I stopped wearing cologne at about the same time when one of my employees was allergic to scents; now I almost consider it an intrusion into my space when someone comes into the office heavily-scented!
@Moondance, great postings; I know I have seen some of the earlier posts in the past (#12 Arpad Miklos was a delight!), but thank you for the recent ones too!
that's Casey! he and his husband Michael are based in Palm Springs; here's a link to his masseurfinder.com ad:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/casey_in_ps.shtml
I've seen Casey a number of times over the years; he gives a great massage!
the last link for Tom's massage looks interesting; I am there tomorrow and am thinking about booking with Chad if schedules work:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/massage_by_chad.shtml
there are threads here on others too