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@Terpmaniac Your Mileage May Vary

Be still my quivering lip! Anyone recognize him? Living Fresh pic is encouraging. He does mention spa experience. Joined July 4, has a review July 5. Search on about me text, pics, phone # and review turns up nothing suspicious. $150 is too much for me to leap without some assurance.

Well I presume if you can see it when you are NOT logged in and cannot see it when you are, you’re blocked, right? Am I missing something?

Thanks for the report! I notice there is now a very positive review on RentMasseur. Is that yours?

Crazy as it sounds, you might be on to something! I’m still not registering but I’m seeing red flags on a masseurs blocking potential clients solely for looking at his profile multiple times. Christ, there are so many profiles that I’ve been viewing for years of masseurs that I would love to see but either cannot afford, don’t accept incalls or are just too far away. Always checking for updates, specials or perhaps I’ve got a few extra bucks to spend. This blocking thing is bizarre behavior to me, so all the best to stay away I guess.

Such an odd funny thread. You’ve all affirmed my decision not to register on these sights as a potential client. I can’t help but imagine a curtain being pulled shut as I’m happily ogling the cute puppies in the pet store window because I’ve been their daily without buying one. Perhaps you can see more by doing so, but if you want to see a particular profile, just don’t log in.

@Methodic98, if you haven’t already seen it, the thread below is not exactly on topic (i.e how to review said catfish) but it is a discourse on reacting to the situation. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/i-guess-hell-has-frozen-over.149688/

@fm0322 I’m somewhat on the same page as you. I don’t expect to be allowed to touch. And even when given overt permission or encouragement, particularly early or midway thru, I ‘typically’ stick to a natural caressing touch that doesn’t require me exerting much effort or movement. I do enjoy the thrill of the dance and wondering if their could be more especially when I’m face down. In the end it’s about me not him. Now if an HE is initiated, I have an almost uncontrollable automatic response to grab and hold the masseurs leg, be he dressed or nude. And I can say that in all my years of getting massage, I can only remember twice having my hand pushed away. This is the point where I have to make decision on whether to go further with the touch. I get some pushback, but still not very often. I do try to gauge if they are into it and enjoying it. If the masseur is staring straight ahead or up at the ceiling, I back off. But if he looks into my eyes, smiles and pops one himself, then I’m all in.

Regardless of the quality of the actual experience, this guy has multiple listings and has had at least 6 name changes. His reviews are 95% bogus. I give him credit for new creativity and what a hoot that he now answers himself. Notice no reviews before March 2019. That’s because the previous 25 were outright ripoffs of other masseurs. I called him out on them and said I was forwarding them to the masseurs he stole them from. He deleted all of them, changed his name again and started writing his own.

I’m interested too, will be there next month. Any men’s spas in Toronto?

Uhhh, yes!? I think much more detail would start to make our forum admin @Guy Fawkes a little itchy.

I would barter writing masseur ad copy for free massage sessions?!

Yep... a pain!

@Mocha, as potential clients, we all have our personal reactions/responses to ads. @Dmitri found your RM ad copy to be ok. @BnaC found it to be random and all business. For me, it’s loaded with red flags and I myself would never consider contacting you if I were reviewing ads in your city with an intent to book a session. Phrases like “be respectful when contacting me” and “serious inquiries only” (twice and in caps) are in no way inviting. There are so many positive ways to put that across. Also, your ad is confusing as to exactly what you are offering. I very much appreciate that you have therapeutic grayed out, but the text implies otherwise. Strong hands, Swedish techniques, medium to deep pressure, and attention to sore areas all are more therapeutic sounding. There are lots of unanswered questions too... what is your 30 minute rate, do you have a 90 minute rate, can I use your shower before or after, how much advance notice do you need if I’m looking for today? These are questions that I always want to know as my work and schedule very rarely affords me time to book sessions ahead. Rest assured, your pics encourage me to read your profile. I think a rewrite of your About Me section that is friendly, clear and complete will result in more serious inquiries, actual bookings and certainly reduced back and forth texting.

His GPS location is not shared so RM defaults to City Hall. But he’s appealing. It’s a real pain because I work downtown. When I’m hankering for a massage after work and search by distance, all these guys show up as being a few blocks from me. Alas, if only!

I hear ya and don’t disagree in anyway. It’s not okay for “me”. But in the end, the guy answering the door floated BTs boat, he shared this and gave us accurate info from which everyone here then chooses to use how they wish. Some say “no way, stay away” others say “ok, well maybe or tell me more”. No judgement from me.

My goodness... me thinks this entire forum is about saying what blows wind up your skirt... or not. Whatever everyone else cares to take from it is their prerogative. Share, inform, warn, rave and rant all ring true to me. I thank our friend @BostonTom for sharing, informing and warning. He traveled to a bait-n-switch and decided to make lemonade from lemons.

Indeed... minus the 6 pack!

Anyone try this guy? https://m.adam4adam.com/profile/view/Freshwerk33

Jimmy is top notch all around great masseur. Had him this afternoon, Adam wasn’t available. Mike is good too, though not at Jimmy’s level imho. You’ll leave happy there with any of them. Frankly, I think TSq is now my favorite NYC spa. Beautiful private quite rooms with showers and a good slate of masseurs.

Side note... loved his massage table. It has side arm extensions so that instead of having your arms hang down, you can lay them on the extensions above your shoulders. Very comfortable and made for some interesting arm work, stretching and touching when he’s in front of the table.

Since I’m a sucker for a mature hot Asian who knows how to give a massage at a decent rate, I took the plunge. He’s in Elyria, 30 miles west from downtown Cleve, only 12 from me and just 2 minutes off highway. Odd situation cuz you arrive at an empty house that’s for sale. He’s in Cleveland for summer helping a friend fix the place up. Has one room setup for massage. Overall good experience, the pics on RM are him, he’s perhaps not as ripped these days. Sweet Korean guy. Trained, nude and left happy. He’s headed back to Tampa area in August.

The bathing suit shots are all over tumblr and Pinterest. But if he even half resembles the pics AND keeps the Miami rates, might have to jump.

Mike gives a solid overall thera-sensual session and have no problem recommending but I couldn’t rave about him like y’all do about Adam and Jimmy.

Just search this thread for Jorge... plenty of recent glowing critiques.