I don't think it's drugs; heck, with me he was talking about financial matters--his IRA, taxes, etc.; and then the upsell; LA has too many other choices for a repeat of Josh
no, definitely not crazy; I had a wonderful straight masseur here and I always had the thought that I'd like to return the favor; it's going to depend upon the guy, but I suspect straight guys massaging gay guys might be open to the experience
I think you should schedule a massage with him; he does look interesting, and sometimes it's rewarding just to open yourself up to the experience he is offering; if he were here, I'd definitely give it a go!
try this:
http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/pre-review-411-on-diego-hotmbydiego-in-phoenix.115868/
and I submitted a review, too.
I would definitely schedule with him again; I think the only drawback is that he does massage in an office complex with no shower facilities; he would be perfect if you were staying in a hotel.