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Depends on how good and experienced the top is, which position(s) and if we are switching positions frequently to maintain interest and avoid fatigue on both sides of the equation. Regular reapplication of lube helps, and silicone lasts longer between applications.
Some of my longest encounters have been when flip fucking, switching it up every twenty to thirty minutes. Each partner’s hole gets a break for a little while before going again. 
Also depends on intensity and pace. Sometimes I can be inside a bottom and slowly, intentionally, and sensually linger hard and being fully inside him, barely moving, pulsing to stimulate his prostate and areas around it and past it. He feels every micrometer of movement and fullness and appreciates it. Helps him fully relax and engage the experience and heighten his senses, so that when we do pick back up to medium or faster pace, he feels each thrust even more intensely. Like tasting and chewing thoroughly each bite of a delicious, nicely prepared meal, and pacing one’s self to enjoy the whole dish. Not just gobbling it down mindlessly and feeling “full” but unsatisfied.
Changes in pace are good too, if not position. Jack hammering is ok for short times when the bottom is into it, all the way back down to the slow sensual pulsing I mentioned, and most of the time it’s something in the range in between the two extremes. It can be fun putting just the tip in back and forth to stimulate his magic button. Also pulling all the way out and plunging back in at different speeds and angles and positions. My god there are a lot of ways to fuck. Why not enjoy all of them? Sometimes that takes a long while to do them all.
Breaks are good too, but I like long sessions with a compatible partner. Even better when my bottom can go more than an hour. Short sessions are fun too, don’t get me wrong, and most of the time a single round of sex lasts under an hour. With enough variety, pacing, positioning, and stamina, though sex can be an amazing adventure lasting well over an hour, and something comfortable and enjoyable for both parties. Fun when it works out.
People’s bodies have various limitations like joints getting sore or poor flexibility, or whatever. Then of course holes get sore too. Long fuck sessions aren’t for everyone.

My boots are on the ground here at InnDulge. I’m checked in for the week. Now for a cocktail and a dip in the hot tub. Had a nice chat over dinner with other guests. What a nice crowd.
Room 23

Adding these two hunks to the list. What a fantastic group with these two and my client. Another successful dream team.
Damiano I don’t believe normally offers escort services (did long ago), just massage and he go-go dances, but he was gracious to join us for an appropriate fee.
 
Damian was excellent, professional. Highly recommend!
 
 

Saw him yesterday and he was a sweetheart. Super handsome with dark features, cute mustache and tall lean buzzed otter/twink body. His building and apartment downtown were lovely, his space is very clean and inviting. There were lots of parking spots wrapping his block and his building is next to many nice cafes and bars in the Petco Park area. When I arrived and when I left he offered a shower, which was a kind gesture. I thought his table was a little uncomfortable (not too wide, not too padded) but it didn’t bother me after my initial reaction. The massage was Swedish style sensual, which was very relaxing even though he doesn’t seem trained. He didn’t mind both nude and mutual touch, so the energy flowed well and it was a fun time. I left happy and will go back. He’s charging 180 which is a good price based on the market. If you want more sensual over therapeutic in a nice environment than he’s great choice. If you want real body work or deep tissue therapy, you’ll probably want to keep looking.

Clients are wary of being taken advantage of. They don’t want to waste their time and money on masseurs unwilling to meet their needs.
I get it, law enforcement is a real concern.  Clients hiring what they want is also a real concern. US laws make for an inefficient market. There is no perfect solution.
Accept the clients you feel comfortable seeing. Decline the ones you don’t. There is no standardized way to communicate about our services, nor is there a standardized way to offer them. You can’t ask the market to conform to your preferences regarding communication up front. It’s a fool’s errand. Some clients are more forward, some less so. Good luck changing that in either direction.
Until we in the US have more sensible laws concerning sex work, we providers unfortunately must navigate the murky world of communication about sex work services, making our own calls about who we see. It sucks, but it is what it is.

This restaurant should really consider a re-brand. None of the things I want to associate together.

The needs of different clients regarding the “Boyfriend Experience” are multifold. Most want penetrative sex as part of the experience, maybe some only want oral or fetish play as the sexual component. Sometimes no sex at all, but usually some form of sex. Often the BFE is geared toward more kissing and hugging and physical intimacy in addition to the sex itself. But all BFE clients have needs beyond sex - for companionship, understanding, compassion, connection, and acceptance. That may come in the form of conversation over dinner or sharing in the client’s non-sexual hobby. Cuddling in bed before/after. Being seen, heard and respected.
One of my clients sees me for a combination of things. He likes to be massaged for part of his time which is great. I spank him and he ultimately gets off to that part which is how we typically end, but most importantly he sees me to kiss, cuddle, and to be held. We spend most of the session with me holding him in various close contact positions, and he weeps while I do. We alternate between moments of pleasure and moments of comfort, me holding him as he emotes. He likes to be physically dominated, and simulated sex is part of that (basically elements of frottage and wrestling), maybe some teasing his hole with my fingers and mouth here and there, but no actual penetration, says he doesn’t want it. Occasionally he likes to give oral. Those are the most traditional escort-y things we do. The real value to him is what we do beyond those. I don’t pry, but I know that he is a full time caretaker to his older husband and seeing me is his means of relief and reprieve, a sense of escape, and a place for him to relax and be himself. In fact, he often says “thank you for letting me be me”. 
Perhaps some of his need is to mourn the loss of his husband and by extension, loss of sex and a life with relative freedom. My client is clearly very sad and going through loss, even though his husband is still alive. In a way, it’s more difficult to cope because his husband lives on with a very limited physical capacity, leaving my client all the responsibility of marriage without any of the benefits. It’s sad. Seeing me gives him some sense of peace and comfort. For someone to take care of my client for a change. This is just one version of many constituting the “boyfriend experience”. Everyone is a bit different.

thanks, @sam.fitzpatrick and @mike carey for the info!

I’m looking for a male escort to join myself, two other hired men I regularly work with, and my client for a group session at my client’s place.
Please give me your best overall experience recommendations for men currently based and active in San Diego. Looks, body type, and sexual position are unimportant. His rate should be around $300/hr.
He needs to possess the following qualities:
1) reliable 
2) adaptable
3) patient 
4) professional 
5) works well in groups

Esteemed forum member @Oliver generously invites members of Company of Men to the series of events he coordinates/hosts that weekend.  Although most attendees participate here, there are some attendees who do not.  
This is a private event, not one “sponsored” by Company of Men.

To add to Sam's reply, if you search (search box at the top right) for Palm Springs Weekend you will find threads about the 2024 event (and others) that will give you a good idea of what the events are like. You may have to tweek the filters to eliminate threads with the individual words in isolation (there will be some initial options to do that appearing near the top of the results page).
Sorry, I said top left when it's top right of the page. Oops!

Setup an appt for the next morning. He asked to confirm beforehand, I said sure. Texted him an hour before the start time asking if we are good to go (so I could get the address etc.), but no reply!  👻 
I guess 100 is too good to be true. At least he flaked before I drove there haha

I saw him. DM me for details. May hire again but was 15% massage, 85% deli

Zak Spears. Just rediscovered him. Damn he's hot

Took the plunge very thorough and intense/serious massage. I would agree that he is sensual but not erotic, seems to have clear boundaries. But is down for mutual touch etc. He has an incredible body as well and that piece is something else!

Agreed, I had a session with the train-wreck. 

We all make bad decisions sometimes

He’s not str8, he used to date an Israeli train-wreck of a masseur that was featured in Botched.  

https://rentmasseur.com/Aronk
No reviews. Anyone seen him?

https://rentmasseur.com/Aronk
No reviews. Anyone seen him?

Zak Spears. Just rediscovered him. Damn he's hot