José Soplanucas

I asked you all to give him a break. I will not see him until Tuesday.

I used to travel Economy Plus in United, but now I switched to America and love their Premium Economy. Plenty of room and all the Booz you want.

Despite its lack of popularity here, I do find the expression useful. I sometimes use it to set up expectations when I am going to meet a professional for the first time. Even when I agree it is an extremely vague expression, it does communicate quite well my need for an interactive, non transactional experience, for looking at the eyes, for passionate kissing, in a vainilla context. I always go vainilla the first time. I really do not understand very well the criticism to the "fake" nature of the scenario. I do agree that what matters the most is the sexual performance (at least in my case), but that is meat that can be served in many different plates. BFE is one of those plates, as real and as fake as any other. At least you like it raw. But you know what? Having money involved, raw can also be fake.

As everything in this industry, the definition of BFE dances at the rhythm of the participants' preferences. In general it means the provider is willing to show affection and to be engaged as though he wanted you. In general, it includes kissing. In general, does not necessarily includes sex. Take it as a role play situation. How the experience actually materializes depends on the actors.

DC is fucking him. Literally. We had to postpone our appointment till tomorrow. By the way, he is staying until Wednesday, perhaps Thursday. Plenty of time. Give him a break tomorrow so I can see him.

Lol. No. I find the discussion and the conflict to be interesting and engaging to me.

DeepDic and Knockout , two major top porn performers, were beefing, insulting each other in Twitter around Noir Male. XL intervened with a thoughtfulness and a political awareness I had not noticed before on him and got the latter to apologize. I just hit him offering to write a column in my blog. I am quite sure he is not going to be interested without being paid, but I would love to advertise that kind of opinions.

We already explained this. See Bean's post above.

DMV inhabitants, the amazing Kevin Houstonbest is visiting DC. I think I am meeting him tomorrow, but I am not sure. He has been so busy that is not responding my messages, as he is never in his phone when servicing a client. I do not know how long he is staying. That was one of my unanswered questions. You may not have much time.

I think I have never paid more than 300. Most times between 200/250, many times between 100 and 200. A few times less than 100. I am right now in an extra effort to enforce a cap of 200.

Chi Chi LaRue started a new porn website focused on Black men and interracial sex. Most of the guys are also escorts, and many of them are in my To Do List. http://rodonline.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c6d4753ef0120a57ff14f970c-400wi

Sometimes he is eating whole boxes of shrimp and distracted. You must tag @Guy Fawkes if you want his attention.

My gosh, clients and escorts. I mean, fucking human kind. It looks like we cannot think without generalizations. And yes, before some smart ass points out to it, I am also making one. We are doom. And keep generalizing. OK, let's get specific. I absolutely agree with @Kurtis Wolfe, he and any other provider have the absolute right to design and live up to any model business they want to. I do not understand the clients getting obsessed with one provider they want to fuck even when he is not affordable or even if he runs a model or has a personality they dislike. Move on. There are so many guys you can choose from, go and find the ones (note the intentional plural, they are many) who click with you. Forget about the other ones. I absolutely disagree with Kurtis on his assessment about clients asking for a video verification from him. I had no idea he was a porn performer until I saw him participating in this forum and talking about porn. I had never seen him before. I may have found his ad in Rentmen, found him attractive, and contacted him asking for a verification call, and I am not a time waster. He is indeed a star, but I think he is over estimating the reach of his celebrity. However I would have agreed with him until recently. Based on his participation here, that I find always interesting and often well thought, I did like him. I watched excerpts of his porn performances (I do not consume full videos) and found him attractive. He has always been over my cap and not in my top 20, but otherwise I would have called him and would not have asked for a verification videoconference. But then I saw his interview with JD, where for the first time I observed him talking and interacting out of a porn stage. I found out that Kurtis is too feminine for my taste. This experience was a huge lesson. I would have agreed with Kurtis before about the time wasting nature of a verification video when we are hiring a porn star, but now I know I was wrong. Even when I am negotiating with a Pstar, I will ask for a verification video conference to check that his manners click with my preferences. A verification call is just like a call, the professional should not show his body or be asked to pose or anything other than have a natural conversation face to face. I like fucking, I do not get off with video calls. I want to know that the ad actually belongs to the pstar, and I want to know that his manners are of the kind I find attractive. Again, this says nothing against his business model. It obviously works for him and you cannot argue against that. I am only questioning some of his statements.

I do not think @Larstrup is talking about your Prime membership, but about the extras. You will notice that you start receiving offers for additional services attached yo your Prime membership. The Channels in Prime Video are an example, Amazon Fresh is another. Being a Prime member is a pre-requisite to access those services, for a few extra dollars.

Me? Do you mean @Avalon ? I am saying what you are saying.

You must be missing something in your screen. They do have a huge number of gay movies. They have a whole channel. Check "Here TV".

You are over estimating them. You are reading the results of their actions as their intentions. It is not intentional, they think they are doing good and making a positive contribution. They are delusional. And I stop here because I have better things to do with my time than wasting it on this. Good riddance, indeed. Enjoy it, because it is not going to last.

Forget about using pictures to verify pictures. Three finger selfies are like Blockbusters, they belong to a different era. Ask for a videoconference. Skype, WhatsApp, FaceTime, there are so many ways to do it. If they refuse, it is a quite strong sign they may be fake.

I can confirm marylander is timed out for posting pictures breaking the rules. Apparently someone reported him to the Admins, just as he does with Gindr hustlers. Sweet irony. He is right now ruining the boytoy experience.

I just remembered this post. Adam has become worst after the closing of CL and BP, but still plays an important role in our market. More and more guys are asking for 300, and I just do not think sex worth that amount when you have so many ways to hook up for free or for much, much more affordable prices. Without Adam, I do not think I would be able to set a 200 cap with success.

I love Adam, but the OP is correct. Forget selfies for pictures verification. Ask instead for a videoconference. Often the real guy is hotter and better than the pictures.

Those guys should open an ad in their countries of origin, establishing their home base, for instance, in Buenos Aires. Then they can travel to any place.

Given Friendboy system, I do not think it is relevant when the provider signed in the last time. There is no message system like in Rentmen. When you want a guy, you contact him directly. For instance, look at this guy: https://friendboy.pro/boys/Alex_xxx He has not been in Friendboy for 4 months. However, I know he is very active. It is a problem that the admins in Friendboy should address. Being a website free to advertise, providers may easily forget about the ad they published. They may be active, like Alex, but we do not know. Perhaps you could set a system where you send a monthly email to the advertisers asking them to renew the publication. If they do not do it, you put the ad down.

Jaden is in the Baltimore/DC area until Thursday morning. Unfortunately I am not hiring, but you should not let go the chance to try him. The man is quite good.