DavidNY

He’s always had great reviews.

Theo and I are square as we’re going to get. I just appreciate all you guys who helped. And all the providers out there who I have had great experiences with, I appreciate you even more for the mutual trust and respect—especially the twink I hired this weekend who wanted to remain private, but glad I was able to repurpose these funds as a tip for someone who worked extra hard for it 😉

The remainder amount was repaid in full today. Thanks everyone. Happy Pride.

Unfortunately, I have not received any of “promised” funds by the end of the “promised day from Theo. And, again, he communicated nothing to me after a big long message of him needing to relieve his conscience. So, take what you will out of that. It’s fine guys, i think shutting him down was good, had just hoped he would do better.

He messaged me and said he wanted to pay back the rest today. Will let you guys know if he follows through.

You just keep doing the right thing there Theoriley . It’s doing wonders for your business. But you’ll see that for yourself.

Actually, you stole, you lied, you threatened, etc. As posting screenshots of private conversations is against forum rules, I will let anyone who is considering hiring Theoriley who would like to DM me, I will show you exactly what the whole situation is with screenshots. Enjoy your sexy life.

I’m so glad you’re in a different place. So am I. I just made a mistake letting you off the hook for the full amount. I apologize for feeling sorry for you, we had a deal that the deposit was to be used for travel expenses, then you went back on “your word”. See how this works? As multiple other members have said, even other providers now, you stole 500, you pay 500. If you really cared about you business, you’d pay back that plus some for having to wait two years for it plus tip for being a real twat about it. See how this works? This “posse” is the most read site for clients for your services btw. Sorry I didn’t just “take the L” and move on as you so generously suggested. I am still willing to delete all my comments related to the incident when the full amount has been returned. Unfortunately, now that Theo has sparked this up, he’ll have to ask each other member who has commented on it to delete theirs as well. Good job with defending yourself.

I never do MUF either. Tends to decrease performance. I might give a new guy 50 bucks for showing up, just so he knows I’m not trying to rip him off. @PhileasFogg I’m not paying a fee to leave a review on RM. The provider can challenge any review they don’t like! It’s such a scam. I know I let Theoriley off the hook, but it bothers me that he never made an effort to pay the whole amount back like he said he would. I kinda expected that, but it says a lot about his character.

That sucks. I think they get cash in hand and lose their minds. I had worked with Theoriley before, even given him a travel deposit with no problem. Next time I booked him he stole 500 bucks. He never did finish paying it back, although he did give me a public apology.

Really poor communication. Kinda rude honestly, so I passed.

Skip him.

He has a really nice jaw line

No relation. 😏

Fair enough. If it helps, I did confirm directly with the provider that he uses he/him pronouns (he will also accept they/them, but never she/her as implied in multiple places in his profile, starting with referring to himself as a ‘guy’ in the first sentence, but also in his interview questions). I also booked him as I was already planning a trip to Canada. Will let you know how it goes! Hope that helps resolve any confusion or misgendering! (Sorry I couldn’t help more with the willful ignorance) I love his tats too. Not easy to make that much ink look so thoughtfully designed!

You clearly need education, but don’t want it. The fact this guy put FTM in his profile name is a clear request for acknowledgment and respect of his male identity. Not sure your fetishized sexual encounters was the best reference for your vast knowledge base of gender identity, but it does help to clarify that this was intentional transphobic behavior that really should be addressed.

@pubic_assistance Actually, no. FTM means assigned Female at birth Transitioned to Male (or Female To Male) Generally meaning, now using masculine pronouns (i.e. he/him). While some transmasc people use they/he or they/them, rarely would someone identifying as FTM use she/her pronouns, and most would find it offensive. It is possible, but pretty unlikely unless this person specifically shared they still use or don’t mind feminine pronouns. A quick google search would probably help you, if you need some additional education. Ah, hell, I’ll even do it for you in case that’s too much effort for you to exert for trans people. If you did it on purpose because you don’t believe trans people exist or deserve to have their gender identity respected, then that’s just gross behavior.

He does have a reputation for being flakey.

“Looking for long term relationship…” don’t see that too often on RM. 1500 is an overnight price in my mind, but know your value I guess. I do find his profile a bit off putting—the tats are friggin hilarious though! I really hope they’re real.

I had a good experience with him. Good communication, higher on rates than I thought he merited, and I think he is shavin some years, but he has a great twink body, looks mostly like his pics, and accommodated everything I wanted to do. Hired about a year ago so not sure if things have changed since then.

@pubic_assistance the first sentence is kinda cringy, not sure if that was intentional (hopefully not). Unless you know something about this person’s pronouns/identity that wasn’t listed in his profile, generally FTM implies he/him pronouns and he’s a dude with a vag (not a ‘she who is a male presenting person’) But God, his body makes me wanna get on testosterone!! I’d totally hire and would love to hear any reviews.

Doesn’t this usually work the other way around? Like “massage therapists” get slowly into providing escort services?

He’s advertising in NYC currently. Anyone actually meet him or does he continue to be OF only?

Actually RM is very good at verifying age and legal identity documents. They don’t require you post your accurate age, but they make damn sure providers are legal. They’re not stupid. (I also require an ID check when I meet with providers, although I let them cover their legal name and address, unless I’m flying them in, then they have to send me their id before I buy a plane ticket)

Now I hate him