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What was the stripper bar in Monterrey? Are there multiple stripper bars in Monterrey?

So any updates on Mexico City? Looking at a fun possible weekend in June. And is there another board similar to this with info on gay bars and sights?

Is there a site for providers to share information about potential scam clients? Obviously, asking for a friend who needs some clarity.

Tampa is on my visitation schedule but if you tell me this man (with the emerging hairy chest and muscles!) is a regular, I'll step up that date! What's this gorgeous dancer's name?

I've known Bo for a while and while I understand the name changing as a red flag, in this case, I really don't think it's the case. If he's running, he sure does live in plain sight of a lot of us who he knows are on these boards and could "out" him of anything shady He's always been up front with me (I admit I've never hired him for a private) and super sexy and sensual. I agree with tonyward - love kissing his lips and when I play with his muscles, it's always fun on the playground!

I was there for Mardi Gras week and went to the corner pocket. I usually find some diamonds in the rough there, and enjoy myself immensely. There was absolutely nothing! I was sad because I brought some friends with me in hopes that they might enjoy seeing some strippers but that didn’t happen. However, we had a fantastic time at Oz mainly because they brought in West Coast talent! Had a great time there two nights in a row!

I know both of these boys personally and they are loads of fun! I wish I didn’t know them so I could enjoy their muscles more! Haha

Can someone share his Instagram?

I know Johnson’s is the best spot for muscle but I’m looking for some other opinions on where else to go. I’ve had great luck at Boardwalk and there was some promising talent at LeBoy last year around this time of year. But I miss the “raunchy” side of the strip clubs in FTL and while Johnson’s has the muscle, they also have the lights and the crowd. Matt runs a great club and I enjoy myself there but it’s a tad “sterile” in the bar. Thoughts from the peanut gallery on where else has some muscle fun to play? I could just “order in” but that just gets so pricy!!!

Can you give your estimation of the crowd at Boardwalk? Last year there were some great muscle guys from Argentina that literally made it worth my while to sit and wait for them to let me worship at the bar or in the corner. From the looks of the ads, I haven’t seen any muscle there. But they don’t do a great job of using their social media to “show the goods”! Anyway, just looking for some opinions to help with my next few days here…

I used to be pretty clear on this topic, thinking it’s just part of gay male neurosis because of how we learn about loving with our sexuality. As young boys we hide our feelings and don’t have healthy models of his to love people to whom we are attracted. So our “crushes” are hit or miss - falling for unavailable guys, “straight” guys, or o sensing over other gay guys who have made clear they are not attracted to us in the same way that we are attracted to them. However, I’ve come to the realization that straight men, those who “identify” and those are actually straight, are just people who, like us before, do not have words to explain what they are going through, models to follow, or clear ways to express their own attraction. Currently, a straight man who I am in love with but I know I can’t be with loves me incredibly deeply. He is not sexually attracted to me but he is emotionally attracted to me. We are very close friends and he likes to see me be pleasured by being with him, even though he does not get sexually aroused by my arousal. However, he loves to “perform” sexually with me because he knows how much I love him and he wants me to be happy and to enjoy myself by enjoying him. (No, he does not receive money from me nor do I pay his bills or anything of that nature. We met at a gay club where he was a dancer. But we’ve known each other for six years and we’ve grown to be friends.) So I don’t have the answer to it all. I just am coming to a deeper understanding that people are people. And just like I don’t want to be categorized and put into a box, I don’t need to do that to anyone else either. So, if we truly want to allow love to win, I think we need to let each person “love” how they love.

Of this era I don’t have many stories. I was young and just starting out with these kinds of shenanigans. But probably the only famous ones started in the 90’s. Marco Rossi and Jon Vincent come to mind…

I have a very bad habit of befriending providers and enjoying friendship well beyond the normal boundaries. In a few instances, in return for my hosting them when they travel to my city, even though I do not engage their services, some of these providers have given me "freebies." I have a few who have become very close friends and so I now decline any of the freebies just because we are closer friends and I would start feeling weird. Of course, there's always one. And this one and I are so very close. We talk or text every day but we are not in a relationship. We are super close friends but I've broached the subject with him about our "relationship." I love the guy and he's "my guy" as much as I have a guy. We are not sexually compatible but I'm convinced he is emotionally attracted to me and our relationship. When he stays we hang all day and we cuddle. When he wants to release, he invites me to enjoy it with him. But deep in my heart, I know we are only friends. This is the closest I've gotten to what i think this post is about.

Haha I'd be happy to ask Jake for you!

Next time take him home! I'm sure he'd love it!

Haha I didn't "introduce" myself this time as MuscleWorshipper this time. But I know I have shared this handle with you before! While I typically like to worship the biggest muscle in the house, lately this little package of muscle has been garnering my attention. And he did not disappoint: he made me chew on his pits and lick his lats and kiss his biceps. All from my usual perch! I eventually had to pull him into a private room because I think we were causing a scene and I wanted to be a little more explicit with my worship. But more to your point my friend, you are not a moron. I just haven't been living up to my muscle preferences with more obvious choices! Maybe I should change my handle since I don't always go for the biggest muscle...Lord Varys (except with both balls!) indeed is an appropriate moniker considering the vantage point that I often hold! 😜 I'm glad we had so much fun on Saturday! Good seeing you again my friend! Now you're all thinking this: When we all want to think of this: Or even one of my all-time faves:

To be fair, I was clear that I was there on a weekend and that I went back REALLY late. So to have expectations for 11:00 PM on Tuesday...well. It was Tuesday at 11:00. As another poster has said in the thread, I know how to say no and don't have a problem being firm and just letting a dancer keeping walking on by. They stop asking after the second or third "no thanks." And I had plenty of incredible interaction with the dancers that we're uber hot. Argentinians that clearly come up to make their money and have plenty to live on for the year. The three that I enjoyed were in superb shape; two of them compete. And they were very generous with their time. I always stayed at the bar or did a more private dance in the corner. I never went to the back room. Didn't need to. And all that money went directly to the dancer. They know how to play the game and so do I! As for sleazy...one man's junk is another man's treasure. I never thought Boardwalk was sleazy haha If that's sleazy, I doubt you'd enjoy any of the bars I've been to in Mexico! But to each his own! More fun for those of us who enjoy it until the wee hours of the morning! For the record, I enjoy Johnson's too. It's just a different vibe and totally different kind off stripper bar. I enjoy both!

Oh now you're playing coy and hard to get! And I thought you said I'd be hard to forget...

Clearly...I am NOT a lady as I don't care where the action happens! I'll take it wherever I can get it! haha Fun seeing you in LA Coolwave!

I can't wait to see Johnson's Tampa! I know it's a challenging city to staff compared to FTL but there are plenty of hot men in Tampa to dance. And when they eventually see that they can make the money dancing for men, the "homo-phobia" will fall to the wayside. Matt will find them. The other dancers will start bragging. It'll bring all the folks from the West Coast of Florida out of the woods and into the big city!

Love the new 7.0 version. I look forward to when they get all the kinks out. Search function was a little slow but I love the grid version and the expandable pictures!

This man is still sex on a stick! His muscles, sexy attitude, and just a beautiful open personality...Hit the guy up! He certainly knows how to keep me rock hard! https://app.rent.men/Franko_Domenec

This young man has joined this board and has let it be known that he is working in NY. I spoke to him recently and was incredibly impressed with his professionalism and willingness to work with me. I was only wanting a video but after talking to him, I put him on my list for when I visit NYC in the Fall. He certainly knows his work! Don't know exactly what you're looking for in your meet up with the guys on your list but this one certainly works for me!

Well I hope that certainly is the case. Every time I go to Chasers I think, Why did I choose to come out here again? I'll hold out hope that Chasers chooses to invest in some dancer entertainment...

I visit Charlotte a few times a year to see family. In the six or seven years that I’ve gone out in Charlotte, only once has there been a dancer that I enjoyed at Chasers. At the time, one could still have a “lap dance” up on a stool up by the DJ booth. But since then, there have really been only 2 or 3 dancers, almost all of them really thin twinks (which isn’t my type). As large as Charlotte is, I’m amazed that they can’t find a handful of guys who want to dance for tips…