AtticusBK

I went today for the first time. It was also my first time to a sex party type of event. I’ve always been too nervous / self conscious to attend things like this (esp in gay NYC), but as I get older… And maybe I was feeling confident from my hot Sniffies hookup last nite 😏 Anyway - there were probably 50-ish guys there at its peak. Mostly older white guys (incl me), but as stated here before, it’s a wide range of ages (20s to 60s w most 30s to 50s I’d guess), races, bodies (though I’d say mostly at least somewhat fit), etc. I was a little intimidated at first, but once you reach out and touch someone…  I thoroughly enjoyed myself and will go back. 

Near where I am there’s a well known hotel that is used by guys who set up pump and dump sessions in their room. They set themselves up in a room, ass up on the bed, door unlocked and advertise on Sniffies for random guys to turn up and dump a load in them. No conversation, no foreplay or any wasting of time. The top simply walks in, drops his trousers and unloads, then leaves. It gets busy so sometimes they have to queue (this is England, I imagine it’s a neat line), but otherwise it’s all very quick and efficient. The bottom gets multiple loads and is satisfied. 
When I open the app there’s a session on there almost every day. You can do some shopping nearby, drop in and leave a load in a cum dump and then return to your shopping or whatever plans you have. I’m really impressed by the ingenuity of it all. Trouble is I worry it takes business away from me but I guess I offer a more sophisticated kind of service so it’s a different market. 
 

In my city (DC), Sniffies is most effective for orgies, cum dumps, and party & play Tina  junkies (the skanky stuff).
The moment I would log on, the map just explodes with buttcracks and dicks all over the screen…
it also has tons of cruising spots (some historic, and others that people have created).I realized that if I step out at night just about anywhere with a bush or a corner, there a possibility of some action. 
Thanks to Sniffies, I literally got two convenient BJs in the middle of the night within a four block radius from where I live this past summer. 
 
It’s so much open action for free on that app, the last thing I’d even think about is hiring anyone from there .
 

Just FYI, those little old ladies looking at the birds with their binoculars?…ain’t lookin’ at the birds.
Welcome to NYC. Just don’t scare the horses and no one will care.
Back in the day, the police used to sweep the Rambles after dark. They were very polite, but they always made it clear that it was time to leave. Or at least that’s what my whore friends told me. I wouldn’t know personal experience, of course.
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What night of the week did you go? #askingforafriend

I was cruising in the Ramble for the first time a few weeks ago. Typical New York scene: 100 guys walking around in circles looking to get off with someone younger and hotter than they are (myself included). I was there for two hours, but didn’t see a lot of action. Some blowjobs, but I only saw one guy getting fucked. I have to say, some of the guys were incredibly hot with porn star level cocks and they were getting most of the action. Most of the guys were Latino and didn’t speak any English at all. Cruising is alive and well in the Ramble, but it’s more picky than piggy. I left at 10 o’clock. Maybe if I had stayed later it would have gotten wilder. 

My impression — from checking Sniffies — is that it gets most crowded from before sunset to like midnight or so — esp on Saturdays. And the variety of guys who say they’re there on Sniffies is very wide. I imagine there are many more who are not on Sniffies who go, but…???
I’d want to walk thru during the day to get my bearings. 

i saw jay today. he is very good looking with a great body. not a fan of his mustache. his stretch was one of the best stretches i have ever had. his happy ending was also one of best ever.we were in the nice , big room at spa 27 with a shower area and a table shower area. we did not use those areas but i really liked the room. i paid 280 for the sensual massage. i would recommend him. i hired him through rent masseur. next time i might just make appointment at the spa and just focus on stretching. 

@lseactuary90 I just saw Ivan for the first time and also recommend

I can barely think of a Brazilian acompanhante whose socials' profiles don’t describe ‘'god & family 1st", a biblical passage reference, and whose chained crucifix doesn’t dangle in my face while he has his way with me. They may not lose their religion but I def lose my ass.

So, anyone who “tinkers” with their face has an illness? That seems harsh. Their business is so heavily reliant on their image — I don’t see how you can judge them for doing what they may think is necessary to keep earning a living. Some go too far of course, but…

So, anyone who “tinkers” with their face has an illness? That seems harsh. Their business is so heavily reliant on their image — I don’t see how you can judge them for doing what they may think is necessary to keep earning a living. Some go too far of course, but…

Walking from one meeting to another, I passed by 52nd Street. David was out on the sidewalk taking a break. I recognized him from the pictures, but I asked him if he worked there. Not sure why I asked him the question, he gave me a somewhat odd look. I said, "David, right?" He smiled and said, "yes". I told him I usually plan ahead, but in between meetings, I almost wanted to try a walk-in (which I've never done). I wish I could have. He is much more attractive in person than his photos in the roster. Adorable smile. I will definitely return sometime to see him inside.

I finally did the scrub/massage combo for my last 2 appts — and wondered why I’d never done it before — thoroughly enjoyed it. But have never done just a scrub.

I finally did the scrub/massage combo for my last 2 appts — and wondered why I’d never done it before — thoroughly enjoyed it. But have never done just a scrub.

Disclaimer:  You should check the discussions here about each of these guys before booking.
This list is based on either personal experience or what I believe is a consensus here on their quality.  A couple of guys are here twice since they have both MF and RMasseur ads. 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32272/
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40400/
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/50560/
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44728/ (out only)
https://rentmasseur.com/Alex_NYC
https://rentmasseur.com/GiovanniSc
https://rentmasseur.com/Johnsport
https://rentmasseur.com/Michael_fit
https://rentmasseur.com/Nick_Massage
https://rentmasseur.com/MarkoMassuer
https://rentmasseur.com/HotHandsBodywork
https://rentmasseur.com/RomeoAntonio
https://rentmasseur.com/HealingHandsXL
https://rentmasseur.com/StudFR
https://rentmasseur.com/StrongStrokes
https://rentmasseur.com/AlessandroLatino
https://rentmasseur.com/Blessings
https://rentmasseur.com/Giomassage
https://rentmasseur.com/MosesM
 

Never did the rambles or the fire island meat rack, or any similar outdoor places, BUT frequent flyer at sex clubs and parties - current and past.... i would say choose carefully - some cater more to the stand and pose types, some are pure sexy fun! in the latter you can encounter many types of guys, all coming together for shared horniness.
as for me, i don't like the dark spaces that some guys gravitate to - the "unknown" doesn't work for me: but as a pure voyeur/exhibitionist i know i have had some very good times, and i hope i have provided others with good times there.
go with high expectations, and make them come true. stay sane and sober. make good choices but try to put pre-existing judgments aside, even if for just a little while. if you feel judged, move on. sex parties succeed on shared energies... not the negative energy of guys who seem to think they are better than others, as we see here at times. it's fun to be with other men who love sex.
again: make good choices but have fun. 

Are there showers/towels available at the location?  I can't go back to work smelling like sex.

I've been to the Lodge, and reported my experiences here:
I'll probably visit the Bear party two more times on my trip to NYC later this month.
 

I didn't realize the ramble was still a popular hook up spot. I used to get a lot of action there when I was in my late 20s.
The risk is always the boys from Harlem who lurk in the darkness with knives, waiting until you have your pants around your ankles and threaten to cut off your dick if you don't hand over your wallet.

Falling in love with someone isn't an "accident". We don't schedule and plan love. It just finds its way into our consciousness. But falling "in love" with an escort is typically a false love produced by an infatuation. The physical attention you get, paired with a physical attraction are triggers for relationship material. Unfortunately when you are PAYING, its all performance, not passion. So your "love" is no more real than their acting. You feel it. Its there..but its not genuine, because true love requires a circle, not a wallet. 

Hey guys. I saw Top Mediterranean/Omar recently and the experience was absolutely stellar. I mean, wow! Just reviewed him on Rentmen. I highly recommend. Thought you should know. Cheers

I would also keep in mind that most of these guys are obv not from the States and are v likely v worried re everything going on w/ ICE, etc., right now. Some are also working multiple jobs (1 told me he’s a landscaper AND a bartender for a catering company as well), so their lives are by no means easy. I can’t blame any of them for trying to make an extra buck (while still making it an enjoyable experience).

I would also keep in mind that most of these guys are obv not from the States and are v likely v worried re everything going on w/ ICE, etc., right now. Some are also working multiple jobs (1 told me he’s a landscaper AND a bartender for a catering company as well), so their lives are by no means easy. I can’t blame any of them for trying to make an extra buck (while still making it an enjoyable experience).

I would also keep in mind that most of these guys are obv not from the States and are v likely v worried re everything going on w/ ICE, etc., right now. Some are also working multiple jobs (1 told me he’s a landscaper AND a bartender for a catering company as well), so their lives are by no means easy. I can’t blame any of them for trying to make an extra buck (while still making it an enjoyable experience).