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    411 on J_nyc

    Anyone ever try him? Would be interested to know your experience. DMs ok. https://rent.men/J_nyc
  2. Hey guys. Gonna be in Brooklyn soon and looking for recommendations for otter-y types who like to bottom and can give a good boyfriend experience. Prefer 30s-40s, nice real bods (Adonis muscle guys not my thing), any race, no partying. Let me know if you have experience with any easygoing, reliable guys. Thanks!
  3. generally tip about 25% plus I offered to pay for the hotel night on top of that
  4. Hi guys. So there’s one provider I see pretty regularly who really matches what I need physically and emotionally when we meet up. I always tip generously and am straightforward in our dealings so I don’t waste his time or make extra demands on him. We don’t live in the same city but he is visiting near where I am to see family for the holidays. He let me know he’d be in town and we booked about a week or 10 days in advance for a time that he set. I offered to pay his hotel room for the night as an extra holiday thank you and a cost I would normally cover anyway when we are together. I had to drive about an hour to meet him. On my way, he wrote to say he was tied up with family and would need another 30 minutes and did I want to book for the next night instead. Told him I was already on my way, but that if it didn’t work out, I’d understand. I can’t meet him the other nights he is in town, as I already made plans to be away from home tonight. Asking for a little perspective to understand how annoyed I should be. All in, I’m on the hook for a good chunk of change to cover our time and his hotel, which was my offer and which I genuinely meant as a way to help him out. But I realize I was maybe expecting a little special treatment above and beyond our normal routine in terms of some extra time or lack of wrapping up exactly after 90 minutes. Am I wrong to be slightly irritated that we may have to watch the clock as normal, as I have to get back on the road to get home after? To be clear, this is not a situation of me thinking there is anything more between us than an agreed-upon exchange. My question isn’t about romance but whether he is taking advantage in some way or if I am being unreasonable in expecting some kind of gratitude for shelling out an extra couple of hundred bucks to pay for his room on top of his regular fee plus a tip. Curious for outside perspective and totally understand I may be the one being unfair in this scenario. Thanks for any constructive thoughts.
  5. Thanks Bozo. Syracuse is a little far for me, but Tommy Parker seems like he’d be worth a trip!
  6. 🤩 thanks for the tip. I’ll reach out to him. He ticks all my boxes.
  7. Looking to find some regular fun without having to go down to NYC. Anyone have some recommendations for fun guys, massage or otherwise? Thanks!😊
  8. Saw Mario for the third time last week. He will stay on my regular list. He really enjoys what he does and can also hold a conversation after. He gives a great boyfriend experience.
  9. Anyone ever try him? WildhrtMiko - Male Massage & Bodywork in Asheville, NC | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur WildhrtMiko in Asheville, NC offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic...
  10. Just saw him again and highly recommended anyone looking for a playful bottom. He travels to a fair number of cities pretty regularly. DM for details.
  11. Agree with this comment. I’m 53 and about 15 lbs overweight, so not fat but not thin. I don’t even register for most guys. I’m taking the weight off now a couple of pounds a week. The buff guys may let me rejoin their ranks but it’s not the same knowing how dependent it is on my body fat percentage. I am mostly losing the weight for myself to continue to age well and stay active, but I admit I do want other guys to find me fuckable.
  12. Willing to share details? Hoping to see him in a few weeks. Will be heading to Asheville regularly and would love to find someone to have fun with. DM ok.
  13. Highly recommend Mark in NYC if you’re looking to host at your place/hotel. Very sweet, passionate, eager bottom with a legit hard body. DM for details if you want. https://rent.men/MuscleMarkMM
  14. Anyway try to set something up with him? Curious.
  15. Can be useful but it takes some effort. Met some fun guys through it tho. You just have to be prepared that it’s not always as instantaneous as you might think. If you’re really horny and need immediate action, you’re best using it to see if there’s anyone at a nearby public spot.
  16. Just tried to book with him for next week. Very easy to communicate with and responsive. Open to requests. Friendly. He quoted me rate of 375 to travel into Midtown. Seems like a steep surcharge. Might look for someone in Manhattan instead.
  17. Anyone try him yet? Seems like he just started on RM a few months ago MuscleMarkMM - Male Escort, Gay massage - New York City | Rent.Men RENT.MEN MuscleMarkMM Gay Escort in New York City, New York, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Available for...
  18. Keep us posted. Curious if he’s worth a trip down from upstate.
  19. I’m usually a little shy on the first time. He’s very sweet and open to do things. I didn’t ask for anything too wild but I think he’s pretty comfortable with a lot. Very sexy guy. Looking forward to seeing him again.
  20. Seeing him for a second time in a few weeks. Will let you know.
  21. I didn’t mean to make it sound like I didn’t believe him. He was very nice about it and offered to see me anyway, but we agreed at my suggestion it would be better to wait. Hope to see him in the future.
  22. Nah. He had to cancel for “a minor accident.”
  23. I’ve seen him. Was not really a good fit for me. Pretty mechanical and didn’t seem very into it but YMMV. Session was definitely short. Got to the erotic part pretty quick.
  24. Whoa. He’s hot! Anyone reach out to him or see him yet? Would love to hear details.
  25. I try to go out of my way when booking via text to show that I am considerate of a provider’s time and respectful of boundaries. For me, it is usually about kissing more than sex. If there is a strict no kissing rule, I say thanks and move on. If they say it’s about chemistry, I say I understand and we should check in about it when we meet. It makes it a lot easier when meeting in person if we’ve texted about some things in advance. And of course I make sure to always show up freshly showered, brushed teeth, etc.
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