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Same here. I prefer to book clients in advance. Same day is a crapshoot. 

Interestingly that’s not my experience. I actually prefer clients to book in advance. I’ll take on the day clients but often if they leave booking to the day then I’m usually busy and can’t see them. I find if advance bookers do cancel then it’s for good reason and they don’t leave cancelling to the last minute, which is fine by me. 

As a client, I hope most providers don’t consider this to be a red flag. I always book several weeks in advance because I want to make sure to get the session at a time that is best for me.  Canceling at the last minute—for me anyway—would only happen if something urgent happened.  

I have only one past experience to compare, and I'm going to give the "cliff notes" version, but if anybody wants the "filler" part that I'm leaving off, I'll be happy to provide:
Around 2006, a student at the university in the city where I reside took out an ad, which I believe was on the old Men4RentNow.  I replied the same way I've been replying to ads in the 21 years I've been hiring, which is to state the only three activities which "do it" for me:  being spanked (probably the biggest one), worshipping the provider's feet, and having my face sat upon.
It was obvious that he was new (and I'd only been hiring a couple of years at that time), so he asked if we could first meet at a restaurant to feel one another out.  I obliged.
During the meal, he harped on how disheartened he was that he could not pay his tuition for the upcoming semester and would therefore risk all of the hard work he'd put in pursuing his accounting degree and becoming a CPA.  Being an inactive CPA myself, we discussed (not to bore anyone) principles which I knew he should be learning based on the courses he told me he'd just taken.  Our discussion was highly, highly specific on accounting issues, and it was VERY obvious that he was a legitimate accounting student and was retaining what he'd learned.
When I returned home, I made a spontaneous decision to send him an email (iPhones had not yet even come out -- hence no texts) proposing that, if he was interested, I could pay his tuition as a prepayment for 13 meetings (tuition was $2,600 and back then $200 was the "going" rate).  I told him that we could meet at a restaurant the next day and I would provide the check.  He was ESTATIC!!  I KNEW as I handed the check over (payee was blank) that I had essentially no recourse if he never met with me, but I had compassion for him because he'd told me about having a tough time growing up with a father who had abandoned the family.
A couple of weeks after I supplied the check, it became obvious that he did not want to hold his end of the bargain (and clearly wasn't going to) and I knew there was nothing I could do.
<-------At this point is where I'm leaving a TON of material out, but I can supplement if anyone is interested.------->
I resolved myself that I'd just helped a young man out and let it go.  About five years later, I Googled his name, and I discovered a presentation he was making to a water system's Board of Directors (it was in the minutes).  He'd graduated, gotten his CPA license, and I actually was very, very happy for him notwithstanding the loss of funds on my end.
So, as far as I'm concerned, that was a "happy ending," and, being honest, I've thought about previously posting the whole episode to this forum, but I thought I'd be the laughing stock of the whole forum given that so many clients strenuously object to even providing a much smaller deposit for a single meeting (and I fully concur now).  Seeing so many others step up on this post, however, has caused me to be willing to publish my one and only similar situation.
From reading the initial post on this thread, I don't think the situation described has even the remotest possibility of having a "happy ending," so I have to agree with the sentiments expressed by others that you just have to let it go. 

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I recently had such an experience on sniffies. We were talking and he invited me over to his place. As we walked into his bedroom, he suggested that the mood is not there and that I should leave.
I didn’t think too much about it. Albeit I was a bit frustrated and thought I was undesirable when I came out of his apartment, my spirituality training kicked in and stopped the cycle of negative self talk. The other party might have had a lot of reasons to do that, which is none of our business. I learned to respect and accept rejection better, and there is still a looooong way to go.

I just met him again. Every time it gets better than the previous one. He’s truly spectacular. Good soul, great vibes, wonderful skills and truly transcendent experience. 

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Listen I love this group, you guys are amazing, but please do not share my PRIVATE MESSAGES with masseurs you meet. A few months ago, I met a regular client who said to me "did you post something on this forum that was negative?" I said what are you talking about. He said he met a client who SHOWED HIM MY RESPONSE to a message about his work. I was shocked. I said " don't have clue and if it was negative then why am I here?" Please be careful with what is shared here. Private messages should remain so. No mad just concerned.
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Yes 🚩! My second hour is 15% less than the first hour. I don’t publish rates longer than 2 hours but the % reduction would be about the same. It really depends on the set up and my willingness to do a longer session. I generally am not keen to do multiple hours so I’d price it accordingly. 
I had one guy ask me for my rate for a 4 hour booking. I gave him a number. He divided that by 4, came up with an hourly rate….and then asked to book just an hour. Smart. Of course I said ‘sorry it doesn’t work like that, the first hour is more expensive’ so he said ‘ok I’ll book just the 4th hour then please’ 😳
 

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First, I’m sorry you’re having to confront this. What’s happening to you is unfair, manipulative, and wrong.
Second, there’s a power dynamic here. As long as you fear him revealing information to your family or employer, he holds the leverage. Ask yourself honestly: if he did share it, would it truly be life-altering, or would it mainly cause embarrassment? If it’s the latter, remember that embarrassment fades—and when you no longer fear that outcome, you take away his power.
Third, consider the legal angle. If his threats involve physical harm, a restraining order may be appropriate. If they are purely about exposing information, then ask: what does he want? If he’s demanding something in exchange for silence, that fits the definition of extortion or blackmail—both serious crimes that law enforcement can act on. That shifts the leverage back to you 
Finally, about blocking him: if you believe he might actually carry out threats, cutting off contact removes visibility into his escalation. Strategically, it can be useful to keep communication open—not to engage with him, but to let him incriminate himself. Every message could give you the evidence you need for action. And remember, you always keep the choice of whether to respond or stay silent

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