I recently met an escort who was very communicative during the setup, stating he understood exactly what I wanted. When we finally met, not only did he not address my desires, but became the exact opposite. I have a string of text where he elaborated on how he would please me in the way I wanted, but when I got through the door he just went into his usual mode of aggressive force the client into submission phase. (I had wanted a slow and romantic BFE). It's honestly something I've never encountered before and I know YMMV etc etc but why would someone agree (and even elaborate on what he would do in response to my request which sounded absolutely thrilling) and then do close to what seems to be the exact opposite? I was quite turned off by this. I don't know how I could have made myself more clear - I sense I may have been played for a bit of a fool. Any others have such experiences - and any advice on how one can avoid them?