AtticusBK

I recently picked up "Butt Seriously," by Dr. Evan Goldstein.
it's all about, you guessed it, anal.
Insightful stuff actually. I'm looking forward to trying some of the things suggested in the chapters. Things I've never experienced 

I haven’t heard of anyone else at HK or 27 wearing gloves. I’ve never had a session w Cody, so have zero clue, but maybe he has something going on  — ie eczema or psoriasis — that requires that he wear gloves. He should be up front about it, but might be afraid of losing biz. Why don’t any of you who have encountered / endured this just ask him? I would. 

Just finished What We Can Know. It’s in two parts, the first set in 2119 looking back on UK current times, followed by present day, so I thought I would take a section break but I couldn’t put it down. Very entertaining, with a few twists you don’t see coming. 

Kind sir, if you think Omar is “aging badly,” I urgently encourage you to visit a topnotch ophthalmologist as I fear you are going blind. 
Note to the forum: This photo reflects 💯% what Omar looks like in person.
 
 

When you guys say you had a good experience w someone, why don’t you include a description — tall/short, muscular/twink, ethnicity, etc., etc., etc.?!?!?!  The same info you’d probably like to know. It seems sooooooooo obvious that you should do this. Esp for the spas that do t post pics of their masseurs. #wtf 

Because none of that matters to me. These guys are all healthy, well built, clean, diverse in every way. I love the randomness of what can happen and who it might happen with. 

When you guys say you had a good experience w someone, why don’t you include a description — tall/short, muscular/twink, ethnicity, etc., etc., etc.?!?!?!  The same info you’d probably like to know. It seems sooooooooo obvious that you should do this. Esp for the spas that do t post pics of their masseurs. #wtf 

I agree with you about privacy - I'm sorry that was violated regardless of who was involved...but um, can you help me understand:
You have a regular client (so you're the masseur?) who had a message from another client (of yours?) who had messaged with you about the first client about his work - is his work also in massage?  Are you all masseurs?  But it also sounds like you might be the client and the first "client" is the masseur?  Sorry  - this is probably super clear to everyone else.  I also haven't tried pasting photos in these posts before and I saw an opportunity. Thanks

When you guys say you had a good experience w someone, why don’t you include a description — tall/short, muscular/twink, ethnicity, etc., etc., etc.?!?!?!  The same info you’d probably like to know. It seems sooooooooo obvious that you should do this. Esp for the spas that do t post pics of their masseurs. #wtf 

Um — think he’s still at Paris

When you guys say you had a good experience w someone, why don’t you include a description — tall/short, muscular/twink, ethnicity, etc., etc., etc.?!?!?!  The same info you’d probably like to know. It seems sooooooooo obvious that you should do this. Esp for the spas that do t post pics of their masseurs. #wtf 

My massage work sometimes merges into escort work (there’s hardly a definitive line between the two). I think it’s in those instances where clients are more inclined to tip me. 

There’s something about the name “Sniffies” that would probably deter me from using it.  Sounds a little disgusting.

I feel like all the massage spas and masseurs should just list on sniffies and make it easier to find what we want.  I’m not sure what the legalities are but it makes sense 

What is sniffies?

My vote would go to LuisNYC. It’s massive and all muscle.
Also, at 27 Men’s Spa, Andoni, Jay, Giovanni…
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Well...considering I am part of your alphabet soup there. I will continue to comment from the perspective of a bisexual man, who lived most of his late 20's and early 30's as a homosexual man. Stop being a bigot and allow people to have opinions different from your own. Conversation is always more interesting with DIFFERENT perspectives instead of the echo chamber, you are accustomed to. 
There are several other members here to seem to agree with MY perspective, so I fail to see why YOUR opinion should silence my own.
You are free to fuck all of your neighbor's kids and have their parents ostracize you.  Other's would take a more cautious approach and perhaps value their neighbor's opinion about themselves more than you care about yours.
Different strokes for different folks. 
 

You're the queen of projection. Given that you live a completely heterosexual lifestyle, you should really mind your business about LGBTQ issues. 

Those are his pictures. As you can see he in good shape. He has a very calm and professional demeanor and is well trained in massage. I highly recommend him. 

A few weeks ago, I shared an experience where a provider injured me - unintentionally - during an encounter. Someone here either screen-grabbed it or sent the link to the provider in question. Last night, I received a multi-paragraph and fairly overwrought message from the provider saying how awful he felt, and he couldn't sleep, and could he make it up to me for free. 
Here's the problem. When it happened, I was bleeding. I told him I was bleeding and had to use his bathroom. The bleeding wasn't severe, and it's not my first time at the rodeo. Obviously, that was the end of the session, and I have no desire to see him again. 
He did not at that time offer me a free session to make up for it. Nor did he message me the next day to say he couldn't sleep.
I also didn't leave him a bad review on Rent.men because while he was too aggressive I don't think he meant to hurt me. I only shared my experience here because someone was considering him, and I wanted them to know he got too aggressive with me. So to have that sent to him sucks. 
As for his message, it feels more like public relations than sincerity. Again, didn't offer to comp a session, took his full fee, etc. And, honestly, didn't seem that broken up by it at the time. 
Thanks to whoever made me relive a bad experience and then a guilt-inducing message from the person responsible.  

I’ve only had it when I’ve hired the masseurs via RM instead of thru the spa. I think the masseurs grab it if they want / know they’re going to need more privacy than what the upstairs rooms offer.

Hire him thru RM and you’ll have a totally different experience 😏
 
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I went today for the first time. It was also my first time to a sex party type of event. I’ve always been too nervous / self conscious to attend things like this (esp in gay NYC), but as I get older… And maybe I was feeling confident from my hot Sniffies hookup last nite 😏 Anyway - there were probably 50-ish guys there at its peak. Mostly older white guys (incl me), but as stated here before, it’s a wide range of ages (20s to 60s w most 30s to 50s I’d guess), races, bodies (though I’d say mostly at least somewhat fit), etc. I was a little intimidated at first, but once you reach out and touch someone…  I thoroughly enjoyed myself and will go back. 

I also like 27 better than HK @Nyc000here — it’s more private which is why the experiences are better. Unless you get that very private downstairs suite at HK 😈
and yeah — I’m more into the variety of Latin guys at 27/HK than Asians elsewhere, not that I’m opposed to Asians at all - lol
who would you recommend at Energy? I’ve only heard about Alven.

I like 27 better than HK, even though they’re part of the same business. I’ve hustled had better experiences with the same masseur at 27 vs HK
Energy I would recommend you check out, they’ve got some great guys, primarily all Asian, whereas HK/27 has a much wider variety of guys