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https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/52828/
 

Sky delivers an excellent experience. I enjoyed a session with him this weekend while he’s visiting the Orange County/Long Beach area. I think he’s here for a couple more days if any locals are interested. 

Thanks for all the feedback and replies!
Some clarification, since I think a couple of things got mixed together. These are two different masseurs and two different situations.
Masseur A — He has a child, and every now and then I’ve given him an Amazon gift card for his kid’s birthday. He is no longer with the mother of his child and is currently in another relationship. And that’s basically it. I don’t know much about his relationship, nor do I need to. We have our sessions, we enjoy each other’s company, and that’s it. I don’t even initiate texts with him. When he’s going to be in my area, he gives me a heads-up and we meet. Our sessions are usually around 2.5 hours. The boundaries there have always felt pretty clear to me.
Masseur B — This is the one expecting a baby. He sent me the link to their baby registry; I didn’t ask him for it. I picked out a few gifts, which were delivered to the home he shares with his GF. I thought that would be the end of it, other than maybe a quick thank-you text. I never ask about his GF or their relationship. We talk about other things in his life — how his parents are doing, work, etc. — but I deliberately stay away from his romantic life.
And yes, I completely understand the point several of you are making: by sending gifts from the registry, I opened that door myself. I’m not suggesting that his GF did anything wrong by sending me a thank-you note. Quite the opposite — it was thoughtful and gracious.
What surprised me was my own reaction to it. Because our sessions are pretty sensual, receiving such a detailed and personal note from his GF suddenly made those two worlds feel much closer together than I was comfortable with. I’m almost certain she doesn’t know the nature of our sessions, although obviously I don’t know what he has or hasn’t told her. That realization made me feel a little bad for her and, frankly, a little uncomfortable.
So I think some of you are right that I blurred the line myself without really thinking through what that might mean. Lesson learned. 😂
For me, the less I know about that part of his personal life, the better. I’m perfectly comfortable with the relationship I have with him; I just don’t want his personal life and my relationship with him to collide.

Anything written is a dying art form.  I wrote a note last week and couldn't believe my penmanship.  The Catholic nuns who taught me to write would make me do 100 Hail Mary's if they saw how bad it is now.  All the lovely corners and curves on the letters are no where to be seen.  🙈

I'm impressed that you got a handwritten thank you note. 

Yes, you definitely opened the door and blurred the client/provider relationship. I'm not sure exactly what you're worried about or what's stressing/making you uncomfortable. Is it just that fact she knows about you?
She did a very sweet thing, they both did, in writing a thank you letter for the sweet thing you did for their impending kid. Echoing @Petris Sage take it for what it is... a kind gesture and move on and enjoy the services he provides. 🙂

You are overthinking this.  Try to relax. Limit your focus to your relationship with the masseur, to the time you spend together with him.  Enjoy his company and the connection you have with him.  Everything else is just overthinking. 
Hugs from another overthinker. 
Petris
 
 
 

Yes

Or perhaps rude AF? Like those calling other people ugly AF anonymously on the internet. 
 
I can name 3 masseurs on Rentmasseur that are therapeutic only and always have been. So your snarky comment is both rude and incorrect.

How do you define masc and fem?  I don't think I fall into either category but I also think people who strongly identify in either category would probably put me in the opposite category (masc guy would call me fem/fem guy would call me masc).  
 
What do you call yourself and what criteria did you use?

Massage Envy...with coupon. 😬

Good luck with that... $100 is two gallons of gas in WeHo

Rolling the dice about whether he’ll have a table too haha 

He has a new review and it notes the pics are accurate but outdated - that’s interesting since he requires a face pic 

He has a new review and it notes the pics are accurate but outdated - that’s interesting since he requires a face pic 

Sorry if people think i'm whining but...
I have recently received many PM's asking about a masseurs, which i do NOT mind.  However, NONE of them have links.
As a courtesy, if you are messaging someone about a masseur, please provide a link vs. the name only
Thanks

People are free to do what they want with their bodies on their own time.  They have the same needs as we all do.  Who they are attracted to and want to hook up with may be different than who is attracted to them and want to hook up with them for money.  The former they are choosing, the later they get chosen unless they belong to the small subset that asks for pics prior to meet and sometimes decline a meet request.  Very few guys run this as a real business so it's their personal preferences.  

Ok this. T-shirt please 

I took a shot since someone gave him a good review on the website that seemed genuine and there aren’t a ton of North County options. 
 
I probably wouldn’t go again, but I could see someone having a more positive opinion. For me, he kinda just went straight erotic really early on, which I don’t know if I’d assume happens all the time, and then I don’t think we had great chemistry there either. To be fair I didn’t say anything, but I just wasn’t a fan of the some of the erotic things he did. Someone else might have a better time. 

https://rentmasseur.com/Slykryk
His deli to cross reference https://rent.men/Slykryk
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/165523-411-slykryk-from-seattle/

Hotel Circle - 240/Hr

That’s a pretty steep hourly rate for San Diego.

Slykryk  He's in San Diego now.

I’ve been with him three times, although not since last year. He’s an intelligent and amicable guy, a great kisser and a skillful top. He seems to be somewhat nomadic in the Seattle/Tacoma area, but he was always ready, willing and able to meet me in Seattle.

Here is my $.02 for what its worth
I get his request for deposit - it guarantees a slot. However:
1) Ive seen him quite a few times and we have hit off, yet he still asks for one
2) He won't schedule you until you give a deposit.  The issue I have with that is he won't even give me his open time slots.  Once I gave the deposit then only to find out the day was full.   Tell me what slots are avail first THEN if it's a match I'll send a deposit.  Btw unlike some reviews the deposit DOES go towards the session.  One time he was here the text he sent had an address that was SUPER close to me, so I went ahead with the deposit and confirmed a time.  Then he sends me the address which is not close and hard to get to (downtown atl).  He kinda got pissy with me about this.  But i'm like dude i booked that time based on the address you said you were at. He said he changes places based on rates.  I get that, just SHARE that with people ahead of time.  I have told him many times downtown ATl is not easy to get to/convenient for your clients, yet he continues to book there.
He is a super nice guy and knows his stuff about workouts fitness supplements etc.  If you want to talk fitness anything he is your man.  He is a talker FYI. On the plus side his massage is better than one would expect; he can give some good pressure.  His rates are for 45 mins (worship massage or mix) with the price varying based on the time of your appt.
He is definitely muscular but NOT like his pics if i'm being honest.  No big shock that he is straight.  He doesn't; (or at least didn't with me) go nude - which to me is not a deal breaker - but for some i know it is.  I would say ask him up front. He is a friendly guy and will respond
i'm not saying either way if you should see him or not - thats up to you.  I likely will keep seeing him again as im able