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I say just go with the flow.Take your time to really get to know him. Don't overlook any thing that seems it may grow into a problem later. You can't change someone who is in his 40's and you are not going to change. Looking ahead you probably have half your life ahead of you as does he. It would be great if it works out as a permanent relationship. Don't think you will save money by having free sex. The money you save will go in other directions, particularly since you are in a better financial situation than he is. Hopefully he will find things to do if he gives up escorting. If he becomes completely dependent on you financially that will undermine the long term stability of the union. I've been down that road with some differences in the situation but some similarities.

I see Sebastian lists as a top. Was that the real issue between you and him and his reluctance to meet?

Did you hire him with him as a top? That would be my interest.

How was Mathianis? He is another guy with loads of 5 star reviews. Just never het back to NY where he is based I believe.

I checked out his RM ad and he has a very long track record of over 100 5 star reviews going back to 2016. I would say you and he are just not compatible and leave it at that. Obviously his business is not going to suffer if he doesn't agree to see you. In your place I would just move on. There are so many others to choose from.

@RamPoundAss one thing you said about an early attempt to meet with this escort I disagree with and that is when he gave you his street address and not his apartment number in advance. I find that pretty standard for a first time meeting and I have often followed those directions with no untoward results. In fact that happened to me last week and I had even met this provider 4 years ago in another city. This time it was at his hotel and I texted him from the lobby and he responded immediately with his room number. Now in your case things turned out differently and I understand that. But I would not take it that a provider being cautious abput his exact location when a client may ghost him is fully understandable and does not constitute a red flag in my experience.

Maybe she was trying to cast him in the shade since he is ahead of her in the Royal Succession.

Queen Camila's 5th great grandparents were Canadian and lived not too far from where I live. In fact they are buried in a local church graveyard which dates back to 1796. The father was a United Empire Loyalist who fled to Canada after the American Revolution. I believe she is the first Queen of Canada descended from Canadians.

I had a condo pied a terre in the heart of the Village from 1998 to 2010. The scene there was at its apogee during that time. The whole place rocked, particularly during the tourist season and was arguably the best gay scene in North America. A lot has changed for various reasons, the Internet being a major factor and social media. I still go to Montreal if not every month then every two months. I hardly ever go to the Village except maybe for lunch to take in the street scene. It's still very gay. But I gravitated to escorts who I find on RM for evening entertainment. Strippers don't do it for me any longer. I like the closer physical contact in a comfortable bed and real sex rather than groping and furtive sucking. And Covid did it for me in terms of too crowded places with God knows who is sitting beside you.

Subtract 20 lbs for the dick and the rest must be skin and bones. 😆

His ad turns me off completely. And the lack of reviews in 5 years. Next...

Absolutely agree about Johnny Thompson. I figured he was an equerry to Charles but had never seen him before. Just such a stunning figure and very quiet and self assured in his movements. I was transfixed every time the camera caught him walking behind the king. To me he was the star of the coronation.

Can someone post his ad on here. I am still blocked so don't know if I have come across him previously. I know a lot of the local providers in Montreal ( that is my original home town too) and know of others through them. I have no idea of why he blocked me but he may have had a previous identity on RM. And I am a premium client. To my knowledge I have only been blocked a handful of times on RM and in those cases except for one I met the escorts and would not repeat under any circumstances.

I agree. I mostly book several weeks in advance because my appointments usually require travel on my part. I live in a small town several hours from larger centers. Because I am a frequent hirer and have a long track record on RM it has never been a problem. If I have to cancel at the relatively last minute I always send a cancellation fee. In the last year I think these have amounted to over $750 but I would have to check my bank statements as I wire the money. I almost never send deposits. And rarely request same day appointments. In all my appointments work out smoothly with no hassles on either end.

And were the two experiences good?

I don't do much international travel any more but in the day I didn't find Canadian customs and immigration officials much different from American. The last time I came through at Ottawa from Newark on Air Canada just before the pandemic, it was a breeze. Back in the dark ages, during the height of the AIDs crisis in the 1980's, being gay and flying into the US or even driving, one had to watch what one said at customs as the American border officials were on the lookout for any hint you might be gay. A friend I was travelling with to NY in 1986 for his ex-lover's funeral, who had died in NY from AIDs, got held up at the border for quite a period because he said he was going to a funeral. I said I was going for pleasure and was waved through.

I see that the title of the thread is ScottMichaels in NYC. I saw him here in Canada, in Ottawa. He does get around. His last review on RM was from Sydney, Australia not too long ago.

So I had the opportunity to see Scott today and have to report I had a lovely relaxed sensual experience with him. If you read this entire thread you will see that I fulfilled an intention I had expressed several years ago to correct the impression I formed on our first encounter, where I was too tired to enjoy what he has to offer. Which is a lot, as it turned out.😉

I think it depends on the age group. Maybe you are right with guys under 40 but for those over 40, which more closely aligns with the average client, I would guess closer to 35 percent body fat.

Last week in the Canadian press a couple of photos of a pristine iceberg were featured which resembled an erect phallus pointing towards the sky. The photographer who snapped the pics was from Dildo, Newfoundland and the iceberg was spotted near Conception Bay, Newfoundland. You can't make this stuff up. The iceberg formation didn't last long and it was reported that the tip eventually broke off. Again, hard to make up. I'm not technically proficient to include the pics but if someone can look them up it would be great. I either saw them in the Globe and Mail or on CBC news.

20 years ago I spent a week in Rio just after Carnival and had no bad experiences with street crime. A month later my nephew and his girlfriend were robbed at knifepoint in daylight right outside the Copacabana Palace. Can't imagine its any better today as Brazil has gone through a lot in two decades, most of it not good.

I met him several times under the name Drakex. He was in Ottawa for a period several years ago. He told me he was moving to Atlanta at some point and I lost contact. Interesting guy to talk to as he has a profession that requires high education. Also a lot of fun in the sack. His description is accurate. I don't often go for the bear type but made him an exception and glad I did.

His last review is so over the top it's cringeworthy. From some sub character. Enough to give bottoms a bad name. Imo.

When I looked at the actual RM ad he is known as Alexandre XXL. Which tells me expect 8 inches or more! I also think that's around 21 cm so XXI would also fit.

He's been retired for over 2 years. I first met him in 2019 and had some wonderful experiences with him. But time waits for no-one.