MikeBiDude

I agree with the majority of your post. But, I HAVE met quite a few who ARE on SA just bcs they are younger seeking older. Why? I do not know. But say 20% of the friends I've met there are with me for fun and not allowance. Do I pay for coffee at Starbucks, or a hotel, or maybe dinner? Of course! But to those few that are ok with it, I do not offer allowance, it hasn't even come up in a couple cases. Far better batting average on SA for me than silverdaddies.com, and others. I don't refute what that site is there for, why sugarbabies are there, or that I do offer allowance often as not, etc. but with patience I've found "more" there than just those looking fo ca$h.

United and the good Doctor $ettled today

Note the use of the word "sometimes". Reflecting on a higher power "as you understand it" works for many, many people. "Higher Power is a term coined in the 1930s in Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and is used in other twelve-step programs. ... It is also sometimes referred to as a power greater than ourselves.... The term sometimes refers to a supreme being or deity, or some conception of God"

I'd say it's more about mutual attitude and chemistry than age differences. I usually look for masseurs 30-40 years younger than me, and have had great results. Yes, probably more of my share of misfires from the age group I'm using for massage. But it's my preference, my due diligence, and my result. Also, I take exception when someone uses the word "pervy" to describe a client liking the older/younger vibe.

And political fantasies too...but that's for another area of the forum

Well...agree to disagree on this one?

Don't include me in "EVERYONE" you don't have a clue how everyone thinks. How could you?

I see "safe" as "ask me" in his current ad. And he does have a Daddy's Review. IDK about communications issues, maybe my opening texts to him made him feel I was real or whatnot? We haven't met yet but are texting. http://HTTPS://rentmen.com/ConnorJock

Well, Gman...there's a lot more to "higher power", doesn't necessarily mean "God", although it does to many. You know there is a very popular chapter in the AA Blue book named "We Agnostics". There are also atheist AA meetings just about everywhere.

Thin skinned much?

Yeah, fishy...similar smell to recent postings here https://m4m-forum.org/threads/for-real.120723/

I don't know but I got a PM saying it's a nice handful when he bottoms

Hey newbie...there's a link in the second post...didn't you look that far before getting bored?

You're completely right! But, if we find a mug shot or arrest record, we don't really know all sides of the story. With so many choices out there, as a personal choice to me it would be a "pass". Exception would be if a known friend/poster vouched for the guy

Got it...and yes we have to be careful that "due diligence" doesn't crossover into "stalking" mode. I think general info here is good to share. If things get specific or using too much personal information I'd go private message.

Let the big head make the decision for you, not the little head. "Violent crime", not gonna get him alone with me.

Well, I still haven't met him yet. But he reached out to my "Seeking Arrangements" profile, his profile says looking for "men/women", lifestyle expectations "high". "High" on that website is a suggested $10k/monthly. BTW I don't even reply to messages from profiles that say "high" or even "moderate". "Minimal" maybe and "negotiable" for sure gets a reply from me. From his sugarbaby profile: and Warning, this is honest. I am the hottest boy you have ever met and I know it. I want to use my hottness to live the good life. That means finding a sugar daddy/mommy. If any sugarbaby is telling you that they are on here for any other reason, they are lying. I am great in bed and I know my job is to look hot and be amazing in the bedroom. Edit: last time I contacted him via Rentmen he requested $500/session. This included a 45-60 minute (each way) commute to my house. Edit2: if anyone here from Seekimg Arrangement went looking for him based on my saying he has a profile up on SA, be warned. Based on texting both the young man in the Rentmen ad and the young man with the SA profile - I think the SA profile is fake. Diametrically opposed writing/texting styles and my conclusion is the SA profile is fake, using Private's pictures from Rentmen or elsewhere.

Hmmmm, well I've talked to him quite a bit, he reached out to me on "seeking Arrangements ". I haven't been able to get my schedule to match his availability yet, it's not for want of us both trying ! I don't get some of the criticism from these posts- because I don't think anyone posting here has met him. Myself included. He seems confident and sure of himself. hopefully we will hear a first person report soon.

Seems to have filtered a couple by distance today, but also one close to me, so it's whacked out for me.

Not sure where you live, but around me there are lots and lots of LGBT 12 step programs/meetings including of course AA and many many others. Free, and if you feel you're in a bigoted meeting or uncomfortable, move on to Another group and meeting!!!

You know...I'm trying to filter my incoming messages to people that live within "xxx miles" using the slider tool. But, mail keeps coming into my inbox from distant members. Any hints on other settings Tom"thin out the herd "? I think it's just not workinG for me.

They speak to each other frequently, in the mirror. And take turns posting about GameChanger "my babe" fantasies

Be patient, it does take some work and due diligence....have fun

When "babe" needs a new $ponsor

Right! Keep track here for his contact info, lol....he's out there