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Jamie21. Your response is perfect and makes sense, but wow…that “Hey” is so tempting—I am a 63 year old guy and I’m fearful some of the providers I reach out to will laugh in my face (well, laugh in my face to my photo the screen, ha). What do younger providers think of being with older guys? Are they grossed out? I’m clean, groomed, considerate, respectful, and I take clues from my provider. Seriously, I feel like a good respectable client…and the people I’m with usually seem to react positively to me. Thats’s sometime why I say “Hey” instead of my stats and such in my initial message. Jamie21…I will continue with stats, appointment details, requests, and where I found their information. thank you for your insight. Thanks for clarifying! love you guys! Thanks.

Any updates? He’s so cute…sweet smile. I reached out to him…in the meantime, let me know what you find about this cutie. Thanks all!

Very cute, but one or two is all I need, ha.

Thanks. Do you have the current roster?

As the title mentions, I’m looking for providers who have big thick muscular calves. It’s a difficult thing to search for on the sites, so hoping for your suggestions. thanks guys, love you all.

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I’ve been chatting when with, when I thought to check here. He seems so great…should I heed your advice? He seems sweet and says all the right things as sincerely as I can detect.

For me, whether they cum or not doesn’t make or break my experience. I generally assume they won’t, so when they do, it’s a pleasant surprise—it tells me they’re genuinely engaged and enjoying our time together. What’s frustrating about the uncertainty of ‘will they or won’t they’ is knowing how to pace myself. Should I hold back and time things out for mutual enjoyment, or should I just go for it, even if it leaves them behind? Some might argue that as the client, my experience should come first. But in my view, it’s still about two people enjoying each other, and I approach it with the same level of consideration I would in any personal relationship.

I’ve been chatting with a sweet guy recently and we’re meeting today. He’s trans, hot, seems to be a kind guy… I’m really excited to meet him. I found him on rentmen; he’s traveling through NYC for the day. I’ll report back.

So how did it go???

Thank you WestGuy

Hey there. How do I find him on onlyfans? I searched AndyVit and BigBoyJoey and nothing came up. I’ve also never been on onlyfans before, so I’m sure it’s user error, ha. thanks guys!

Ooops, I’m afraid that’s my fault. I’ll try to alert the moderators. Thanks guys.

I’m the kind of guy that likes a guy by who he is as a person. I dated a transman briefly and it was no different than dating a bio guy. He was sweet and fun…what’s not to like, ha. From that sweet relationship, I have had the random opportunity to meet other people who aren’t born male and I enjoy it very much. As I said above, objectification is not what I’m into at all, it’s the guy. has anyone here hired a transman before?

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First off, thanks for this great site! You’ve all helped me more than you know, and I really appreciate the camaraderie here. As the title of this post suggests, I’ve been wondering why there seem to be so few (if any) discussions about non-biological male,providers. I’m never quite sure which terms are most widely accepted, but trans and FTM come to mind. I know there are other identities I may not be familiar with, and I certainly don’t mean to generalize or exclude—or to objectify. This is just something I’ve noticed and I would love to be able to look to this site to get your insight on some of the providers I am interested in meeting. I can’t be the only one who enjoys spending time with all kinds of guys, so I’d love to hear from anyone with insights, experiences, or thoughts on this. Are there specific spaces where these conversations are happening, or is it just not a common topic here? For context, I’m 63, tall, and slender—not a gym body, but a darn nice guy. Looking forward to your perspectives!

Agreed in every way!

He’s one of the best! He’s not in NYC this month, fyi.

Couldn’t agree more. He’s wonderful.

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