MikeBiDude

I like the wording here in his ad: "The space we co-create will undoubtedly feel intense, though please come expecting one way touch and a therapeutic experience.." That sums it up clearly, I wish more masseurs used creative but clear language Thanks for comfirming @Oaktown

Congrats, glad you had a good time, so did I!! Tell him to return to SoCal!

I met him during a brief trip he made to SoCal, we had a great but very short visit together. I hope he travels to SoCal again

Same here, not having issues with "Rusers". I insist upon a Starbucks/Peet's "meet & greet" no obligation, no allowance. If they refuse, that's my filter. Sometimes the meet results in immediate play, sometimes longer term "arrangement". Virtually all of the successful coffee greets (I've been stood up twice FYI) have turned into more.

Some of the younger men use the site to connect with older gentleman, gratis. Like silverdaddies.com does. Has happened to me 2-3 times since I joined...no allowance or support requested or offered.

Sounds like that's the right decision for you, based on your experiences so far on SA that you've posted about.

Personal preference and choice, your's and his. While I'm not a huge fan of ink...I often like the "story" behind the art. Talking about that "story" has often led to a good connection with the young men, and in more than a few cases some fun (not-escort) good times

Longish thread about him below, one post claims to have hired, not a lot of details https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-private_dancer.117117/

"This crowd"? I'm ok with the price myself, as many others are here as well....but it's his communication skills that are irritating those who would like to meet him.

I remain skeptical, yes

Chiropractic Dr. apparently http://www.westhollywoodchiropractic.com/

Ticking clock until @Mocha once again announces his departure from these forum!

I think @OliverSaks gets it right @Mocha http://www.imagesbuddy.com/images/152/holding-on-to-anger-is-like-drinking-poison-and-expecting-the-other-other-person-to-die-anger-quote.jpg

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I haven't decided if the Phillipines or Southern Asia are my hotbed? @Keith30309 I would have sworn I saw a way in settings to avoid overseas email, but I can't find it now? You can use the "filtered" email option in your inbox, choose "distance" as the filter, use the slider control to choose users 0-1000 miles away to filter messages. That's not what I thought I saw, I'll keep poking around.

I started getting 30-40 a day. Now a more manageable dozen or so . And if I changed my settings to block overseas senders that would drop to 2-3 local guys.

It's a bargain at $70/monthly, if not just for entertainment value. And I'm a guy who *never* (apparently almost never) pays for web content

I'm the worlds worst quickie hookup....I too have to have SOME sort of emotional, "feeling" connection, especially if I'm to be my best as a sexual partner.

+1

Clearly, [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER], it's not for you. I enjoy unraveling the layers myself. And with success, at least by my goals.

So true....and taking advantage of the "desperation" I sense in some of the messages would be easy. I never have, never will....similar to my "not if they have drank too much" rule. I won't take advantage. One new friend I've met from SA has become just a "friend" we've never had playtime, don't plan any at this point. He needed a short term helping hand/listener and I was there for him.

+1 WIDE range of expectations. From both sides from what I've heard from my "pound puppies"

Helpful in the sense that many out-of-my-area guys tend to be more $$ oriented, as opposed to "connection" minded. The "locals" I'm working with want that connection, I weed out the ones that don't. It is a bit like Craigslist. That said, it makes me laugh how some of these young guys don't want to travel 20 miles to meet me? I drive 30k+ mikes a year for work. Oh well, I'm learning quickly how much über costs me from various areas to my area, lol.

I've not offered anyone anything near your "episodic" amount, and I'm meeting lots of guys. Tonight I'm having a second date with a "seeking..." meet, not a penny has been discussed. He's a rare diamond in the rough there, I'll admit that. But my other meets have been lower or close to a Rentmen hourly rate, but I'm getting MUCH more than an hour's time, connection, chemistry than a Rentmen appointment. I have one similar situation as you, "too much on my plate" at least on my meeting guys "plate". Maybe SoCal has more choices - both real and scams!