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Adam4Adam still has a “Pros” section, but it’s practically useless these days. There are very few advertisers. Its user base is older, and I do wonder whether some of the new profiles of young attractive guys are looking for “gen.” I have not explored that avenue. Hunqz is the GayRomeo escort side. It’s very popular in some countries, but less in the US. However, I have sometimes had luck meeting adorable guys visiting from those other places.

HPV and Anal Cancer: What You Should Know | Dana-Farber Cancer Institute BLOG.DANA-FARBER.ORG The majority of anal squamous cancers (the most common form of anal cancer which affects the cells that line the anus) are caused by an HPV infection.

Okay, so I had to navigate back to the first page to see what the actual topic was. The original question was, Do providers lose business if they insist on using condoms. As a consumer, allow me to answer on their behalf. Yes. If you only do one thing, you automatically lose the potential clients who don’t want that. Total tops or bottoms won’t get business from other total tops or bottoms. If you advertise Safe Only or Anything Goes, you won’t be hired by guys who want the opposite. You know what else I haven’t seen in this thread? One single person say “you do you.” We are very fortunate that at this point in time, we can choose whether we want to use a rubber without taking our lives into our hands. We each have our own risk profile. If you and I are not getting ready to fuck, it’s none of my business if you want to wear a hazmat suit or if your tramp stamp says “cum hole” plus an arrow. As gay men (or however you identify), we are each responsible for our own orgasm and our own safety. If you want your service provider to use a condom when he fucks you, 1) communicate that up front, and 2) bring condoms and lube to the meeting. Make it part of the play to put it on his dick yourself, and slide that dick up your butt. If you want it raw, tell him that before you meet and make sure any up charge for doing it or breeding you is factored into the quote.

First, it’s rectal or anal cancer, not colon. They are different (but adjacent) things. HPV can give you cancer of the butthole. This pretty much only occurs in individuals with a suppressed immune system, like people with organ transplants or HIV. Full cancer practically never develops if someone is otherwise healthy. I did browbeat my dr into giving me the HPV vaccinations. However, they told me the reason they don’t generally give it to people anywhere near our age is they figure it’s shutting the barn door after the cow got out (and died of old age). Nearly every adult has been exposed to HPV, and we olds are probably having less sex with fewer partners and are less likely to expose anyone else.

He’s advertising on Rentmen. I’d say it’s fair to ask (him or the forum) whether that can include a colon massage.

You mean aside from all the recommendations above?

Oh, and he does look like his photos. His body is off the charts. He did some porn under the name Tyrese Hunter.

He lives in Oakland. He likes to travel and advertises all around the Bay Area. If you’re interested, do reach out. He’s very amenable. And, once again, he’s one of the sweetest, hottest, least jaded guys I have met.

I’m going to ad NorcalJock to the list. I’m not sure why he doesn’t get a lot more love from this group. He is one of the nicest, sweetest, hottest guys I have met in my years of being a ho. He has the natural body of an athlete, and he is genuinely into older men. I have had a great time whenever we have met–which is not often enough. I’m trying to get another date on the calendar.

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My objection is the opposite: guys who offer only “legitimate” massage yet think they should be paid as much as the guys who provide sensual. You want the extra pay, do the work.

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On a couple of occasions, I was able to turn it into a plus. We both went into the shower where I cleaned him out myself and messed him up again. It was very hot, wet, and clean.

Rentmen also accepts crypto. My main concern is the banks, card companies, and now government having proof that I spend money on these sites. I tried buying a disposable debit card to subscribe to RM, but it did not work. Does anyone have any suggestions on protecting this information on the back end? I have never figured out how to do crypto.

He and his boyfriend have put out some really lousy porn. Lots of weird, low energy bondage. He’s sure cute though.

I beg to differ. At the beginning, the escort is an object I selected because of a list of attributes: gorgeous cock, big round ass, tasty butthole, good teeth, nice rack, whatever. I don’t select them based on their personalities. (I have plenty of friends with great personalities that I don’t fuck.) Once they’re in the door, I try to have a great connection with the person attached to the dick. It makes the experience better for everyone.

No, he’s right: the other 20 reviews and comments I posted were pure smokescreen, so that it wouldn’t be obvious that this one was a fake. Curses! Foiled again.

I have been in contact with him but never met up. In the past, his ads have stressed that he is a bottom with a taste for daddies. Maybe his tastes changed. Maybe he feels he can get more traction as a top. Maybe he wore his sphincter out. Rather than trying to read the hidden meanings in his text, why don’t you just ask him if he’s down for whatever you’re looking for? It’s amazing how that can work sometimes.

His pics make him look like he has gone overboard on some bargain fillers. Frankly, that is what has kept me from ever hiring him. Can anyone say if he looks better in person?

I do a lot of window shopping before I hire, if I ever hire them. Looking in the window at Saks is much less commitment than buying a dress from Saks. Escort rates these days are a big commitment, so I wait before I commit. Then there are all these factors when I do: Do I want younger or older, smooth or hairy, short or tall? It changes. That is also why I set my profile to not show my visits. Very rude to not at least say hi back though.

Let’s start with him demanding payment up front. It is never a good sign. He did look like his photos, but it was not a great experience. I will not repeat and say caveat emptor.

Met him last year. 👎 👎 I do not recommend. He does look like his photos, but some false advertising about what he offers and tried to charge more than we had agreed upon. Cute, but not a satisfying experience at all.

San Francisco massage ad. Everything suggests that it is solely therapeutic, with one exception. The only place he advertises is on Rentmasseur and he mentions that he is smooth. Does anyone have personal experience? https://rentmasseur.com/SFBodywork

The WhatsApp Business terms of service state that it can only be used for business and cannot be used for personal communications. Have you encountered any issues? That is what has been keeping me from signing up.

I have always had to use my phone for work and didn’t want text bubbles about meeting at some hotel that afternoon to pop up on my screen. I used to have a crappy burner; now I use the Hushed app on my phone. It provides a phone number with domestic calls and texts for something like 50 bucks a year. It allows me continuity without using my actual phone. Works like a charm. (After reading about it here, I do wonder what Mr. Number says about that number.) I used to have WhatsApp tied to the burner number. Now it’s attached to my personal number and I don’t use it for “the hobby.” I have considered trying WhatsApp Business with my alternate number but haven’t bit the bullet. I recently signed up for Signal, which is purportedly the most secure, but none of the providers I’ve tried to contact are registered.