While I have mentioned here many times my partner and I had an "open relationship" of sorts, sharing our bed solidified our closeness and committment to the relationship.
For me, a main goal of committing to a long term relationship was to "have someone always there for you". Sharing the bed encompassed that .
And even today, 21 years AFTER his passing, I have 10 pillows on my bed which I cuddle up to as compensation. Does that make me NEEDY ?
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