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So on the backend of the first comment on had. HOLY SHIT.
 
claims he had lung cancer again and was undergoing chemo and radiotherapy. im not ask aashole, I was there to let him get his story out and also if me taking a shower or tub with him was out the question.... (he didnt know LOL - cmon everyone knows that's a big no no with someone you seee prequestially. Hes intelligent, and a nice cock, ill give them that, everything else a bout him is else, stolen, fake, conned, a farce, an excessive enlargement from a piddly little truth, and is dangerous this man needs help and I hope he gets it

The other day while walking home from an erotic massage I passed a McDonaldd. A young 20 something homeless kid came up to me and asked if I would buy him an ice cream cone. I brought him inside and told him to order whatever he wanted. He got a complete meal and 2 cones. Somehow, it was the best $20 I’d spent in a long time. Very thankful to have been able to accommodate such a simple yet sincere request

So first, a "Happy Thanksgiving" to all in the US for a great holiday  and season ahead.
I was pleased when a regular client offered to buy me a dinner at a very nice restaurant to show his appreciation for my services rendered.
Great guy,   I enjoy in depth conversations with him and always nice to be appreciated,   no matter what services one is providing.   While this isn't typical,   I do find clients in general to be more flexible, giving and appreciative this time of year.

In Chrome, I right-click on the image and there's an option for "Search With Google Lens".  In the last few months it changed, I can't remember what they called it before, but it's MUCH less useful since it changed - 90% of the time it comes up with "No matching images found". 

If the OP @lseactuary90 has so little trouble hooking up with so many attractive men on apps and whatnot, I don’t understand why he even wants/needs to hire. Hiring facilitates a client’s path to access experiences with the people he wants, doing the things he wants, when he wants. These benefits have value no matter how conventionally attractive the client may be. Hiring is for everyone.
However, if his aim is simply to bag a hot guy, that’s apparently easy enough for him without the transaction. Understandably, most of those won’t be mind-blowing experiences. I don’t see the point. If his goal is to make it faster and more convenient to have sex with men he’s interested in, then great. Hiring can absolutely fulfill that function. If his goal is to feel genuine love, I think the hiring route is futile. A client can have a great connection with a provider without it having to be something akin to love, but it takes effort and trying things, and seeing different people.
Most of that feeling of wanting to call a man back stems from what happens outside of the bedroom. Not how hot he looks, or how good his body feels in an engaging sexual moment together. While those are nice and certainly make for a better experience, I believe that outside the bedroom concept applies to a hiring relationship and to personal relationships. For personal relationships, that’s chemistry which can lead to love. For hiring relationships, it’s chemistry on its own - liking someone for who they are and how they are, and for how they are to you. It can’t be love when the relationship is transactional. If the OP is looking for a feeling akin to love, or something leading to love, I believe that’s best to pursue in his own personal life. Not to say a provider has never fallen in love with a client, but that’s literally what we do: offer some form of performative intimacy that isn’t actually love, and can never be because provider livelihoods depend precisely on it NOT being genuine love.
A man can be the best sex you’ve ever had, but if you feel nothing for him, the whole thing is moot. I suggest sticking to the dating or hookup apps, or meeting IRL. Nobody here can create the chemistry you seek through a recommendation. A client must find it himself, either in his own personal life, or through hiring different guys he’s interested in seeing. If the OP wants information on certain providers, it takes research and effort to put together a short list, as others have outlined. Once he has a short list, the forums here are great places to ask for more information about each specific one.
Either way, personal or hiring, it takes work. Work to meet halfway to connect with someone, to have compassion, empathy, genuine interest in getting to know them, and find common interests and common ground as human beings and to celebrate those things. These matter, even if it’s a brief encounter. The looks and the sex are just a huge bonus. Maybe for some, the looks and the sex are a “starting point”. All of the above elevate sex and the overall experience to the level I believe the OP is looking for.
Even if a client does the work of identifying the people he feels he might have the best connections with, the connection doesn’t always manifest. In that case, the only thing to do is keep trying with someone new until things click. When you know, you know, and it feels right.