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Bumping this up since it was merged and lots of the previous thread is about Pnp and/or providers no longer available. Would love some suggestions! Thanks

any more recent updates? seriously considering but the price sounds high even for nyc

at the time, yes, which was why i mentioned it in my post. not sure if that has changed. haven't seen him again recently.

Looks like my regular provider in Brooklyn is out of the game. Haven't seen in him in a few months because of travel, but he seems to be off the radar now that I'm back. Would love any recs on guys 30+ in nyc/brooklyn who are great at BFE, kissing, sensual play. open to all types of guys but prefer someone who can also have a good conversation. thanks in advance and feel free to dm if you'd rather keep it private.

Why wait til the second session to ask? Most providers I know prefer upfront conversation after you’ve booked but before the meet to set expectations. Just don’t waste their time with a lot of back and forth. Say what you like clearly and succinctly and that you’re open to discussing details once you’re together.

Anyone have any info? Planning to book with him. Wondering what to expect. Thanks! https://rent.men/Dawnlocke

Agreed. Also I’d be very skeptical of Hush. Haven’t been in a couple of years. Last time I was there I got really sick after with a virus of some kind. Place is definitely not clean and it may have been Julio who was sick but still working. 🙁

Agree that in my regular town, arranging a hookup can be an all-day affair.

Agree with this 100%. Also seems to work the best when I say I’m a daddy looking for a son. Usually get a dozen or 15 serious replies in the first 24 hours.

feel the same, but if i had it, i'd spend more. part of me thinks it would be fun to pay for a boyfriend on the side, but i'm pretty sure i'd get too attached emotionally and it would not end well.

we are obviously in different tax brackets. but more power to you if you can afford it!

It’s good to lead with confidence, I guess…

Just curious how much other guys spend for this hobby on average every month. It can certainly add up. I manage to keep it pretty reasonable with one regular at a time every month or six weeks depending on our schedules, plus a massage here and there, which adds up to about 7 or 8K per year. Wonder about others.

Sorry but throat tattoos are a total turn off for me. Fine with other tats but that one is a real dealbreaker.

Just added him to my buddy list for the next time I’m in NY. Excited to give him a try based on everyone’s recommendations.

Anyone have anything to share about this guy? Didn’t find him in a search. Might make a trip to Boston to see him if he’s worth it. Ticks a lot of boxes for me. https://rentmen.eu/whiteandhairy/#rmotd

Hmm. Wonder if the pics are from 2019 also. Very interested in this guy but wish there was more feedback on him.

I have an escort I am starting to make a regular. Have seen him about 6 times total over about 16 months, but three of those were in the last three months. We have never renegotiated his rate from the first time we met, which was $425 for 90 min. On second and third visits, I gave him $500. By our fourth, when I knew I wanted to keep it more regular between us, I bumped up to $550. Interestingly, I’m always the one suggesting it’s time to wrap up at about 90 minutes. I’m sure he’d hang out a little longer if I wanted. I try hard to keep our texting brief, respect his time, and hope he feels like I am one of his best clients. I’ve told him explicitly I don’t have romantic feelings but I’m fond of our time together and I’d like to keep seeing him as often as we can make it work and as long as we are both comfortable. I’m sure I’ll bump what I pay even more at some point. In the long run, the connection I have with him is worth it.

Agree he's not as hairy as most otters, but he would scratch my itch.

HI @bobsboy51. I've seen Mario a few times as well and am a big fan. Highly recommend him to anyone looking in NYC or wherever he is traveling. I may very well book with him again but was wondering about other possible recommendations as well. Thanks.

Thanks. This guy definitely ticks my boxes. I’ll at least reach out to him to find out more.

Appreciate that feedback. It’s a good point. I am booking with this guy more frequently, mostly cuz logistics have just worked out that way (we’ve been in the same city more than usual), but I am liking seeing him more often and will do my best to make it more regular.

Fair enough. It’s why I asked for perspective. Thanks for responding.

I always wonder about the right amount to tip. I’ve seen this guy a handful of times now and want to step up how much I pay him just because it is a good fit for me in terms of meeting exactly what I want out of a session. I don’t necessarily want more time or anything extra when we meet but do want him to understand that the service he offers means a lot to me, which I tell him.

Agree. And only 1 review.