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Interesting topic.
I don’t think this is about whether providers are “allowed” to have preferences — of course they are. That part feels obvious.
What this situation highlights for me is something a bit deeper about how these bookings actually work.
When people hire, they’re not just paying for the physical act. Part of the value is the feeling of being wanted, or at least not being actively outside of someone’s type. It’s understood that it’s transactional, but there’s still a layer of perceived desire that makes the experience land differently.
Seeing a personal profile that’s very blunt or exclusionary doesn’t offend me — but it does change the framing. It introduces a gap between how someone presents professionally versus how they express themselves personally, and that gap can make the experience feel more transactional than immersive.
At that point, it’s not about judging him or taking it personally. It’s just a different risk profile as a client:
higher chance the vibe feels mechanical less confidence in genuine engagement harder to buy into the experience So for me, it’s less “he shouldn’t have preferences” and more “this specific signal lowers the value of the booking.”
Everyone’s threshold will be different, but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to factor that into a decision and just move on.

I agree that providers are entitled to their own preferences. But I don’t think this is about ego. For a lot of people, part of what they’re paying for is the feeling of being genuinely wanted, even if that’s part of the job for the provider. If something breaks that illusion, I think it’s reasonable for clients to factor that into their decision.

I went out on a limb and visited on Sunday morning and had a truly wonderful 60 min massage with Matt. The space is beautiful, In an unsuspecting office building but the entire 7th floor is clearly individual beauty/wellness spaces and very luxurious. The room itself is very calming with aromatherapy and a very nice heated bed. Truly spa level compared to the Mens spas we are used to.
The bodywork was quite good also. Very relaxing long strokes with good medium pressure. It took about 10 minutes but we really calibrated to each other nicely and he provided the perfect experience. I left very relaxed and very satisfied. I will be back. I wanted to gatekeep so I didn’t report right away, but I want them to do well and stay open so go and do the thing boys! 
 
feel free to DM for more details, but please give the respect to respond after I do!!

Had a 4-handed with Adrian and Blessings.  It was indeed next level, ethereal!

Saw Pete again on Sunday. The service is just top notch. Very professional and kind. The location is not to be beat.

Not very long of a massage before the fun starts:
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Have you ever walked in for an appointment and seen a table like this? https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1621810/james-cassidy-bryce-jax-and-sam-holister-onlyfans-threesome/

Here's a new one:
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Been a long time since there’s been a new Trance Japanese Spa vid released, so for old time sake reposting a fav…
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I met Pete whilst in San Diego and it was great! I had 90 minutes with him one evening and could have easily gone for more. 
Massage was on a bed, but he had a headrest that attached to the bed so it was much more comfortable — that was a first for me and made me actually not mind it being on a bed! The height of the bed wasn’t ideal and made MT slightly more difficult but nothing he could do about that - he moved around and accommodated well. 
He was incredibly easy to communicate with when scheduling. He was prompt and thorough in every response. He has a lovely body and a very cute face. His firm pressure was fantastic and helped significantly with knots and tightness I had from travel and poor sleep. 
I hope to visit NYC for a day trip soon just so I can have another appointment with him. 

I've always loved this one - but couldn't find it anywhere.  Just saw it on me-gay.com
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This is nice. 
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Had a FANTASTIC session with him last week in Boston.  Absolutely skilled, wonderful masseur.  Real, trained massage with sensuality weaved throughout.  He completely takes his time and doesn't make you feel rushed, and I felt like he was completely present and invested the whole session.   Every great review I've read on here was accurate; in fact, he exceeded my high expectations.  He's a really warm, friendly guy and looks exactly like his pics.  He's staying in a brand new, high-end apartment in Boston and he's set up the main room with a spa-like vibe and his heated table.  He mentioned he stays in apartments rather than hotels when he travels, so that he can make sure he has enough fresh linens, which I appreciated.   Highly-recommend!

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I just saw Alex Blessings - based on the recommendations in this chat. I can’t tell you how great Alex was - personable, sexy and an excellent masseur.  Alex offers three levels of massage - (1) therapeutic, (2) therapeutic and sensual, and  (3)  therapeutic, sensual  and erotic.  I went with the third option, and what I liked best was that it was not just erotic, but also therapeutic and sensual.  (I have been with too many masseurs who are not great masseurs, and then give you a quick jerk at the end.  Alex is the exact opposite.)  Alex is what I was exactly looking for - and lucky for me he is local!