MikeBiDude

Agree, makes me sad. I like closure, seems like ghosting is easier. I’m still a bit brokenhearted right now, from a young man that I met on seeking arrangements. Chemistry, dates, everything fun and through the roof. He was always a little slow at texting, and yes our location distance was challenging, but he always get back to me eventually, and we worked it all out and had fun. All of a sudden, ignore/silence. Doesn’t answer any of my texts or calls. Me Sad So easy to say “no thanks”, seems so hard nowadays.

Which model do you like?

He’s marked his settings so his visits online are hidden, won’t show his last time online, etc. Why, is another question altogether.

I’ve rarely been contacted by an escort. Just double checked my profile it’s pretty complete and pretty vanilla. Like [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] states, it’s probably a waste of time for escorts to chase down every user who views their ad.

I thought you preferred it when threads stayed on topic?

Am I the only one who pays zero attention to the RM “list” of activities? Many escorts have told me they check the entire list of activities, check none, leave defaults.... My “list” of preferred activities I’m looking for are usually covered in the first or second actual conversation with someone new that I’m contacting. There are a few things in an ad that will kill/spike my interest.....but it’s more the position, orientation, etc. which I find most guys pay more attention to than a long list.

Big generalization there....many do in fact pay for time, date, talk. Not my preference...but I do know there is no such thing as one comment fits all here.

Almost never

Yes/yes

My gas fireplace in my den/family room is Alexa enabled. I love laying in bed and commanding “Alexa, turn den on” and the fireplace and appropriate morning lamps are on when I get downstairs

Ramsay is *not*

I don’t think I said I used it as a pay-for-companionship site? Yes there are “pro”ads there, but in my area they haven’t increased in the same proportion of just plain guys looking to meet. No need to pay on A4A, plenty of fun to be had there

I had to look it home good memories: Black Sand Beach Three flavors (guava, taro, and traditional) of Punalu’u Portuguese sweetbread French toast $10.00

PETA = People Eating Tasty Animals When I wear my T-shirt with that on they get riled up, especially at the racetrack. When I mention friends of mine whose restaurants were graffitied and vandalized with “meat is murder” and inflicting thousands$ in damages they flip me off.

New interface (still klutzy) and as the OP mentioned a newfound life of new users

I’ve stayed at Kilauea Lodge....problematic at this moment! I seem to remember French toast for breakfast with 3 different types of Hawaiian bread.

Craigslist gone

Great spa at Mandalay....I used to like a nice vodka martini at the frozen bar at Red Square there too.

+1 I stayed in one of those at Pelican once, superb

Milestone in London Alvear Palace Buenos Aires I’ll second @MartyB ’s Alfons0 XIII Seville Spain

What??? You’re missing out on last minute opportunities! While I don’t think it’s ever happened with a security guy.....door men and valets (and bellmen and room service attendants) have been great resources for fun for me!

Tattoo police abound on the forum!

Seems clear to me he’s looking to compensate

You’re showing your age!

Maybe some classic recipes from Yankee days with corn, other local dishes derived from England but uniquely ours, influenced by local ingredients. Corn pudding? Yankee beans? Etc I’ll look in my Fannie Farmer cookbook.