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It’s that piece of paper the person in front of you at the grocery store checkout line is taking an interminable amount of time writing on and holding up the line.

Ummmm, that’s not really “scratch”?

About 30 years ago I had a regular porn performer/escort, who showed me a check made out to him from well known celebrity. He never cashed it, he kept it as a souvenir. I won’t mention names, but this particular celebrity wasn’t known for being DL/discreet 🤣 But personally I’ve never used a check, 99.99% cash, the exception being the last year or two sometimes using Venmo/CashApp at provider’s request.

Moderator note: so this thread isn’t about your worst experience….It’s about legal issues using/hiring from RentMen. Let’s keep it to that. Back on topic, and thanks!

Sounds really good. Knott’s Berry Farm here in SoCal serves a cherry rhubarb kind of sauce/compote at their famous fried chicken restaurant. My mom loves rhubarb pie, I make it a few times a year for her.

Yes! And a majority of them reciprocate, if it’s been discussed beforehand.

Why is it any different than asking about any other activity? Top, bottom, kissing, oral, etc., clients are free to decide not to hire someone based on a provider not being interested in the client’s preferences. Slavery?

If you’re replying to my post, the twins haven’t advertised for ten plus years. Maybe you meant to reply to the TWINZZ post preceding mine?

I’d love to see that show. I’ve read the book and watched Coppola’s movie countless times.

Well, a blast from the past. I met these two…one was VERY into extras, the other not so much. But I enjoyed being in the middle of a twins massage sandwich. Had to be 15-20 years ago? Kudos to @tsgarp for the pic…and no those are NOT erections, that’s how they hung.

For the majority percentage of my hiring years, I was obese, 300+ pounds. I’ve been height/weight proportionate since 2009. Almost *never* did I have a problem with a provider either escort or masseur turn me down. Yes, I was always upfront with my weight, but again can’t remember being turned down too often. I’m a big believer in my self-confidence and easygoing manner making providers comfortable with me. There was one masseur who clearly wasn’t comfortable with overweight guys. He felt his table wouldn’t hold me up, other excuses, etc. I tried a couple times and was turned down. Fast forward 90 days or so…he reached out to me and said let’s try. I don’t know if his rent was due or whatever….but we met, had a great sensual/erotic massage…and continued to see each other for two years 🤣 It’s best to just be upfront with providers, as mentioned elsewhere if they turn you down you’ve probably just dodged a bullet anyway. Don’t be ashamed…we are all works in progress.

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I have a regular good friend of 4+ years, I’m 68 he’s 23. Not a problem. He’s a bit unique (mature) for his age…he’s definitely attracted to older/mature. It does happen!

When I sort through my city (a suburb of Los Angeles) I wish I could filter out providers NOT based in my search zone (i.e. “will travel to”) and only show me providers based in the area I’m searching. Sometimes there are other factors I wish I could search via Boolean/not to filter out profiles I’m not looking for.

OK, thanks for all the posts.

Moderator warning: Let’s get back on topic to the OP’s original questions.

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I’ve done that before as well…walk past the shut door to guest room and said “don’t worry we won’t bother my roommate”.

I’m ok with it, and will often purchase a one month non-renewing subscription to get a better look/feel of a provider I’m considering spending time with.

I prefer the very first 2-3 messages via RM messenger, if possible. I don’t waste time, but state my age, overall prefs, location, and request “visit rate”. If things move along I’m happy to switch to phone/text quickly If things go wrong, my phone number etc. not available to provider if they get upset…which some inexperienced ones do.

I’ll move it…but in the future just report the post to us and mention maybe the post is in the wrong sub-forum. Edit: @mike carey you beat me to it.

Most businesses I’ve had experience with or consulted with…will tell you that raising prices decreases customer visits/frequency. On the escort side of things (perhaps not masseurs) perhaps the big rates being asked lately is actually slowing down visits/frequency?

I did the two bed thing in Cairo last year. Played in one and slept in the other so they both looked slept in 🤣 When I was casually asked who my friend was I always responded “my nephew”😉

There’s a side of me (dark?) that roots for characters like Ripley to “get away with it”. Similar feelings about The Godfather, its romancing of Mafia crime has me rooting for Vito/Michael Corleone.