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I text him and received no response after a few days. Alas…he looks really sexy!

Does he host? Take an uber to his place.

One of the magical things about your first time, is the realization the moment you lay eyes on each other and instantly know each other. Its immediate. It’s sexy. Wink at him or give him a fun smirk….its the best. Enjoy it.

Hey—first of all, take a breath. You’ve already done the hardest part. You reached out, made a plan, and now it’s happening. That’s a big deal. And yeah, it’s totally normal to be nervous. Everyone is the first time. Honestly, the only real mistakes I’ve made in situations like this were because I let nerves take over. So try not to. Relax. Take a walk, throw on some porn if that helps you get in the mood, and remind yourself—you want this. That’s why you’re doing it. This guy’s a pro. Discretion is part of the job. He’s done this a hundred times. He’ll know how to come and go without anyone blinking. He doesn’t want to draw attention to himself either. He’s there to make things smooth, simple, and low-key. You’ve already told him what you’re looking for—which is great. If there’s anything else you want—or don’t want—just say it clearly. Before things get physical. That’s what good communication is, and pros respect that. Now, about the hotel—totally get it, not being out and having coworkers around. You’ve got options. When you check in, ask for a room away from the rest of your group—ideally even on a different floor if possible. I do it all the time. Hotel front desk staff absolutely understand discretion. A quiet, direct ask like, “Could I be somewhere a little more private, away from the group?” with a bit of eye contact has worked for me 100% of the time. And if it seems like others in your group might overhear and start asking questions, no worries—just let everyone else check in first, then step up to the desk on your own. I’m telling you—I’ve done this before. As for the actual meetup, you can give the provider clear instructions on how to get to your room—most hotels don’t require any interaction at the front desk. If you’re nervous about him knocking, ask him to text when he’s outside so you can open the door right away—no hallway lingering. You could also leave the door slightly open like you’re waiting on room service, or if it feels easier, just meet him outside and walk in together like two people getting back from dinner. Your coworkers aren’t paying attention unless you give them a reason to. Keep it casual, keep it calm. Also—don’t be afraid to say, “Hey, I’m a little nervous—any ideas for keeping it low-key?” He’s the pro. He’s there to make it easy. He might have tricks you haven’t even thought of. Last thing—don’t overthink it. Be smart, stay safe, but let yourself enjoy this. You’re in control. This is about you feeling good. And you’ve got this. KEEP US UPDATED! We all want to know how it goes!

I thought the same thing.

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I couldn’t agree more, bkwiseass, he doesn’t seem to be anywhere else. I did reach out to him, so who knows—I may be updating this soon. have fun you guys, love you all! Thanks

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Meeting him in a few! Fingers crossed guy….i have high hopes for this cutie!,

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Jamie21. Your response is perfect and makes sense, but wow…that “Hey” is so tempting—I am a 63 year old guy and I’m fearful some of the providers I reach out to will laugh in my face (well, laugh in my face to my photo the screen, ha). What do younger providers think of being with older guys? Are they grossed out? I’m clean, groomed, considerate, respectful, and I take clues from my provider. Seriously, I feel like a good respectable client…and the people I’m with usually seem to react positively to me. Thats’s sometime why I say “Hey” instead of my stats and such in my initial message. Jamie21…I will continue with stats, appointment details, requests, and where I found their information. thank you for your insight. Thanks for clarifying! love you guys! Thanks.

Any updates? He’s so cute…sweet smile. I reached out to him…in the meantime, let me know what you find about this cutie. Thanks all!

Very cute, but one or two is all I need, ha.

Thanks. Do you have the current roster?

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I’ve been chatting when with, when I thought to check here. He seems so great…should I heed your advice? He seems sweet and says all the right things as sincerely as I can detect.

For me, whether they cum or not doesn’t make or break my experience. I generally assume they won’t, so when they do, it’s a pleasant surprise—it tells me they’re genuinely engaged and enjoying our time together. What’s frustrating about the uncertainty of ‘will they or won’t they’ is knowing how to pace myself. Should I hold back and time things out for mutual enjoyment, or should I just go for it, even if it leaves them behind? Some might argue that as the client, my experience should come first. But in my view, it’s still about two people enjoying each other, and I approach it with the same level of consideration I would in any personal relationship.

I’ve been chatting with a sweet guy recently and we’re meeting today. He’s trans, hot, seems to be a kind guy… I’m really excited to meet him. I found him on rentmen; he’s traveling through NYC for the day. I’ll report back.

So how did it go???

Thank you WestGuy

Hey there. How do I find him on onlyfans? I searched AndyVit and BigBoyJoey and nothing came up. I’ve also never been on onlyfans before, so I’m sure it’s user error, ha. thanks guys!

Ooops, I’m afraid that’s my fault. I’ll try to alert the moderators. Thanks guys.

I’m the kind of guy that likes a guy by who he is as a person. I dated a transman briefly and it was no different than dating a bio guy. He was sweet and fun…what’s not to like, ha. From that sweet relationship, I have had the random opportunity to meet other people who aren’t born male and I enjoy it very much. As I said above, objectification is not what I’m into at all, it’s the guy. has anyone here hired a transman before?