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I was fortunate in that my friend had been a private secretary in her professional life for the chief executive of a large automotive firm in Montreal. She showed me all her files after naming me executor and they were beautifully organized. She also provided me with a list of all accounts at financial institutions and credit cards, pension info, taxes and the name of the accountant who did them etc. She showed me her safe and how to unlock it where she kept her fine jewelry of which she had a pile. Not Cartier but lots of gold in those rings, necklaces and earrings. Even all her distant relatives overseas and close friends to contact after her death. So I had a good roadmap to follow. It made things much easier and faster to execute. But of course an infinite number of documents to fill out and send and then get back other certificates and the like to file with the estate papers. Had to go though probate too before I could unfreeze her accounts. I had to work with her bank to process ongoing expenses related to her residence car etc. Luckily there are lists that you can get to check off exact items in winding up estates. The list is several pages long.

If one decides to use professionals as executors then one can expect to pay up to 5 percent for the service. People forget or have no idea of everything that is involved in disposing of an estate, especially when there are no relatives willing to take household goods and personal property like Jewellery and art. Disposing of this is time consuming especially if you are trying to realize the maximum possible for the charities that are to benefit. You can’t just throw everything in a dumpster. In my case I spent months cataloguing, photographing, listing and dealing with auctioneers, jewelry dealers who buy estate jewelry, valuing real estate and a car and transporting some of these items to places where they were going to be sold. Just wrapping fragile items and boxing them takes time. Some of these items fetched very good prices at auction. I could never have done this work if I had a full time job. Even as it was, it cut into my free time quite a bit as I work in several charitable organizations as a volunteer myself. I would advise anyone taking on the job of executor to talk a lot with the person asking you beforehand and getting a good feel for what their wishes are. It is often not spelled out very clearly in the will. Those conversations will guide you once you are actually dealing with things after the person has died.

I would go with the positive reviews if from many different clients. One person’s experience is just that one client. Not all clients are great.

Your story reminds me of an escort I had as a regular back in that period. He was a college guy and I was fairly smitten by him for a couple of years. After he graduated he moved in with a doctor who happened to be my family doctor. That ended his escorting career and he went into real estate. Long story short, I keep all my annual agendas and can go back and see all the dates we had. He was expensive at first $150 but after about ten dates he said I could pay $100 thereafter. He was some of the best sex I ever had. He also knew another escort and we did threesomes too. I knew his real name and sometimes wonder where he ended up. Not going to pursue that though.

Here in Ontario Canada the rules are different than those I see quoted in this thread. I am in the middle of acting as an estate trustee(formerly called executor) for a dear friend who died last January. She had asked me to be her trustee when she made her will several years ago after her husband had died. They were childless and she had no siblings. Since her death I have had to spend some time each week winding up her affairs. It is a painstaking process and I did all the grunt work although I hired a lawyer to do some of the legal steps required and to make it easier to execute them. They have the office staff to manage these steps. Compensation is quite generous under our system, up to 5 percent of the value of the estate. I think it would be lower in multi million dollar estates but that is not what I am dealing with.

When I’m travelling that’s always the kind of restaurant I look out for, particularly in a gay neighborhood.

Must be s as problem with my phone.

There is something wrong with the link to his site. Goes blank.

That didn’t take long. Is it a record?

I looked this guy up on RM and he has a ton of positive reviews. Only one or two mentioned his tardiness in keeping appointments. But more than two dozen extolled his abilities and performance. No mention of drugs and he doesn’t list pnp. I would give this provider a break. You can’t please everyone in this biz.

Someone saying”we don’t do that” in a group setting would be a total turnoff, imo. I would show them the door. Unless of course we’re talking about something way outside the norm. That has to be pretty far for me as I am mostly adventurous in these kinds of activities. 🥳

I’ve hired some porn stars and they were pretty good value for money. Are you speaking from experience or just spouting off?

Or for those who didn’t study Latin, “ A stiff dick has no conscience “.

When I was younger and more promiscuous, I would often have anonymous sex with men, in bathhouses, parks and other venues like outside gay bars after closing. Now I only hire and I am very discriminating. I go for what attracts me and am prepared to pay large sums if the fit is good. From time to time, in setting up these sessions on RM, I am asked to provide a photo. I usually do and they in turn will send me something not on the website. All good as far as I am concerned. I feel more connected when we first meet in street clothes. I am honest in my description of myself in preliminary contacts and anyway describe myself accurately in my RM profile. I prefer to avoid any untoward surprises and most often have succeeded in doing so.

Tesla stock took another dive today on news of Musk’s plans to form a third American political party.

In Victorian London, I have read that shoeshine boys often gave bjs to their clients for an extra tip, so to speak.

I’ve had sex with ballet dancers three or four times in my life. Only one was an escort and strictly speaking he was in a modern dance troupe. I had sessions with him 5 or 6 times. All of them had superb physiques and the flexibility of a contortionist. All were hung tops and a delight to fuck with. One was black and the others various types. All delightful.

Wouldn’t it be heaven if she was a cordon bleu chef!

Wasn’t there something else that happened on this day 249 years ago?

Was that in the magic forest?

I’m sorta like your late spouse. I hate throwing things away, thinking I might get around to using them. Obviously I’m talking about non perishables but sometimes they hang around for 10 years or more. I do get around every once in a while to throwing stuff out. It wasn’t that long ago this included two cans of black beans I bought in Florida over 20 years ago. At that time I enjoyed Cuban style food in Miami where I lived.

As a dog lover I object to feeding them possibly tainted food. Better just to toss it. The pain and suffering either to human or animal just isn’t worth it.

I do more or less the same. I buy annual agendas each fall for the following year. . I keep it on my table close to my phone and computer. Everything gets noted in there. I update the back pages each year with regular contacts, websites and passwords etc. I file them away at the end of each year and they become a diary.

If he was convicted under the Mann Act, I don’t think he would have been guilty in any criminal jurisdictions like Canada where we have no Mann Act. That act is a relic of the past, isn’t it?

Didn’t Rosie have some claim to returning to the country of her ancestors? That it just happens to have a low tax rate is just icing on the cake, n’est ce pas?