Lohengrin1979

I’ve never fallen in love with a provider but I have fallen into the trap of helping one I thought was a friend. It didn’t end well for either of us, me financially, or him emotionally. I am no one’s meal ticket and he learned it very harshly. Since then, I do not aid providers in any way beyond providing them a fair fee and, for my regulars, a gift or bonus around the holidays. We all have lessons to learn. i agree with the posters above who commend the gentlemen sharing this particular circumstance and pitfall of our hobby. Thank you for being vulnerable so that others may learn to proceed with caution and with a bit of steel around their hearts.

What kind of emotional support does one need during a massage? I’m continually boggled by the state of this world.

You’re being disingenuous at best, and calculating at worst. You’re obviously not a stranger to message boards based on your posting style, so I’m hard pressed to think you didn’t have an inkling of how a post like this would be received. Also, I don’t think you’ve ever stated what the point of knowing/not knowing that some conspiracy of collaboration exists. You’re letting other members fill in their own blanks while you watch the feeding frenzy. I’m inclined to believe that this leans toward calculating.

Well that explains why you can’t eyeball dick size. Ford would’ve been proud of that assembly line.

He is not. Alas, he got slightly famous and obtained a comfortable set up with a sugar daddy. I was outbid. 🤣

It was a massage session that, ah, escalated. Not sure if he escorted as well though I Imagine so. And yes, I compensated him at an escort rate, not his massage rate, to be safe.

11.5 inches. Oral and anal. He was good but I still was a mess the next day. Jaw aching and sitting delicately. Worth every moment. And to @pubic_assistance, if your body count is high enough, you get an idea of a good range of sizes by appearance. This one I measured though, as I didn’t believe one that big actually existed out in the wilds. 🤣

Pic #2 doesn’t help his cause against that accusation at all. 🤣

Oh him. Went once. Wouldn’t repeat. Looks like his pictures, great body, but it’s obviously heavily a YMMV situation if you’re looking for sensual+ and his massage skills are nothing to write home about.

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What a cutie! Wonder if I have a reason to travel to SD soon…🤣

Off topic but I wish masseurs would let you know that they use theraguns or are planning to. I have fibro and those type of devices are not pleasant at all to me. I make a habit now of asking new hires if they use them and, if so, to refrain during my appointments.

Why stop there? Let the clothes speak for themselves. casual attire = BFE experience formal attire = missionary athletic attire = flip session velvet smoking jacket = BDSM The options are endless.

Who knew there was a way to make an erotic massage sound so clinical? 🤣

I would ask for two forms of ID at booking.

These boards never fail to amaze, intrigue, and delight. I keep feeling that I should be less surprised at what clients and providers encounter since I’ve been hiring for two decades but an essay like this comes along and titillates me anew.

For me, the chance to allow myself to experience the provider’s skill without providing him a roadmap has been exhilarating, often. I’ve discovered new things I now like quite a bit because I let them drive. All that being said, you are hiring a professional and you definitely can provide some direction. Most would welcome the input and the ones who wouldn’t likely aren’t worth the fee anyway.

Even if that were the case, are these boards the place to explore it?

In my experience, the ones asking for photos are A., not willing able to work with the average clientele or B., literally trying to economize their sex lives. As others have said, take it as a red flag that, even if he had accepted the appointment, it wouldn’t have been a good experience for you. There are plenty of gifted professionals, especially in New York, who will take clients as is, and provide an exceptional time!

How have providers responded to that request? I would love to implement it to clear out the catfish swimming about but I wonder if it’s viewed negatively.

Oh don’t worry. I don’t agree. You push my buttons but you’re fun. I’ll remember you fondly as I’m admonishing my next masseur to not grimace quite so obviously while tending to me. 🤣

Did you really just necro a thread to post some pithy comment when you were squalling about being “oh so judged and put upon” in another? You are an absolute trip.