I’ve had mixed luck at Fleet Week in Long Beach/San Pedro, CA Area. I have a club that sponsors and hosts some lunches and events for the crews when they’re in town. At a few of the lunches I’ve been able to make a little progress vis-a-vis meet for a beer later, show them around town. It’s fun...
On a few *rare* occasions I’ve had some naked hot tub fun at my house with some enlisted guys.
Not fleet week related but I met a super nice Navy pilot on Grindr once, we were both at the race track and saw each other online. Took a few days, a dinner date, but some fun ensued. We keep in touch but haven’t ever met again.