Moox

You make a lot of assumptions there. I will reply with more courtesy than you deserve.
 
1. I know the cost of the vaccination and will save for it. But obviously my immediate concern is about transmission status NOW, not any protection conferred in future by vaccination
2. If I was not serious, I would have taken the nurse's comments at face value and would not be bothering to ask Qs
3. I would rather chat here and become informed before resuming an active sex life
4. I don't want pity. I seek advice to not put others at risk. Maybe you don't care like that
5. I am not very bright? What a 'pitty'
 
 

Thanks SirBB for your thoughts. I suppose semen on body, excluding recipient's mouth, *should* be okay - else it would be transmitted by any skin to skin contact like shaking hands or hugging. 
I know some of you may be shouting FGS JUST SIT IT OUT FOR A BIT! But as said above (without wanting to be going too much all poor me😂) I don't really have much else to look forward to. Don't drink anymore, don't smoke, never done drugs and we all need something to look forward to. 

Thanks SirBB for your thoughts. I suppose semen on body, excluding recipient's mouth, *should* be okay - else it would be transmitted by any skin to skin contact like shaking hands or hugging. 
I know some of you may be shouting FGS JUST SIT IT OUT FOR A BIT! But as said above (without wanting to be going too much all poor me😂) I don't really have much else to look forward to. Don't drink anymore, don't smoke, never done drugs and we all need something to look forward to. 

Hello friends. Last week I had a tiny lesion on the penile skin frozen off. The nurse says it was a wart (though I am wondering if it was a skin tag, I have a tendency for those and they appear in warm areas). I asked her when I can be sexually active again and she said as soon as the wart is gone. But I go to lots of parties and condoms are not that effective against it, I don't think. I am aware that a fair few men at the parties are in other relationships, with all genders. The odd one or two are married to females and not out at all in daily life. I hate the thought of passing it on and wrecking a relationship. How long do I have to wait? Or is that it, game over? The thought of that depresses me greatly. Life is a bit rough and the occasional, once a month or so, partying is the only thing I look forward to.
 
Any advice would gratefully received.

Hello friends. Last week I had a tiny lesion on the penile skin frozen off. The nurse says it was a wart (though I am wondering if it was a skin tag, I have a tendency for those and they appear in warm areas). I asked her when I can be sexually active again and she said as soon as the wart is gone. But I go to lots of parties and condoms are not that effective against it, I don't think. I am aware that a fair few men at the parties are in other relationships, with all genders. The odd one or two are married to females and not out at all in daily life. I hate the thought of passing it on and wrecking a relationship. How long do I have to wait? Or is that it, game over? The thought of that depresses me greatly. Life is a bit rough and the occasional, once a month or so, partying is the only thing I look forward to.
 
Any advice would gratefully received.

Thanks all, it is frustrating that trying to do the right thing gets nowhere with strict NHS/NICE guidelines. The 45 age limit is arbitrary - and the increase in STDs in 40-70yr olds in the UK shows it is also wrongly assuming that people in this age group are not very active. Added to that, people in our age group will not have had it as routine at school.
Looks like I had better start saving to get it privately...And get used to 2 years celibacy. 😞
Thanks all for your help and comments.

Hello friends. Last week I had a tiny lesion on the penile skin frozen off. The nurse says it was a wart (though I am wondering if it was a skin tag, I have a tendency for those and they appear in warm areas). I asked her when I can be sexually active again and she said as soon as the wart is gone. But I go to lots of parties and condoms are not that effective against it, I don't think. I am aware that a fair few men at the parties are in other relationships, with all genders. The odd one or two are married to females and not out at all in daily life. I hate the thought of passing it on and wrecking a relationship. How long do I have to wait? Or is that it, game over? The thought of that depresses me greatly. Life is a bit rough and the occasional, once a month or so, partying is the only thing I look forward to.
 
Any advice would gratefully received.