Chiming in here from a client perspective.
There are very successful providers who do not show their face. One reason given is they have clientele very focused on discretion - especially in a public setting.
It wouldn’t be a deal breaker not to have a face photo. But….
Goes back to my response in your earlier thread:
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/what-most-attracts-you-in-an-escorts-ad.125641/page-2
If the photos that you do use are well composed, draw “initial interest” and exude a bit of mystery I’d likely be willing to dig deeper.
Maybe consider photos that are a bit of a compromise.
- Shadow, silhouette or photo angle with just enough lighting to give some indication about you.
- Pixilation or blurring that still gives an indication.
- A narrow “rectangle slice” (or two) that gives an idea about you. Maybe a diagonal “slice” that takes in most of an eye, some cheek, a little corner of your smiling mouth and part of your chin.
If discretion is your focus I’d suggest not showing your “package” in the same photo as your face. That way, if photos get back to grandma, you can try to claim “plausible deniability” that someone stole your photos. And don’t use any ad photos anywhere else. Especially any kind of social media.
Actually a “package” shot, covered by tight wet briefs, probably gives enough information for that area for initial contact.