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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Topform in AsianBoyLA - (aka Kevin) - Los Angeles
of course I will be out of town lol
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Saabster in AVOID: Tasteyhands in NYC
Sorry that it was so terrible. Did you not see the only review besides yours was 1 star?
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Topform in Handsome...real? NYC
from the get go. he didn’t try to choke me or anything he was just a bit too aggressive with his fingers than i cared for.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Topform in Handsome...real? NYC
I had a massage with Ken about 2 months ago. While his skills were excellent, I was taken aback by his kind of dom top demeanor and aggressiveness. I had found him from his MF profile which is pretty clinical. Having now seen his RMasseur profile, I wish I had seen it before booking him but it's set at Venezuela as a location. If you are into dominant top like personality and like a masseur to cut right to the chase and to be kind of aggressive with you, then he's your guy. I never felt unsafe, I'm just not into that kind of play. If you want more detail feel free to DM me.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Handsome...real? NYC
I had a massage with Ken about 2 months ago. While his skills were excellent, I was taken aback by his kind of dom top demeanor and aggressiveness. I had found him from his MF profile which is pretty clinical. Having now seen his RMasseur profile, I wish I had seen it before booking him but it's set at Venezuela as a location. If you are into dominant top like personality and like a masseur to cut right to the chase and to be kind of aggressive with you, then he's your guy. I never felt unsafe, I'm just not into that kind of play. If you want more detail feel free to DM me.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Handsome...real? NYC
I had a massage with Ken about 2 months ago. While his skills were excellent, I was taken aback by his kind of dom top demeanor and aggressiveness. I had found him from his MF profile which is pretty clinical. Having now seen his RMasseur profile, I wish I had seen it before booking him but it's set at Venezuela as a location. If you are into dominant top like personality and like a masseur to cut right to the chase and to be kind of aggressive with you, then he's your guy. I never felt unsafe, I'm just not into that kind of play. If you want more detail feel free to DM me.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from skyhigh in Handsome...real? NYC
Yeah, DM me if you want the dirty details lol
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Topform in Handsome...real? NYC
Yeah, DM me if you want the dirty details lol
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Stasoxxx69 reacted to Massadict in Menquility Spa
Has anyone tried this place? I searched the forum and can’t find anything.
https://menquility.com
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Jacob_b in Tipping - if so, and how much?
I don't believe we should have to tip masseurs or escorts when they are setting their own rate. Tips are for places of business like a massage spa where the service person is only getting a cut of what you pay the spa...then you tip. If someone is working for themselves, they set their own rate. I only tip if our interaction exceeds what is stated in the service description for example, if a masseur says both nude and release, but we end up doing more like oral or fucking, then I will just give him an extra $50 to $100. I've noticed that a lot of asian masseurs when they come to my apartment for massage they ask for tips and I have to explain to them how it works. A lot of them come from working in massage parlors.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Wickedsexy in LA’s finest
I had a mixed experience with Rainer. Admittedly, it was a few years ago, just as the shut down was ending, and he was in NYC in August. I hadn't had any physical contact in a while due to the pandemic and he was staying in my neighborhood. I was extremely anxious upon my arrival and he was very sweet about it. He massaged me for a few and then upsold me to the $300 service, which, if you have seen his profile on rentmasseur or rentmen, you can venture a guess what we ended up doing. The thing that got weird was when it was all over and I went to pay using venmo, like most masseurs accept, he told me it was cash only. This is not listed on his profile, even still now in 2026, so I'm not sure if he is still cash only or not, but I would recommend getting clear on that prior to your appointment. When I told him I didn't have cash, he got a bit irritable with me as if I was supposed to know this; we then had to leave together and go to an ATM which was not my bank and charged me a some ridiculous fee. The walk there was awkward, to say the least. SO, I'm not sure if his massage is any good as we cut to other things pretty quickly....and that was very hot, it was also what I think I needed after being in my apartment for several months during the covid shutdown. Also, to be fair, he was also just coming out of that shared experience, so I want to be clear that it may be he was working through his own experience and anxiety. Give him a try, he's hot, he's licensed, and if you want more, you can get more. Just have the cash on hand.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from ReynST in Tipping - if so, and how much?
I don't believe we should have to tip masseurs or escorts when they are setting their own rate. Tips are for places of business like a massage spa where the service person is only getting a cut of what you pay the spa...then you tip. If someone is working for themselves, they set their own rate. I only tip if our interaction exceeds what is stated in the service description for example, if a masseur says both nude and release, but we end up doing more like oral or fucking, then I will just give him an extra $50 to $100. I've noticed that a lot of asian masseurs when they come to my apartment for massage they ask for tips and I have to explain to them how it works. A lot of them come from working in massage parlors.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in HealingSanctuary NYC
I've seen Wen and he is fantastic. A serious and certified massage therapist who also provides acupuncture services. Great heated table. The massage was excellent and not sensual. He's very sweet and attractive but I didn't get a vibe that he provides any services beyond therapeutic. If you are looking for real massage work, you can't go wrong with him.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in HealingSanctuary NYC
I've seen Wen and he is fantastic. A serious and certified massage therapist who also provides acupuncture services. Great heated table. The massage was excellent and not sensual. He's very sweet and attractive but I didn't get a vibe that he provides any services beyond therapeutic. If you are looking for real massage work, you can't go wrong with him.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Jacob_b in Addiction
I understand the compulsive feeling to hire, but at least with straight up escorts, I have always found those experiences to not live up to what's in my head going into them. If you are trying to stop, my best advice is to to think it through...how are you feeling leading up to the idea to hire? how are you going to feel after you hire? when do you tend to want to hire? Is there a patter there? If yes, another thing to do is replace the behavior with something else, so if Friday nights tend to be triggering for you and lead to hiring, find something else to do that isn't congruent with hiring. I think the struggle for me is the need to hire for massage. Over the years I have felt less sexual about massages, though I still partake in sexual interactions when they seem right, but mostly it's because we're all human beings and we need to be touched. If I'm in a dry spell and not hooking up or dating someone, it can be weeks without any real intimate human contact, this isn't healthy either.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Anthony in Addiction
I understand the compulsive feeling to hire, but at least with straight up escorts, I have always found those experiences to not live up to what's in my head going into them. If you are trying to stop, my best advice is to to think it through...how are you feeling leading up to the idea to hire? how are you going to feel after you hire? when do you tend to want to hire? Is there a patter there? If yes, another thing to do is replace the behavior with something else, so if Friday nights tend to be triggering for you and lead to hiring, find something else to do that isn't congruent with hiring. I think the struggle for me is the need to hire for massage. Over the years I have felt less sexual about massages, though I still partake in sexual interactions when they seem right, but mostly it's because we're all human beings and we need to be touched. If I'm in a dry spell and not hooking up or dating someone, it can be weeks without any real intimate human contact, this isn't healthy either.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from + Just Sayin in LA’s finest
I had a mixed experience with Rainer. Admittedly, it was a few years ago, just as the shut down was ending, and he was in NYC in August. I hadn't had any physical contact in a while due to the pandemic and he was staying in my neighborhood. I was extremely anxious upon my arrival and he was very sweet about it. He massaged me for a few and then upsold me to the $300 service, which, if you have seen his profile on rentmasseur or rentmen, you can venture a guess what we ended up doing. The thing that got weird was when it was all over and I went to pay using venmo, like most masseurs accept, he told me it was cash only. This is not listed on his profile, even still now in 2026, so I'm not sure if he is still cash only or not, but I would recommend getting clear on that prior to your appointment. When I told him I didn't have cash, he got a bit irritable with me as if I was supposed to know this; we then had to leave together and go to an ATM which was not my bank and charged me a some ridiculous fee. The walk there was awkward, to say the least. SO, I'm not sure if his massage is any good as we cut to other things pretty quickly....and that was very hot, it was also what I think I needed after being in my apartment for several months during the covid shutdown. Also, to be fair, he was also just coming out of that shared experience, so I want to be clear that it may be he was working through his own experience and anxiety. Give him a try, he's hot, he's licensed, and if you want more, you can get more. Just have the cash on hand.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Occasional in Tipping - if so, and how much?
I don't believe we should have to tip masseurs or escorts when they are setting their own rate. Tips are for places of business like a massage spa where the service person is only getting a cut of what you pay the spa...then you tip. If someone is working for themselves, they set their own rate. I only tip if our interaction exceeds what is stated in the service description for example, if a masseur says both nude and release, but we end up doing more like oral or fucking, then I will just give him an extra $50 to $100. I've noticed that a lot of asian masseurs when they come to my apartment for massage they ask for tips and I have to explain to them how it works. A lot of them come from working in massage parlors.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Tipping - if so, and how much?
I don't believe we should have to tip masseurs or escorts when they are setting their own rate. Tips are for places of business like a massage spa where the service person is only getting a cut of what you pay the spa...then you tip. If someone is working for themselves, they set their own rate. I only tip if our interaction exceeds what is stated in the service description for example, if a masseur says both nude and release, but we end up doing more like oral or fucking, then I will just give him an extra $50 to $100. I've noticed that a lot of asian masseurs when they come to my apartment for massage they ask for tips and I have to explain to them how it works. A lot of them come from working in massage parlors.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in Tipping - if so, and how much?
I don't believe we should have to tip masseurs or escorts when they are setting their own rate. Tips are for places of business like a massage spa where the service person is only getting a cut of what you pay the spa...then you tip. If someone is working for themselves, they set their own rate. I only tip if our interaction exceeds what is stated in the service description for example, if a masseur says both nude and release, but we end up doing more like oral or fucking, then I will just give him an extra $50 to $100. I've noticed that a lot of asian masseurs when they come to my apartment for massage they ask for tips and I have to explain to them how it works. A lot of them come from working in massage parlors.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from BSR in Tipping - if so, and how much?
I don't believe we should have to tip masseurs or escorts when they are setting their own rate. Tips are for places of business like a massage spa where the service person is only getting a cut of what you pay the spa...then you tip. If someone is working for themselves, they set their own rate. I only tip if our interaction exceeds what is stated in the service description for example, if a masseur says both nude and release, but we end up doing more like oral or fucking, then I will just give him an extra $50 to $100. I've noticed that a lot of asian masseurs when they come to my apartment for massage they ask for tips and I have to explain to them how it works. A lot of them come from working in massage parlors.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from mystery_man in Musclehandsnyc in NYC, Asian hunk
I've only ever gotten an exceptional massage from Jay, he really knows what he is doing. He is gorgeous and his body is perfection, and in my experience the extra curricular was hot af.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Topform in Musclehandsnyc in NYC, Asian hunk
I've only ever gotten an exceptional massage from Jay, he really knows what he is doing. He is gorgeous and his body is perfection, and in my experience the extra curricular was hot af.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Redwine56 in Musclehandsnyc in NYC, Asian hunk
I've only ever gotten an exceptional massage from Jay, he really knows what he is doing. He is gorgeous and his body is perfection, and in my experience the extra curricular was hot af.
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Stasoxxx69 got a reaction from Loseer2 in Addiction
I understand the compulsive feeling to hire, but at least with straight up escorts, I have always found those experiences to not live up to what's in my head going into them. If you are trying to stop, my best advice is to to think it through...how are you feeling leading up to the idea to hire? how are you going to feel after you hire? when do you tend to want to hire? Is there a patter there? If yes, another thing to do is replace the behavior with something else, so if Friday nights tend to be triggering for you and lead to hiring, find something else to do that isn't congruent with hiring. I think the struggle for me is the need to hire for massage. Over the years I have felt less sexual about massages, though I still partake in sexual interactions when they seem right, but mostly it's because we're all human beings and we need to be touched. If I'm in a dry spell and not hooking up or dating someone, it can be weeks without any real intimate human contact, this isn't healthy either.