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Whoa. Thanks for the heads up. Sounds like trouble. Will avoid this guy for sure.

Previous thread on him is closed. Anyone with recent experience? https://rentmasseur.com/NewYorkTantric

I messaged once, couldn’t find a time that worked due to their schedule, and then got random messages from them all the time asking if I was looking even after several polite no thanks or I would reach out next time I was in their area. They were never rude or aggressive, but it’s annoying to get so many messages from a provider you never actually met.

Woof! 🐶

Bump. Would love to know more about this guy. He checks my boxes as well and I’d be happy to make a trip to RI to see him.

Wanna share more details about what you mean? You can DM me if you want.

I’ve seen him multiple times recently. No upselling, very friendly, lots of extras. He’s very upfront that what he’s willing to do depends on chemistry so YMMV. We had a very hot time tho. DM me for details if you’re curious.

Anyone been to him recently? Like guys a little on the older side and I definitely find him handsome. I get a therapeutic only vibe from him but sometimes I like a challenge. 🤣

Hey. Just want to say you are not the only one to feel this way and some people just need longer than others for things to click. I’m late 40s and with someone now, but I was in a similar position in my 30s. Even with the person I am with now, the sexual chemistry was not the thing that lasted. We were very hot together when we met but it wasn’t the basis of our attraction to one another. We genuinely like each other’s company and that has persisted even when the sex has gone up and down. Don’t know if this helps at all, but maybe try not to worry about it so much like a problem to solve? You sound like a good guy. I wish you happiness.

Bump

You are being too kind. I am sorry anybody body shamed you. You are obviously a really handsome guy and you should rightly feel proud of your body. You are a real class act. 😉

Find this stuff designed for men so fucking hot. Never worn it myself but like to see guys who do.

Either way.

In my late 40s, I am finding for the first time that I’m really interested in learning how to be a good top. Any masseurs out there, esp NYC or Boston, who you think might be patient enough to teach me? DM with any details if you have specifics to share. Thanks, guys!

He’s been around in the Bay Area for a long time now. Used to live there. Saw him once about 8 years ago. Had a good time but never repeated. We didn’t have the right chemistry together to make it a regular thing, but that was not on him. Seemed like a nice enough guy.

Haven’t had experience, but not surprised this guy is booking clients quick if he just put up his ad. Woof!

I’ve experienced changing tastes too. Had no interest in piss when I was younger, but in my late 40s, couldn’t stop fantasizing about it. Finally had a masseur piss on me a few months ago, and…didn’t actually do all that much for me. Haha. But now at least I can let it go and move onto other fantasies!

I’ve booked with him on Sept 5. Like guys a little closer to me in age. DM if you want me to share details after.

He also does massage. I was just recommending his sugaring services. 😉

Agreed. David usually keeps it pretty professional. He opened the door a little with me one time, I think, but I didn’t take him up on it. Probably should have bc it’s never seemed like it could happen since. His sugaring is awesome tho if you want good service on that.

Hey guys. New on here. Live in upstate NY and looking for recommendations for masseurs 35 and up in NYC or Boston or other places nearby. Like them a little older. Guys into kissing are preferred. Thanks!

Thank you for this guy! Wow the way he just slides in there is so hot!

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Thanks ketut. Hadn’t seen anything recent and was wondering if anyone wanted share their experience. Curious what he offers and how good the massage is. Find him very sexy.

Gil Colorina at SF Manscaping does a great wax and spa service. Never tried anything extra with him but he’s very professional and fair priced. Great guy.