MikeBiDude

Longish thread about him below, one post claims to have hired, not a lot of details https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-private_dancer.117117/

"This crowd"? I'm ok with the price myself, as many others are here as well....but it's his communication skills that are irritating those who would like to meet him.

I remain skeptical, yes

Chiropractic Dr. apparently http://www.westhollywoodchiropractic.com/

Ticking clock until @Mocha once again announces his departure from these forum!

I think @OliverSaks gets it right @Mocha http://www.imagesbuddy.com/images/152/holding-on-to-anger-is-like-drinking-poison-and-expecting-the-other-other-person-to-die-anger-quote.jpg

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I haven't decided if the Phillipines or Southern Asia are my hotbed? @Keith30309 I would have sworn I saw a way in settings to avoid overseas email, but I can't find it now? You can use the "filtered" email option in your inbox, choose "distance" as the filter, use the slider control to choose users 0-1000 miles away to filter messages. That's not what I thought I saw, I'll keep poking around.

I started getting 30-40 a day. Now a more manageable dozen or so . And if I changed my settings to block overseas senders that would drop to 2-3 local guys.

It's a bargain at $70/monthly, if not just for entertainment value. And I'm a guy who *never* (apparently almost never) pays for web content

I'm the worlds worst quickie hookup....I too have to have SOME sort of emotional, "feeling" connection, especially if I'm to be my best as a sexual partner.

+1

Clearly, [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER], it's not for you. I enjoy unraveling the layers myself. And with success, at least by my goals.

So true....and taking advantage of the "desperation" I sense in some of the messages would be easy. I never have, never will....similar to my "not if they have drank too much" rule. I won't take advantage. One new friend I've met from SA has become just a "friend" we've never had playtime, don't plan any at this point. He needed a short term helping hand/listener and I was there for him.

+1 WIDE range of expectations. From both sides from what I've heard from my "pound puppies"

Helpful in the sense that many out-of-my-area guys tend to be more $$ oriented, as opposed to "connection" minded. The "locals" I'm working with want that connection, I weed out the ones that don't. It is a bit like Craigslist. That said, it makes me laugh how some of these young guys don't want to travel 20 miles to meet me? I drive 30k+ mikes a year for work. Oh well, I'm learning quickly how much über costs me from various areas to my area, lol.

I've not offered anyone anything near your "episodic" amount, and I'm meeting lots of guys. Tonight I'm having a second date with a "seeking..." meet, not a penny has been discussed. He's a rare diamond in the rough there, I'll admit that. But my other meets have been lower or close to a Rentmen hourly rate, but I'm getting MUCH more than an hour's time, connection, chemistry than a Rentmen appointment. I have one similar situation as you, "too much on my plate" at least on my meeting guys "plate". Maybe SoCal has more choices - both real and scams!

@Oaktown have you had a single conversation on "seeking..." that's worked into a meeting?

Yes, but flip side - second date tomorrow night with a young man I've been communicating with for 6 weeks. well in fairness it was a balanced "get to know you " conversation before he asked for an advance/loan. It surprised me, maybe I exaggerated saying 42 messages lol? Believe me I usually vett them in/out if just a few lines, IF I EVEN open their message, more often lately I'm deleting a message without even replying.

Got a live one for you today @Oaktown Something like 42 messages back/forth with a very attractive young man, then: Him: But I do have one little request... Me: What's that? Him :I'm in a bit of a rut and need a little help and in turn I'd be a regular for you whenever you want Him a minute later : Basically what I'm wanting is a loan Me: Ummmm, sorry - no. Good luck with that. Good bye And now his messages deleted and he's blocked....that's how you handle those. EDIT: couple minutes later Him: "you..." expletive deleted.....

I hope he's packing the tan line, always seen in pics but the guys don't show up with them!!

+1

Take two to "play". I'm usually long gone after their first move.

Ah, Got it, thanks! Yes often entertaining messaging there. I've found that 90% of the guys that "favorite" my profile are overseas? They usually don't even message me, just bookmark my profile. Whats with that? Do they keep a virtual Rolodex of suitors that perchance they will call on in the future?