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Everything posted by sam.fitzpatrick
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One must assume that "Safe Only" means just that and if you want to engage in bareback sex, don't solicit that individual's services. However, when I reach out to that advertises as "Safe Only", I confirm the assumption of safe sex and state, "I assume you will be brining your own condoms for our playtime." Then if there is any hesitation on his part, we have a further conversation.
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I find that I have different friends for different activities. I play in three different poker groups and I am the youngest player in each by at least five years and as much as having individuals 30 years older than me. I tend to go to the theater and travel with friends that are my age. And when I go out to the gay bars, it is usually with guys younger than me by 10-20 years.
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I'm glad you had the opportunity to experience his massage. I considered hiring him when I was in Rome earlier in the month, but his ad indicated that he only did out calls and that was not possible with my travel group staying in one AirBNB rather than a hotel. ☹️
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It is close between tardiness and not using my name. Using nicknames is ok as long as at the end of the session my name is used, such as, “I hope you enjoyed our time together as much as I did, Sam. Let me know when you would like an encore.”
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Even with the “generally speaking” disclaimer, this comment didn’t sit well with me. I expect providers to have some limitations to the services they provide and even be comfortable refusing a repeat appointment for any reason they choose. They also need to be comfortable conducting business under terms they choose. If that means condom usage is a must for them, then so it is.
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Hilty is currently co-starring on Broadway in Death Becomes Her. She was excellent when I saw the show last month. I found it amusing that Smash is playing at a theater on the same block as Hilty's show.
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Attention! – Annual Palm Springs Weekend, 2025
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to + Oliver's topic in The Lounge
Now that I see this message, it feels like spring is just around the corner! Looking forward to renewing acquaintances in a couple of weeks. -
MasseurMike (or others) in Indianapolis
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to bordeauxfan's topic in The Deli
When I want a massage in Indy, I'm seeing Christopher. BodyWorkIndy - Male Massage & Bodywork in Indianapolis, IN | RentMasseur He's on the north side of town. -
Always assume that provider has set his price to cover his expenses and a profit. Tip as you feel appropriate for the quality of services provided. If you typically would tip x% at someone's apt., tip x% at the semi private studio.
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If the OP is asking for experiences with Provider XXX, responses that only highlight content within an ad, such as "his ad reads like English is not his primary language" or "is he wearing braces in photo #4?" are not helpful to answering the request. The OP did not ask for opinions on the provider's advertisement.
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Arnold Classic Columbus - February 28th to March 2nd
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to Worshipper's topic in The Lounge
Unfortunately, I need to be out of town that weekend. In past years, I have enjoyed being around the convention center and nearby restaurants just to watch the comings and goings of attendees. It is really quite the sight. -
Oh yeah, how did I omit that?
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I was in the audience last evening for Death Becomes Her. It was a really enjoyable show. Megan Hilty is cast brilliantly for the role of Madeline Ashton. Unfortunately, Jennifer Simard was out; however, her understudy was good and not once would you have thought that it was not the regular lead performing. Chris Sieber is good in the role of Ernest, and Michelle Williams gave a strong vocal performance. For those of us that appreciate things other than the leads, the choreography was excellent, the costumes were good (especially considering how many quick changes there were in the early part of the show) and the ensemble's costumes were sexy, they used real sets rather than projection, and the lighting was effective. And how they created the injuries on stage had me stumped. I am hoping I can return to the city to see it again. I would like to see it get many nominations come awards season.
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I think I received a notice that they will be combining sensual and erotic into one category. They learned that the difference between the two options was inconsistently defined.
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If I were looking to set something up in NYC, I would contact our own @Kevin Slater. He's been working from New York long enough that if he isn't interested in arranging your desired event, he may know of individuals who would be able to arrange such an event.
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Ignored on Grindr By RM Providers
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to FaustOust's topic in Questions About Hiring
While it would be nice for someone to respond politely, do you really expect someone to spend the time on Grindr to politely decline all the messages some of these guys get? And then that response might lead to another reply to clog the in box. Quite frankly, not sending a typed rely is still a reply. -
Anita Bryant died last year (just being reported now)
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to Merboy's topic in Comedy & Tragedy
It is a bit ironic that I am reading this post while the Orange Bowl is on in the background. I seem to remember Ms Bryant as being tied to the Orange Bowl (or the Orange Parade) before her thoughts on homosexuality were know. -
Getting Back on Prep Prior to Engaging in BB Sex
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to + Axiom2001's topic in Men's Health
Regardless of the decision to do bareback, get a prescription for Doxy to take after your appointment. My MD reminds me to take it even when I do not engage in any anal activity as preventative against those diseases transmitted orally. (I've never sucked a cock with a condom on it.) -
It's time for an 'Annie Get Your Gun' revival
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to Ali Gator's topic in Live Theater & Broadway
Kelly Clarkson would indeed be interesting. I'd also love to see Jennifer Simard in the role. As an outside pick, Anna Kendrick could be interesting - Anna as Annie.😉 -
What's the appeal of being a sugar daddy?
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to Constantine's topic in The Lounge
Although I've not engaged as a sugar daddy; however, I see the attraction of such an arrangement of being a sugar daddy. There are likely some characteristics that mirror my practices for this hobby; I tend to find myself returning to select providers multiple times. I find comfort having familiarity with someone I am going to spend time with. I have an escort I have seen for over 10 years and three masseurs I have seen multiple times (one local, one in the city where my mother lives, and one who used to be local and now lives in a frequent vacation destination) on a consistent basis over the last three to ten years. -
How much do masseurs & providers make a year in NYC?
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to Callas's topic in Questions About Hiring
Not realistic assumptions. No one is going to be good at a job if they are working 7 days a week. And those are long days - 4 hours with clients and likely an hour between clients to clean up - change sheets on the table, shower, bio break, hydrate. Add in time to schedule appointments and manage the finances (deposit cash, move Venmo payments to bank, pay taxes, etc.) and it is easily a 10-hour day. (Not unusual for the self-employed in any industry.) And in those four weeks of vacation are evenly spread throughout the year, that would mean someone working 12 consecutive weeks (104 consecutive days.) Work quality and meh reviews would add up and business would drop. As others have mentioned, add in appropriate business expenses to host incall appointments - licensing, sheets, massage lotion/cream, laundry, table, etc. and and the net revenue would decrease. -
How many massages would you estimate you’ve had (total)?
+ sam.fitzpatrick replied to NYMassageAddict's topic in The Lounge
Today I received my 150th massage; the 8th with today's masseur. Prior to COVID I was only getting occasional massages. Since 2020, I try to get a massage every four to six weeks.
Contact Info:
The Company of Men
C/O RadioRob Enterprises
3296 N Federal Hwy #11104
Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33306
Email: [email protected]
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