do think it is a racist attitude. I am not saying you are a racist, but your sexual fetish is.

I met him several years ago, when he was residing in Baltimore and at the beginning of his porn career. He was very affordable back then. When I wanted to meet him for our second session, he had just moved to Brooklyn. He is smoking hot, and his performance was flawless.